My parents’ house was demolished for RMB 800,000. My mother asked me to go home and get the money. I don’t want it. What do you think about this?

I have three sisters, among whom I am the youngest. The parents insisted on having three children because they just wanted to have a son. But things went against their expectations. When I was born, my parents had no choice but to accept the reality of three daughters and stopped worrying about it.

When I was a little older, my mother whispered that she would recruit a son-in-law for me in the future. At that time, I didn’t quite understand that my parents had placed the task of recruiting a son-in-law on me. My parents hope that I will continue the family tradition and keep me by their side when they grow old so that they will not be lonely.

Maybe I have the heavy responsibility of recruiting a son-in-law. My parents are very good to me, and my two sisters also take good care of me. They basically do all the hard work at home.

My two sisters were not as good as me in studying. After graduating from junior high school, they went to a nearby technical school, entered society early, got married early, started a family and had children.

I later entered a normal university. During my college years, my two sisters often supported me financially. After graduating from university, I passed the teacher qualification and taught in a middle school.

While working, I met my husband Jiang Ming, who also teaches in a middle school. My husband’s family is from a rural area and we have three brothers. My parents are conscientious people and have a good upbringing. I like to play basketball and don’t have any bad habits.

When I was looking for Jiang Ming, I actually had some small calculations in my mind. I just hoped that Jiang Ming could satisfy my parents' wish to marry into my family. But I have never dared to mention this matter to Jiang Ming. Firstly, I was afraid of hurting his self-esteem, but also because I was afraid that if Jiang Ming disagreed, I would lose him.

A year after my husband and I fell in love, I brought Jiang Ming home. My mother put the matter of marrying into the family with her boyfriend on the table, and of course she raised it tactfully at first. But my husband is a smart man and heard it. My husband was very embarrassed. He said that he was fine and that his son-in-law and son were no different now, but he was worried that his parents would not agree.

When the parents met, my husband’s father readily agreed. I think my father-in-law agreed to this matter because he may have too many sons to take care of. So my parents proposed that my husband must agree to two conditions if he wants to marry me: first, he must marry into my family, and second, the first child born after marriage must bear my family name. Third, we must bear the responsibility for old-age care in the future.

My mother wasted no time in revealing the news to my husband that my family was going to be evicted, saying that if my husband married into the family, my husband and I would inherit the family property from now on.

Soon we got married. After I got married, I gave birth to a boy. My husband kept his word and the baby had my last name. He felt that it was his child anyway, and it didn't matter whose last name he had.

I am grateful to my husband. I often go to my parents-in-law’s place to talk to the elderly and go shopping with my mother-in-law. My parents-in-law and I have a pretty good relationship. During the Chinese New Year last year, I gave birth to another boy. My parents-in-law were finally overjoyed and took the initiative to help me take care of the child. The family lived in harmony.

Last month, my mother’s village was relocated, and the demolition money for the family’s old house and fields was about 800,000 yuan.

My parents really wanted me to inherit the money as they said at the beginning. They planned to buy a house in the town and kept 200,000 for themselves, and all the remaining money belonged to me.

After much thought, I couldn’t do this because it would make my sister sad. My two sisters did not live a wealthy life after marriage, but my life was relatively good. I proposed to divide the remaining money into four parts, leaving one share for my parents for retirement and one share for each of us three sisters.

Unexpectedly, after I expressed my idea, my parents firmly disagreed. They said that the child I gave birth to would carry on the family line, and the family property should be given to the child. The two sisters are the spoils of the married daughter, so it makes no sense to inherit the property.

My mother has urged me to go home and get money three times, but I always used the excuse that I was busy at work. Because my parents favored me, my two sisters had already had a serious quarrel with their parents, saying that my parents' life and death had nothing to do with them.

My mother called me again and asked me to go home and get the money. I used the excuse of an activity organized by my work unit and didn't go home. But my mother called me three times in succession, telling me that she would personally send me the money in a few days, but I couldn't persuade her.

My husband is also a very emotional person and felt that this was not the solution. He gave me an idea and said: Why don’t you take the money first and then give the two sisters’ money to them and say it’s you? Mom asked me to send it.

In this way, the relationship between the two sisters and their parents can be eased. Even if they know that I made the decision in the future, they will not blame me.

After much thought, I can only do this. Friends, do you think it is appropriate for me to do this? But I still have a little concern. What if my sister takes the money and doesn't support her parents in the future? (