Do you want a second child or not? Make this decision with no regrets.

Since the liberalization of the second child policy, many mothers around me have already given birth to a second child. There are also some mothers who are hesitant to have a second child.

I have decided not to have a second child based on the actual situation, but I have always felt a little sorry. I like children. Every time I see a stroller passing by in the street, I can't help but look at the cute inside.

My daughter has just entered junior high school, and she has tasted the ups and downs all the way. Being a mother for the first time has taken many detours. Looking back on the education of children in the past, there are many bad places. Sometimes she will feel guilty that some of her words and deeds may have hurt her children unconsciously. At this time, I will want to have another child, and I will definitely do better, so although I have decided not to have a second child, I am still reluctant to give up the opportunity to be a mother again.

By chance, I saw an abandoned puppy beside the garbage dump in the community. I touched it somewhere and took it home. The puppy may have just had a full moon, although the mud all over can't hide its cuteness.

Give it a bath, blow dry and wrap it in a towel. This little guy is really cute.

Because my daughter went to another city to study in junior high school, she usually only gets together on weekends, so I am the only one who goes home.

Every day when I come home from work, this little hairy ball will come to meet me, making this somewhat deserted hut full of fun. I named him Doudou.

I've never had a puppy. When Doudou has all kinds of problems, he quickly studies online and asks people who keep pets around him. It's a relief to see it alive again.

One day, Doudou didn't know what was wrong and kept barking. I can't find the reason. Like holding a baby, he stroked it and walked around. It quieted down and nestled in my arms.

Seeing that it seemed to be sleeping, I gently put it in the nest. Who knows that people started to cry before they left, and it was past 12 o'clock in the evening. I am exhausted.

In the next few days, I began to think about the days when I got along with Doudou, and there was always a feeling of deja vu.

Suddenly, it's not like my daughter's childhood?

From the first moment I saw it, my heart moved at that moment. Maybe it awakened my feeling of being a mother again like a baby.

My daughter speaks late, and her mouth always emits various tones. And Doudou never barks, always like a daughter who can't talk, like a coquetry.

My daughter has been sick since she was a child, just like this little nurse dog. It is difficult to take care of.

My daughter is used to being hugged by her grandfather. She woke up as soon as she fell asleep. This little Doudou is a bit like this.

Thinking of this, I immediately felt relieved to give up having a second child.

For various reasons, I like children and it is not suitable for me to have a second child, but I can't help but imagine that I am more experienced and have learned a lot now than when I was a mother for the first time. I always think that the next child can use what I have learned and never take detours again.

However, in the process of raising peas, I found many problems. I can't easily cope with the energy spent on adopting peas, let alone being a child.

If I really want another child, I'm afraid I'm too tired to have patience. Every child is different, and the educational methods I have learned may not be of much use. At that time, I didn't know how long my beautiful vision could last. After all, I am not young.

I wonder if other people's puppies are as easy to raise as other people's children. This little Doudou is as abrasive as my daughter was when she was a child.

Maybe it was sent by heaven to tell me not to regret it. There is no problem with the choice I made according to my own situation. I have been growing up with my children and I am a qualified mother.

If you want a second child, you are not sure if you are really ready. And this is a very important decision, which needs special care. After all, once a child is born, it can't be stuffed back or given away.

The objective factors suitable for life are everyone's standards, and everyone's personal situation and family situation are different, so you will naturally choose.

It's just that you're not sure if your heart is really ready, or you can't let go of your decision.

Then get a small nurse dog, and then make a decision in a few months, whether it is appropriate or not, then you won't have any anxiety and regret in your heart.

However, puppies are very humanized animals. Before raising them, be sure to be prepared for lifelong companionship, or have the right person put them up for adoption. Don't abandon them.