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Talk about real life.

The life I yearn for, hope and expect is really different from real life. When you are tired, you have no expectation for life. I just hope that I can live this life peacefully and not be bound by anyone.

Talk about real life.

I am your little monster, but you will never be my Altman, because they can never be together.

Second, many failures are not because of limited talent, but because they did not persist in the end.

Third, people are tired because they often hesitate between persistence and giving up.

Fourth, I feel very tired when I come to school, and I have to face all kinds of people.

If you are tired, why don't you have a rest? Turn yourself into that insignificant dust, float past and enjoy the short silence after landing!

Six, sick, crazy, first there is doubt, and now it is clarified that there is wool. People pay attention to the process rather than the result, because those years are really hard and tiring, so come back to real life.

Seven, there are many reasons not to love in the world: busy, tired, inappropriate, for your own good. And there is only one expression of love: I just want to be with you.

I've been very busy, annoyed and stressed recently. The pace of life has become very fast and compact, and many things have passed before thinking about it. I am a person who especially doesn't want others to fight for things, but the tree should be calm. In real life, I have to deal with those who insist on fighting with you. I'm so bored and tired! Hope to associate with fellow travelers!

Nine, a lonely person, you will never feel how lonely he is, he simply appears in your life and simply disappears.

10. No one can replace you. This is the taste of regret.

Eleven, how many secrets those painters hid in their oil paintings can make countless people stare sadly and quietly for a long time.

Before enlightenment, fish should fly and birds should dive. After enlightenment, there are clouds in the sky and water in the bottle.

Thirteen, spending money is still very tiring. Let's study with peace of mind. Everything is empty. Let's do something real. I need to face the real life, I don't want to play games, and I have no liver. In Tamamo no Mae for five hundred days, I really want to leave Pingan.

We are tired because we often hesitate between persistence and giving up. The reason why we are worried is that our memory is too good. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in memory. We suffer because we pursue too much; We are unhappy because we expect too much. It's not that we have too little, but that we care too much.

Fifteen, the heart is tired to a certain extent, and even the strength to be angry is gone.

Sixteen, love love, love love, you are so tired every day.

17. Everything that happened was like shooting a TV series, but when it happened in real life, I felt very helpless and tired.

18. What is the concept of mental fatigue? I don't know. I don't know. I believe that mental fatigue is much more tiring than physical exertion. When you are overworked, you can have a good sleep and wake up fine. But what if people are tired? Is it okay to really have a good sleep? I don't think so.

Nineteen, star gossip, I am really disgusted. Make countless money, spend money willfully, and feel casual. Marriage is a joke! Look at me. I feel tired. I seemed to be like this in my last life. Naturally, I will live in another way in this life, but there is no way to escape the harm of parting. Whether you like it or not, this is the case in real life. Therefore, we can only learn to look down on everything!

Those who believe that love is the only salvation in life deserve to be lonely.

Twenty-one, people will rest when they are tired; When you are tired, just calm down. When you grow up and mature, this society will see through.

Twenty-two, tired, depressed, confused, hesitant, depressed, annoyed, complaining, inferior, can see the world from another angle; Then there would be no such problem in real life. The so-called look at the world from another angle or take a deep breath in another environment, think from another angle and solve it with another thinking; Look at the problem from another angle or treat it from another angle. These are all to find comfort for yourself!

Twenty-three, sometimes I feel stupid, I don't like to fight for credit, I don't like to say beautiful words, I don't like to climb through others, and I don't like to fiddle with all the survival skills that can live better in this world. It's not that I'm not smart enough, but that I think it's better to be down-to-earth than to show off my intelligence, and hard work is better than hypocrisy. But how many people like such people in real life. Where is the motivation when the heart is tired?

24. With expectation and curiosity, I earnestly learned to look up at the sky at a pure 45-degree angle from Primary Four, but I didn't cry when I really did it.

Twenty-five, in real life, a lot of fatigue is not physical fatigue but mental fatigue; A lot of pain in life is not physical pain, but heartache. Sometimes the road in the world can only be walked by one person, and sometimes the wounds in the heart can only be raised by one person, and the persistent heart will be broken. When a person is tired, he has the right to choose to rest. When a heart aches, he has reason to let go.

