People say, why don't you want to be a stepmother?

Being a stepmother is too hard to lose your temper easily. He will say that I am not your child, so I am not qualified to control me. Even if you have a child, even if you treat him equally, you will make him feel that you are partial, that you are too kind to him, that you are pretending to be his father, that you generally don't give her maternal love, and that you will be said to be cruel to him.