6 1 10,000 left-behind children's wailing tore up maternal love and homesickness.

6 1 10,000 left-behind children's wailing tore up maternal love and homesickness.

On 17, Sister Zhi said that her son couldn't help crying.

17, Qionglai hometown, mother has returned to the city, Fengfeng had to watch cartoons with her.

16, Fengfeng left her mother.

The Spring Festival begins to draw to a close. After a brief excitement, the countryside began to recover. Parents return to the city, children stay, and family ties are torn again. February 16, in Ruilin Village, Lin Ji Town, Qionglai, Chengdu, Xiaofeng chased his mother who was about to return to work in the city, crying "You can't do this to me" and burst into tears. Reporter Wu Xiaochuan happened to be here. He froze the picture with his mobile phone. This scene has become the most worrying moment of this new year. Pictures spread quickly on the Internet. Hit the softest part of countless people's hearts: torn maternal love and torn homesickness. The next day, the reporter visited the separated mother and son again, and restored the "Chengdu mirror image" under the background of 6 1 10,000 rural left-behind children. ...

Frozen homesickness

February 16, Lunar New Year's Day, Ruilin Village, Lin Ji Town, Qionglai City, Chengdu. The 40-year-old single mother Zhi Hongyu returned to work in the city and had to spend a short time with her 7-year-old son Feng Feng. This separation of mother and child injuries has concentrated and fixed the present situation of left-behind children in rural areas of China.

Torn feelings

"You can't do this to me!" Fengfeng has been trying to hold her mother, and her voice is howling or even growling, which is tantamount to a whip.

However, this kind of crying soaked with tears seems to be difficult to break through the tears.

Gaze at history

Late at night on February 17, at the entrance of Chengdu Camp, Ruilin Village, Qionglai. The reporter from Huaxi Daily paid a return visit to the mother and son who have become the focus of attention of the world. They are unusual, unusual. Their life situation is embarrassing.

A mother with a hard life became a single mother when her son was a baby.

Last night 1 1, at the gate of the camp. The rental house is less than 10 square meter, and the entrance is a simple bed on the left. At the head of the bed is a 14 inch old TV, and next to it is a simple table with leftovers. Newspapers and clothes are piled up everywhere in the room, which is messy and full of musty smell.

Here, 40-year-old Zhi Hongyu's home is in the city, which also carries Xiaofeng's memories of the city-the laughter and laughter that lived with her mother and the happiness that city people are not good at.

Childbirth

Before the age of 25, Zhi Hongyu had been farming in his hometown of Pingle, Qionglai, and his rural life was monotonous and poor. This year, with the dream of a city, she and others came to Chengdu. After being introduced, she became a newsboy and worked in the distribution companies of several newspapers.

Later, she met her boyfriend Li Jun (a pseudonym), and later, she was pregnant with Xiaofeng. In May 2008, she followed Li Jun to give birth in Guiding County, Guizhou Province. Xiaofeng died shortly after the earthquake. After the full moon, she and Li Jun returned to Chengdu again and continued to sell newspapers. Later, she broke up with Li Jun. When Xiaofeng was about four months old, she began to deliver newspapers again.

On the one hand, I want to complete the daily newspaper delivery task and deliver newspapers to every household. On the other hand, Xiaofeng is still young and needs to be taken care of. What shall we do? Fortunately, at this time, Xiaofeng can already sit up. She bought a piece of cloth, made it into a baby, wrapped Xiaofeng, wrapped it around her body and put it on her chest. Then, I got on the battery car, went to the place where newspapers were distributed and got my own newspaper. Then I got on the battery car, walked to the newspaper delivery area, stopped the battery car, held the child in one hand and the newspaper in the other, climbed the stairs, sent, sent, climbed the stairs, sent ... Life passed like this.

keep the baby

It's just that Xiaofeng is getting heavier and heavier. The thin mother found it more and more difficult to climb the stairs. At the age of one year and four months, Li Jun took the child away for two months. Zhi Hongyu felt uneasy and held Xiaofeng back. There are more and more subscribers and more and more newspapers, 200, 300, 400 and 500. The battery car can't be pulled at one time. Colleagues felt a little sad when they saw her with her children, and took the initiative to help her pull the newspaper to the delivery area.

If you live in a city, you should look like a city person. June 20 10, Xiaofeng's second birthday. On this day, Zhi Hongyu came back from subscribing to the newspaper, specially went to a cake shop, bought a cake, opened the box at home, put on a simple folding table, inserted two candles, and reflected Xiao Feng's face, shining in dark eyes. Her son called her mother, and her mother smiled happily. Then she blew out the candle and cut a cake for her son to eat. ...

After her third birthday, Zhi Hongyu sent Xiaofeng to a nearby kindergarten. Zhi Hongyu is always complained by kindergarten teachers because he always doesn't take dolls on time. At this time, she could only smile and try to explain, but in the end she failed to speak.

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In addition to kindergarten, mother and son are inseparable. In this city, mother and son live together, and children can't leave her step.