26. People are tired because they often wander between persistence and giving up.

Twenty-seven years old, I still expect to meet more people with the same three views in real life, afraid of being tired and not being able to talk together. Life is already bitter, and it needs a little relaxation and sweetness.

28. Why do I feel restless, full of expectations for the future, ignorant of the future and helpless in real life? Really tired, I dare not think about whether I can continue to work hard and struggle in the future.

29. I feel troubled by depression recently. Every day, I am only happy in my dreams. Real life makes me sigh. Sleepy, I want to sleep for 24 hours on weekends, but I don't know what to do when I'm tired.

Thirty years old, my heart is tired, and I don't even have the strength to quarrel and bicker.

Learn to treat some things lightly, which is the best protection for yourself.

Thirty-two years old, my heart is so tired, how can the scars of my heart be healed, and how can the tears in my eyes be dried? If you have more injuries and enough pain, your heart will not hurt, because you are numb; It's late at night, in the dark night, I always secretly wipe away the tears in my eyes.

33. The person I like doesn't like me! Yi, you are the only one for me and the eternal goddess in my heart! From the day I became friends with you to today, I have never stopped thinking about you. Heartache, broken

Thirty-four, there is no Mito Xiu Xiu in real life, but there is restraint exercise; There is no chicken soup for the soul anywhere, but there are choices and persistence. People who have a bad life in real life, no matter how beautiful they are online, will also aggravate mental fatigue; In reality, people who can't push themselves, watch more chicken soup for the soul and look for the true meaning of life, are all beating around the bush.

Thirty-five, you are really naked jealous. That's disgusting. Jealousy can make people ugly. You must have had a hard time in real life.

36. I'm not arrogant, I'm not fooling around, I'm just tired of those dependencies that may be lost at any time.

Thirty-seven, tired. I wish I could find a hand I can trust and rest assured to calm my heart, but I don't. I'm not a coward, I'm strong, do you understand?

38. Sometimes I forget my original intention after idolizing. There are too many bad worries about rice circles, and occasionally I think they didn't come to China for development. After all, rice circles are really easy to get tired. For more than ten years, the traffic is definitely not as good as the popularity group, but I have been firmly fond of them for so many years. When I grow up, I find that real life is far from perfect. They are my last piece of pure land. Idolize wants to be happy, but I try to see Aidou when he has a performance, and I support him when there are activities. That's all I can do. Life is much more than that. I feel very, very tired because I am surrounded by grass and trees. I often feel that I am not worthy of cooking a meal. When I look at the ranking of the list, I hope I can have a job, work hard and play the list day and night. But the end result is that both sides are not doing well, so what is my original intention? Really forgot, that heart that simply likes them. I don't want to admit that I am old, or I am old, or I am old.

I won't always think about you. In fact, you really don't know me, maybe because you love me too much. It's me. I am looking forward to tomorrow. I was thinking about you. Sometimes I feel that I have never been with you in real life. I will think of you everywhere. Maybe you don't understand. I am very tired, very tired, really distressed and helpless. How long have I been waiting for you? I still don't understand why. Am I wrong?

Forty, Lao Wu said that chicken soup for the soul is for those who are full and have nothing to do, and those who can't solve the problem of food and clothing have no time to be melodramatic. A lot has happened recently, and the most ordinary problems really can't be expressed in words. I am too busy to open the glue. If I write it, it's just a running account in real life. Problems that I can't solve, problems that make me anxious, and problems that I can't say are full of my life. Mental exhaustion ...

Forty-one, dealing with illness every day is really disgusting. My child has been ill since winter, and so has my husband. I'm so sad, so sad. Every day is very tired, my heart is very tired, my body is very tired, and real life is not happy at all. I was defeated by real life.

Forty-two, people, in the red dust, sometimes feel very tired! Tired feeling is an unspeakable taste, sometimes it feels helpless, sour and bitter.

Forty-three, alas, many broken things in real life are so tired that I miss my brother who will make me laugh.

Forty-four, the so-called maturity is a smile that you should cry and make trouble but don't talk.

Forty-five, sad? Heartache? Are you tired? Is your heart dead? Shall I tell you? I went through this when I liked you, okay?

46. Mental fatigue stems from dissatisfaction with real life and fear of unknown life.

Sentences tired of real life

First, many failures are not because of limited talent, but because they have not persisted in the end.

