Does anyone get married after three in the morning?

Some people get married after three in the morning. In ancient times, there was a saying that people got married after three o'clock. Up to now, people in many places get married after three o'clock.

It is often heard that Chaoshan people pick up their brides in the middle of the night. Married people are exhausted and neighbors are noisy to death. So that such a post appeared on the Internet. My boyfriend is from Chaoshan, and the custom is to pick up the bride at midnight, but when they proposed, they said that the custom was based on Guangzhou, but maybe later my mother-in-law saw that we had a friend in the same situation as us.

But that was to pick up the bride at night, and then they decided to do the same. I told my parents about it, and they said absolutely not, saying that only ghosts go out in the middle of the night and sleep at night. If it is difficult, what should my husband and I do?

I wonder why Chaoshan people always go out at night when they get married. People there said they would go out at this time. Why do they always go out at night and at midnight? Marriage is a good thing. How do you make it look like you didn't go out until midnight? Do you have any friends who can talk about this?

In fact, many Chaoshan people do pick up their brides in the middle of the night, which is called "wedding reception" in the traditional wedding procedure.

The wedding ceremony is the ceremony for the groom to marry the bride at the woman's house, and it is also the most important procedure in the wedding. There are two kinds of old-fashioned weddings: one is the groom's wedding, and the other is that the man invites a "lucky dog" to meet him. In modern times, most of them are the groom himself.

Then, why do Chaoshan people persistently choose to get married late at night?

In the old days, wedding ceremonies were held after sunset or before sunrise, which was actually related to the ancient ritual system. In ancient books, marriage is often called "fainting".

Poetry, North Wind and Valley Wind: "The banquet is new and faint, and I don't want to waste it." Han Bangu's Marriage of White Tiger and Yi Tong: "What is a married person? Salute when you are unconscious, so it is called marriage. "

"In the Soul of Li Yi's Poems": "The ceremony of marrying a wife is a faint, solid and well-known ceremony. If you want to faint, Yang will go to Yin. "

The so-called "Yang goes to Yin" means that the day is about to pass and the night is coming, and it also means that men (Yang) have to meet the arrival of women (Yin). This is the embodiment of the idea of harmony between man and nature in the marriage ceremony system.

If the wedding must be held during the day, the bride will open an umbrella, which is called "not seeing the sun".

Therefore, the wedding of Chaoshan people avoids the daytime, which is the inheritance of ancient style and the respect for tradition. Of course, with the progress of the times, many traditional things should also keep pace with the times, don't you think?