Occasionally, when the subscription task is not tense, Zhi Hongyu takes Xiaofeng to Jinniu Park. In front of the pool, she picks up the vendor's fishing rod and takes her son to fish goldfish. Goldfish catch two yuan each. At this time, mother and son think this city is really good.

Soon, Xiaofeng reached the age of primary school. But Xiaofeng was born out of wedlock and didn't even have a hukou, so he couldn't go to school. Zhi Hongyu decided to send him back to Qionglai to study.

She felt very uncomfortable after her son left. When I got up in the morning, it was still very quiet. When I opened the quilt, I remembered that my son had disappeared. Then, when the newspaper arrives, I will call Qionglai's parents at dawn, but the children have gone to school.

Last summer vacation, Zhi Hongyu took Xiaofeng to Chengdu. In June, on Xiaofeng's birthday, Zhi Hongyu invited several guests and cooked a hot pot outside. The weather is very hot and Xiaofeng is very happy. During the summer vacation, Xiaofeng followed his mother to send newspapers and order newspapers, and let him stay in the rental house and watch TV. He refused. He fell asleep in the morning, and Zhi Hongyu sent the newspaper back. I heard the room crying and opened the door. Xiao Feng threw himself into her arms and pulled her clothes. ...

When school started, Xiaofeng was sent back to Qionglai. Zhi Hongyu bought him roller skates, thinking that the child would have something to play with and would not miss her so much. On the day of seeing him off, she said a lot of good things. She promised to return to Qionglai early for the Spring Festival and stay with him for a long time ... 20 16, Year of the Monkey.

At this moment, there are more than 6 1 10,000 people.

At present, there is no official statement on the statistical caliber and latest data of left-behind children in China. The statistical data in the Report on Left-behind Children released by the All-China Women's Federation in 20 13 is widely quoted: there are 610.26 million left-behind children in rural areas of China.

Road idiot M Road: As a person who has been staying at home since I was 7 years old, this feeling is really unbearable. Even if I am a senior three, I will feel sad for several days every time my parents leave!

Stop it, turtle: I cried my heart out a few years ago, then I stood upstairs and watched their backs cry silently, and then I hid under the bed and shed a tear. In the first few years of my adulthood, I looked down on it. If you want to leave as an adult, then leave. Goodbye, I will try to make money to support you, but I can't give you more (such as companionship and love). Now I read psychology books in my spare time to solve the psychological problems left over from my childhood. ...

Xianli 198502:80 The younger generation feels the same! Guyizi: Actually, the saddest thing is my parents. I can cry loudly, but I see my parents secretly wiping their tears.

Beautiful Destiny _42326: I hope there are no left-behind children in the world. Mei Niu Mei Niu: I was like this when I was a child. I chased the bus, and my parents didn't dare to look back when I got on it. I'm scared. I can't help it. When I grew up, I heard from my father that every time he and his mother went to town after the Chinese New Year, they all cried in the car, but because of life, there was no way. ...

Tap me gently: children grow up in loneliness, and parents grow old in loneliness.

Lonely son

You can only see your mother once a year.

In Ruilin Village, Lin Ji Town, Qionglai, along the country road, an inconspicuous two-story farmhouse is Fengfeng's home.

17 night, 10, Huaxi newspaper reporter stepped into the shutter door. There are hoes, pesticide boxes and other farm tools in the room, as well as baskets of radishes and sweet potatoes that have just been picked from the ground. A small square table in the corner is littered with winter vacation homework and term papers.

At this time, Fengfeng is watching TV on the second floor. There is no window on the balcony, and a gust of wind blows, and Fengfeng can't help shivering. His small dark hand was frostbitten and chapped.

After leaving, just say "I want to see my mother"

Feng Feng obviously doesn't want to say more about what happened the day before. "I want to see my mother." He blinked and repeated the sentence. Then, my head turned to TV.

His favorite program is Hua and Xiong, and he often sits in front of the TV for more than an hour. He has few friends.

There are 4 1 students in the class, and most of the parents are in the town. There are different ways to travel to school, such as by car, by car, on foot, and often accompanied by my mother. Fengfeng always goes to school by bus alone. The last bus had left after school that day, so he had to walk home. Along the way, no one went the same way, so he walked and walked. After 40 minutes, he finally went home ... My mother in Chengdu didn't know about it, but he didn't tell her either.

He can only see his mother once a year. Worried that Fengfeng would break his new mobile phone, grandma almost wouldn't let him call his mother. Mom's phone calls home are also pitiful. Occasionally grandma asked Fengfeng to answer the phone, but he deliberately hid aside. "I don't want to say anything." Fengfeng's behavior made grandma feel "eccentric".

I never left my mother at the reunion.

Xiaofeng has been looking forward to her mother. Finally, the Spring Festival is here, and my mother is back. Xiaofeng threw herself into her mother's arms. Fengfeng was so happy that he never went out to play with his friends again and never left his mother. Watching TV and eating wine bowls, no matter what you do, Fengfeng talked a lot in those days. In the early years, my mother bought an electronic organ for my sister. Fengfeng also secretly learned "Two Tigers" and performed it when my mother came back. "The son is great!" His mother's praise flattered him.