Second, learning to look down on some things is the best protection for yourself.

Before I realized it, fish wanted to fly and birds wanted to dive. After enlightenment, there are clouds in the sky and water in the bottle.

Fourth, I'm not arrogant or fooling around. I'm just tired of people who may lose their dependence at any time.

People who believe that love is the only salvation in life deserve to be lonely.

Sixth, we always meet the best love at the age when we know least about love.

Seven, people are always contradictory, eager to understand, and afraid of being seen through.

Eight, feelings need to be understood and cherished, and life needs to be simple and calm.

Nine, there is no trouble in the world. If there are many things to worry about, there will be trouble.

Ten, sad love songs are repeated on demand, and tired hearts are bound. I want to live alone in the future.

Love is a song in life that can never be sung.

Love, love, love, you are so tired every day.

Thirteen, there are many reasons not to love in the world: busy, tired, inappropriate, for your own good. And there is only one expression of love: I just want to be with you.

I am your little monster, but you will never be my Altman, because they can never be together.

Fifteen, the so-called maturity is a smile that you should cry and make trouble but don't talk.

I hope your efforts will not be disappointed, and my loneliness will not be wasted.

17. cherish the person who came back to you after a big fight with you.

Eighteen years old, youth is fleeting, running water under the bridge.

19. Being sincere to someone may not be rewarded, but the person you ignore may be the most true to you. Many things can be met but not sought; Many things can only be owned once in a lifetime. In the years, remember what you can't forget; In life, if you can't persist, give up. Life is an experience. Happy is happy. What suits you is the best.

Twenty, we always care too much about ourselves in the eyes of others and finally forget what we look like.

Twenty-one light years away, I saw the beauty of the prosperous times as soon as you turned around.

Twenty-two, because of complexity, I am afraid of derailment and fear of being hurt. Afraid of losing too much. Because of complexity, we are greedy, we want to have it, we rack our brains and even try to get it for nothing. In fact, our world was originally simple, but people's complex thoughts made this society horrible, helpless and mercenary.

Twenty-three, if it is not because I love you, how can I sigh inadvertently?

24. I am not arrogant or fooling around, but I am tired of all dependence.

The cruel reality is that we are still together. If you find what you want, we will go our separate ways.

Classic sentences tired of real life

First, people will always encounter setbacks, there will be low tides, there will be times when they are not understood, and there will be times when they have to feel inferior. These are precisely the most critical moments in life. At such a moment, we need to wait patiently and confidently, believing that life will not abandon you and fate will not abandon you. I can't stand loneliness and can't see prosperity.

Second, please believe in yourself, accept and like yourself. Be sure to make yourself what you really like. If what you want to do is not the way your elders control you, or the way society defines you, please stand up bravely for yourself, gently overthrow the world, and then turn the world into ours.

Third, understand a truth: a small favor and a small benefit is a big pit. As long as you accept it, you must find opportunities to repay it. What is paid for it is the simple relationship between seeds and fruits. Don't let innocence hurt you. Remember: life is like a play. Everyone is looking for a balance of interests. Only balanced games can be played.

Fourth, if you want to be happy, you should link your life with your goals, instead of obsessing about someone or something, learn to find happiness every day and feel small happiness. We often: give up without seeing hope; Have no confidence in yourself and give up; There are other options, give up; It's too expensive to give up. Giving up is too easy. There are many reasons, but there is only one reason to insist-I want it.

5. At this embarrassing age, I began to care about my parents, but I didn't want to say it. I want to spend more time with my parents, but I am more eager to sit in front of the computer; Knowing that parents want to talk to themselves, but they don't know how to answer their questions; I can see that my parents are old, but I am still impatient with their aging. I have always felt guilty, but I still brought them loneliness.

A man wants to own a piece of land of his own. God told him to run outside and plant the flag for a while. As long as he comes back before sunset, all the land covered with flags will be his. The man ran like hell, exhausted before the sun went down, and never got up again. We always want more beautiful things, but we ignore that greed often brings us the truest poverty.

7. Do you have four expressions? One is crazy in front of friends, one is perfect in front of lovers, one is fragile when alone, and the other is quiet in a strange crowd.

8. Do you often have trouble doing things? You are not hard enough on yourself and others. Therefore, you are always sticky, you can't bear to refuse others, you can't make up your mind to make yourself better, you can't extricate yourself from the past ... It's over, you are indecisive, you must be cruel once, otherwise you will never live.

