Have you ever been bullied on campus? How did you survive then?

I once met school bullying, who was also a victim.

School is our second home and a good place for students to grow up. In recent years, there have been frequent incidents in school bullying. The word "school bullying" dazzles me too much. I remembered it with a psychological shadow. I thought about how worried I was, and I was bored when I mentioned it. Let me talk about it. Maybe it will enlighten you after reading it.

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Let me share my experience of being bullied first. When I first entered junior high school, the school asked girls to cut their hair short in order to study hard. With my hair cut short, I can't tell it's a boy. However, things began to change at that moment. Because my appearance and personality are like boys, my hair is similar to that of boys, and my personality is not as brave as theirs, but timid. Once, I went to the toilet after class, and suddenly a girl whispered to her little friend, "Hello? How did this man get into the ladies' room? You're not a pervert, are you? "How embarrassed I was when I heard this. I turned a deaf ear to what they said and hurried to the toilet.

After going to the toilet and coming out, several boys I didn't know saw me in the corridor and cast surprised eyes. I don't know why, they started coming to me, saying some ugly things in my ear, even swearing, cursing me and saying that I was not good. I didn't offend them. They did it because I was too timid and felt bullied. One of the boys was very tall and said directly, "I heard a girl say that you are a boy going to the toilet." Is that so? " I panicked at that time. When I wanted to confess, I was interrupted and said angrily, "If anyone sees you like this again, I will never let you go!" " I immediately ran out to cry, but there were so many people that I felt ashamed. So, I went home, lying in bed crying secretly, but I couldn't sleep, and I was very upset.

The next day, I went to the toilet as usual after class. At this moment, I saw several boys I saw yesterday. They are bullying me again. One of the boys picked up his fist and tried to hit me. Suddenly, my good friend Xiao N saw it and stopped the boy's behavior. She shouted, "Leave them alone, I'll take care of them!" "She explained and reasoned with some boys and even asked for an apology. When some boys heard this, they were afraid of being scolded by the teacher and ran away in fear. I thanked Xiao N, and Xiao N said very seriously: "When you meet school bullying in the future, you must stand up and don't swallow it, otherwise your life will suffer again. "

I nodded my head when I heard that. When I meet school bullying in the future, I will stand up and stop bad behavior, and don't add bad atmosphere to the campus.

Second, the influence of victims in school bullying.

School bullying not only caused physical harm to the victims, but also caused psychological trauma. Even if the body recovers, the mind will not forget for a long time. When you meet school bullying, you are prone to anxiety and traumatic sequelae. Anxiety can make life abnormal, make it easy to lose sleep at night, and lead a lifeless life the next day. If you don't control it, your academic performance will decline, which will have a great impact on your future study.

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I thought it was funny and exciting, but I didn't realize the seriousness of school bullying. Perpetrators are habitual, and long-term violence will have a serious impact on the victims for life, thinking that bullying on campus is not illegal? In fact, it is illegal, and it is easy to fall into the quagmire of crime, which smears life.

bystander

Onlookers can also be considered abusers. When they clearly see someone being bullied on campus, they feel that they are doing well, even playing well. Because of their cowardice, they have no ability to stop them or ask adults for help, but it is easy to encourage bullying on campus. There are even mobile phones taking pictures to show off, just rubbing the heat.

Three, in the face of school bullying? Stand up and say "no"

School bullying must not choose not to speak, as nothing happened. School bullying will be bullied the first time, and he will be bullied the second time. Be sure to stand up bravely and shout to them, "No!" " Use the reason why parents are coming to distract them and turn around and run away quickly. If it really doesn't work, you can attract the attention of passers-by with gestures. Otherwise, they will indulge their behavior.

Tell your parents.

Generally speaking, it is useless to tell the teacher, but it is easy to be retaliated by the abuser. When you meet school bullying, you must tell your parents in time, and they will calm your mood. Will reflect to the teacher, * * * to solve the problem.

Protect yourself

When the abuser wants to hit someone, he can block himself with his schoolbag, desk, chair and hand. If you are injured, you should go to treatment in time. Go in and close the door behind you to prevent the perpetrators from entering the invasion.

Make more good friends.

Abusers like to bully withdrawn and silent people. I suggest you open your heart and make good friends. Don't be afraid, make friends with them bravely, express your sincerity and make more good friends. Good friends will naturally help you when you are violated.

Fourth, the conclusion is that school bullying has zero tolerance! Don't let school bullying become a scar on the face of youth! Resolutely oppose the occurrence of school bullying and make the campus a safe and comfortable environment.