In the evening, my mother slept with Fengfeng in her arms on the bed transformed from her relatives' old sofa. Those nights, Fengfeng slept with special peace of mind.

The day before yesterday, Zhi Hongyu went to Pingle to play with Xiaofeng and bought him a watch of 15 yuan, which he regarded as a treasure. "You must not be late for school in the future."

Growing up, he didn't buy a toy. I have never been to the zoo or the amusement park. I just followed my mother to Pingle Ancient Town for half a day. Out of a child's curiosity, he especially wanted to play boating, but he tried not to tell his mother. "There are many scenes (more troubles)!" Fengfeng sounds like an adult.

On the day of departure

The mother ran away in tears, and the son chased a mile.

A friend's hitchhiking is waiting outside the house. 16 at 3 pm, Zhi Hongyu is ready to go out.

Xiaofeng aside and didn't speak. Zhi Hongyu took his son: "You should be good in the house and listen to your grandparents." Xiao Feng stood still and said nothing.

When Zhi Hongyu went out, Xiaofeng followed. The car stopped at the roadside in front of the house. Zhi Hongyu opened the car door, got on the bus and turned to his son: "Mom went to work. Be good at home. Mom will take you to Chengdu during the summer vacation. " Said, and stretched out his hand and opened the door.

At this time, Xiaofeng, who had been silent, suddenly rushed over, took her mother's hand and began to cry. Grandpa planted Maolin, and grandma Xie Zhongqiong hurried to pull it. Xiaofeng struggled and cried, "Don't be a good girl! I'm leaving! I'm leaving! You can't do this to me! " Choking and screaming.

Xiaofeng was finally caught by the old man. Zhi Hongyu quickly opened the door and the driver stepped on the accelerator to escape.

Seeing the car go far, Zhi Maolin and Xie Zhongqiong let go of Xiaofeng. Unexpectedly, Xiaofeng ran in the direction of the car and shouted, "I want to go, I want to go." Zhi Maolin quickly shouted to the people on the roadside: "Help me stop!" Xiaofeng ran very fast, ran a mile, and was finally stopped by everyone.

In the car, Zhi Hongyu's eyes were red and her eyes were wet, but she smiled and said, "Our place is still good" and "the air is better than Chengdu" ... Xiaofeng didn't talk all night. It was late. Zhi Maolin told Xiaofeng to sleep, and Xiaofeng didn't sleep with grandpa. He ran to the room where his mother had stayed before, and he wanted to sleep alone. "It's so quiet that I can concentrate on my mother." Fengfeng said that he especially wants to write a letter to his mother now, but he is worried that he can't send it. There is only one sentence in the letter: "Mom, can you come back?"

These words, Fengfeng never told his grandparents, and never told his friends. He wrote it on paper and in his homework.

In a crumpled test paper exercise, reading the article "The Adventures of Little Cloth Head" needs to imitate "What else can Little Cloth Head become?"

On the horizontal line is crooked pencil handwriting-"Little cloth head turned into a car running on the road, and little ant Doudou took the car to a far, far place with his parents and lived a good life."

Without childhood, you must go through separation.

Qionglai is only100km away from Chengdu. However, it is such a two-hour drive that Fengfeng has to bear the tears of leaving her mother prematurely, and it has also become one of the 6 1 10,000 left-behind children in China. This is true for short trips, not to mention the pain of staying in other regions and provinces. Maybe they can't really understand or understand the complicated reasons for this "helpless" separation, and even have conflicts with their parents' "cruel" hearts, but every time Fengfeng separates, the crying and hopeful eyes can't really make people turn back.

Parents make a living outside, while children stay in the countryside. This has already become another kind of "homesickness" in this mobile era. We still don't know how this left-behind experience will affect Fengfeng's life track, and what kind of mentality will he take when he grows up? And when the tears and sufferings of such a left-behind childhood are multiplied by 6 1 10,000, what weight will it give back to the society in a few years? Perhaps no one can give a specific answer yet, but this is what everyone has to face after all.

There are many reasons for wandering and staying behind, which are specific to each family's own reasons, the hardships of life, and various tangible or intangible thresholds and obstacles for children to move with them. However, no matter how "difficult" and "involuntary", the joys, sorrows and uncertain fate of these hundreds of millions of people are actually deeply embedded in the black and white background of the urban-rural dual society that is still in transition.

Perhaps because of this, on February 14, four days ago, the State Council issued the Opinions on Strengthening the Care and Protection of Left-behind Children in Rural Areas, clearly stating that strengthening the care and protection of left-behind children in rural areas and safeguarding the legitimate rights and interests of minors is an important responsibility of governments at all levels, as well as the responsibility of families and the whole society.

No childhood must go through separation; No one will choose to be indifferent in the whining sound like Fengfeng. But only emotional touch and infection can still be of no help. Therefore, Feng Feng's reprimand or pleading, "You can't do this to me", is actually for the sake of more left-behind children like him, and should be heard by more people and responded faster by more, louder and more positive voices.