Nine, wandering for a long time, only to know that it is not freedom, the premise of freedom is to help the soul find a shelter; It took me a long time to understand what hard work is. Hard work is not only busy, but also lonely and lonely after the dead of night. Some people, I don't know where they are scattered, become our soul mates; Some things, I don't know when they fade, but we can't be indifferent to loving ourselves. Learn to be kind to yourself and make this cold interpersonal relationship warmer.

Ten, speak with your head, be sensitive and cautious, it is useless to talk too much, the mouth is just a speaker, you must pay attention to supervise and control the FM knob and voice control switch at ordinary times, otherwise it will bring you a lot of trouble. Don't just talk nonsense for a while, thinking that people give you a smiling face as appreciation, and talk endlessly about what you have said, so that people can thoroughly understand their family background. And secretly laughed at you.

11. There is a river in everyone's heart. Time is like water, and it grows into a shore: the left bank is innocent and the right bank is mature; The left bank is soft and the right bank is bleak; The left bank is simple and the right bank is full; The left bank is happiness, and the right bank is life; Colorful dreams live on the left bank, and endless desires live on the right bank; The left bank is full of hope and the right bank is full of struggle. Your blessing is on the left bank, and may your happiness be on the right bank.

Twelve, the top ten in life, the most difficult thing to change is the true color; The hardest thing to say is the truth; The hardest thing to buy is a house; The hardest thing to sell is health; The hardest thing to resist is women; The most difficult thing to adapt to is the price increase; The most difficult thing to keep is money; The most difficult thing to recover is feelings; The most difficult thing to prevent is disease; The hardest thing to accept is this kind of sincere information.

Thirteen, nothing in the world belongs to you forever, including the people you love the most, the children you raised, including your wealth and your body, will eventually return to the dust. We only have the right to use everything in the world, but we have no permanent ownership. Everything in the world is lent to us. Therefore, everything has its source and end, and it cannot be forced. Life is like a passer-by, come with joy and walk happily. Most importantly, seize the opportunity!

14. There are two great pleasures in life. One is exquisite taste, and the other is feeling extremely fulfilled in pursuit. Some people have worked hard all their lives for pleasure, while others have been busy all their lives for rest. People are always pursuing beauty, but they often miss the beauty of the moment. Remember: greed is the truest poverty, and satisfaction is the truest wealth! Wish you a happy life!

Fifteen, some opportunities, because of instant hesitation, passed by; Some predestinations, due to temporary willfulness, slipped through the fingers; Some feelings, because of impulse, regret for life; Cherish everything, don't give up easily, and want to enjoy a happy and perfect life.

Sixteen, don't change your love because of the eyes of others, don't live in the eyes of others and lose yourself! Feelings can't be greedy, nor is it a dream. So, be careful to wait for your earthshaking love. No love is perfect, no relationship is perfect; Love and lover can only be true. You are not the best, but I only love you!

Seventeen, people can only regain the hustle and bustle when they are lonely; Only when you have exhausted your sadness can you see your happy face again; Taste all the bitterness, and naturally it will be sweet. If you believe this, you can face the gap in life more calmly and go through the four seasons. The speaker is free, but life is a long process after all. Every inch of time should be experienced by yourself, and every cup of rain and dew should be tasted by yourself.

18. Treat people in a proper position. You can't always think of yourself as a person, a leader, a rich man, a lover, and a person who has a good impression on yourself. Even if you really make small achievements, you should be cautious, open-minded and stupid. In fact, the final outcome of people is the same, but you must not look at yourself very complicated. As the saying goes, those who cheat you once will never give up the chance to cheat you again, and don't have any illusions about liars. By belittling others to improve their status, they exposed their ignorance and poverty.

Talk about mood sharing with tired sentences in real life.

Talk about sharing feelings about tired sentences in real life;

Life is not easy for people. Don't tire your mind. Life is not long. Don't make yourself desperate.

I'm exhausted and my mind is weak.

It doesn't matter even when you are tired.

Everyone's heart is a drop in the ocean.

Let's ... dream on. I am tired.

You will be tired if you have the heart, but it doesn't matter if you don't have the heart.

Thinking of you when you are tired is actually enough.

I am so tired that I want to cry now.

Cover up fatigue with enthusiasm

In fact, I really want to say that I am so tired that I want to be hugged.

-can't stop, let it abuse!

I am tired. It's time to live our own lives.

My passion was finally killed by your indifference.

No matter how hard I struggle, I can't escape the realistic ending.

There is no such thing as eternity. We are desperate to rush forward, knowing that there is no fate.

Recall the days when we worked together. Can we really be together? Can you really give me happiness?

When your heart is tired, you think you have lost everything, but in fact there is a whole world waiting for you.

After you, I dare not try to please anyone.

|| No matter how hard I try, it doesn't belong to me after all. Let me suffer. Until death.

The more tired I am, the more I want to sleep. The darker it is, the more afraid of ghosts.

The previous oath has now become a lie.

Don't say it if you don't want to, and it's useless to say too much.

Sometimes I feel that my words hurt people, so there is no need to say too much.

How can unimportant people be qualified to share loneliness, but important people dare not disturb them easily?

Now I have learned to let nature take its course and don't want to keep anything. I believe there should be, and I won't go.

I tried to smile and make my mouth rise, but I reached the limit.

I don't want to bother you any more. Forget it if you don't like me. I don't want you to hate me.

We are so far away, only greetings are left. Greetings are still good, at least we have never forgotten each other.

I want to know the difference between you and a lie.

What can't be forgotten is the memory, and what continues is life. What I missed was just passing by.

Every dream has a story, some people stop and some people leave.

What's wrong with love? It can only be a vow that was once too beautiful, and it often won't last forever. I'm too tired to let you go until one day I let you go completely.

Talking too much is all tears. Forgive me for being tired of studying science.

It took me 3 days and 2 nights to finally understand what meaningless thoughts and humble promises are.

No matter how tired a man is, he can't compare with the pain caused by a woman who is hurt by love.

I won't show you my sadness, I'm afraid you can't help laughing.

The day I really let go is my favorite day.

No matter how carefully I walk quietly, I will eventually find that I am just a person exiled by memory.

You told me to wait for me, but I'm so tired.

I'm talking about sober madness, but I'm doing rational stupidity. I like to pay for nothing and look forward to a bleak future.

People with poor memories don't lose a lot of things, do they?

A person's pace is not pursued, and there is no burden.

I'm tired, that's enough. Let go. Well, I don't want to love anymore.

A strong heart will often be defeated by a simple comfort, and then burst into tears.

Locked in your own world, your tolerance is violated.

Do you know the unspeakable pain of watching someone you like surf the Internet, but you can't take the initiative to chat with him?

Sometimes, I really want to escape from my present life.

Too many quarrels make me tired. Maybe I'm tired and don't have much strength and energy to waste. So I will choose silence.

Unreal love, I can't beg any more.

When your heart is weak for a long time, when you are tired for a long time, you know it's time to grow up.

Silly thinking, silly laughing, dull, etc. There is always a person who makes himself lose his mind.

Please laugh at my stupidity in life to get rid of my troubles in this life.

Simple is good, quiet is good, alone is good.

I know, I'm right beside you, far away but inaccessible.

I love you like a beauty, so tired. I still love you as a beauty.

The sky is still so blue, but how many clouds have changed

It's all fake, only you care.

Old to a certain extent.

People are tired because they can't put down their shelves, tear off their faces and untie their complex.

If you can't get into this world, don't squeeze hard. It's hard to humiliate yourself for others. Why bother?

I am always guessing whether you love me or not, and always wondering when you will give up on me. I am really tired.

Sometimes, what you call giving is just a burden, a burden, and a kind of self-love for others.

To whom can the grievances in my heart tell my tears, but you can't see them.

You said you were too tired to fall in love with anyone anymore.

When you are depressed, squat down and hug yourself, forgive others and forgive yourself.

Delete me every time I get angry and don't talk, but make up with me again, very tired.

No heart, no tears, cold heart. Cold tears. Sorry, I'm tired.

Don't tell anyone about loneliness, because they don't understand that loneliness is beyond outsiders' understanding.

I won't be far-fetched, time will be the answer.

Don't test people, you will not only be disappointed, but even despair.

Talk about the feeling of expressing tired sentences in real life:

1, get to know each other, get familiar with each other, care about each other and miss each other. Finally, as time goes by, some people come and go; Some people stay and leave; However, we should know how to cherish every encounter and all the footprints in life.

2. When I met you, I met a touching misty rain. Since then, every bit about you has become a hidden story in my heart. Yunnan is a paradise on earth, because Yunnan has you, and I know my heart and feelings will stay in heaven forever.

3. After crying, clean up your mood and always face others with a beautiful smile; Maybe this is life, maybe this is the truth behind everyone's mask. Who really knows who in this world?

4. Still in a trance, all of a sudden, this fragrant aroma came to my face, and Gui Xiang, who got into his nostrils at once, quickly invaded his whole body, as if it were warm, smooth and wrapped around his body, inexhaustible.

All the roads in the world are made by people. If you don't clear the way, how can you blame others for letting you hit the wall? Anyway, make up your mind and live a wonderful life. A woman who lacks self-worth actually gave up on herself long before being given up by others!

6. On that day, the sound of the west wind rolling curtains took me and you to the hedge path, and the scenery we met created a gorgeous moment. I don't want to go ashore in the ferry of time. The wind sweeps the jade steps, pulls up thoughts, dances the soul, pillows the spring and autumn of time, and waits for you like a starry sky.

7. At that moment, the end of my dream was so soft and spotless. Looking back, the autumn of time is still a faint sunshine. Looking back, youth sang the song of life. Looking back, I cherish and watch winter with quiet years.

8, pain can make people awake, people are suffering when they are alive, which is inevitable for anyone. If you can remember this sentence, you will live stronger and happier. Because you will gradually find that only those who can endure pain when they are awake can have a meaningful life and a respectable personality.

9. Being angry is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. If you are dissatisfied with others, you will suffer if you don't forgive others; Anger can turn small mistakes into disasters and reason into irrationality; Condemnation hurts more than hostility.

10, find a touch of sunshine, bathe heartily, let yourself grow into a lush green tree, learn to turn it into a calm with a touch of smile, no matter how much trouble, bow your head, no matter how deep your desire, know how to give up. On the four tables of life, it is enough to have one or two friends to accompany you to watch the world of mortals drama.

1 1. Keep your head down and work diligently is the right way. Holding your head high will only make you give up halfway. You are young and have no capital to give directions. You must constantly enrich yourself. Only when you are strong enough will you not be trampled by others.

12, with your favorite songs in your headphones, you walk quietly and suddenly feel that the world passes by you in parallel. You feel like you're standing outside the world, looking at the past like a cloud. A kind of relaxation rises from your heart, and your involuntary smile is happiness.

13, happiness in life is not how much you have, but simplicity is the greatest happiness. Life will get better if it is bad to a certain extent, because it can't be bad anymore. A lot of things, if you stick to it, you will survive. Don't envy others, not everyone is so perfect, but you don't see it.

14, time is a pen engraved with all the flavors of life, which engraves the haste in the journey as a milestone in life. Sketching, doodling, experiencing the process of falling and getting up, the pace is in a hurry, and the most real feelings are gradually condensed into a trace.

15, the heart is a locked window. If you don't open it yourself, no one can help you. The heart is a day that runs through the body. You are not hot, no one can heat it for you. The heart is a dream dormant in the soul. If you don't explain your dream, no one can explain it for you.

16. In my memory, your clear face flashes in front of my eyes, and your gentle whisper seems to be still in my ears. Those affectionate eyes always shook me like that, and a kind of love and worship that oozed from my bones captured my heart again and again.

17, according to the shore of time, in the wet heart, plant an idea, wake up in the call of Ying Ge Yanyan, and let it grow into a graceful heart. There is love in the heart, and it is warm everywhere! Forgive the missed time.

18, at a certain stage in life, it is better to accept loneliness. It's rare to be alone when you have all kinds of friends. Stay alone, read, take a walk, or sit somewhere doing nothing.

19, I once said: I don't want to lust after the bright future in the world of mortals. I want to be with you. I'm spoony waiting for a beautiful woman, and now I'm tired of looking at the face before the end of spring, just asking Nanfeiyan to take my heart away.

20. You can control your expression, but you can't control your mood. You can convince others, but you can't comfort yourself. If you can control yourself, how can you miss the vicious circle? If the mind can control itself, how can memories come to mind?