What's the point of giving a red envelope when you get married?

Red envelopes are accompanied by gifts, and different places have different customs. In some places, giving red envelopes is a gift. It doesn't matter how much money is in the red envelope. In some places, red envelopes need to be above the "bottom line", and the host family will be unhappy if they are given less. So be sure to pay attention to what the local customs are and don't make taboos.

Next, I will talk about something I am familiar with about Chaoshan people and Cantonese people getting married and giving red envelopes.

Give a red envelope when you get married, and you must not give a small change.

In Chaoshan area, people will pay attention to weddings and funerals when attending banquets. What is a wedding funeral? The so-called red is marriage, and the so-called white is funeral. As a happy event, you must pack even numbers to get a red envelope. And if the package is odd, it means it is white. So this can't be wrong.

In Chaoshan, the commonly used numbers for giving red envelopes are 688,888, all of which are very careful numbers. Of course, if the relationship is good, this amount will rise again.

In the Pearl River Delta region of Guangdong, it is ok to give it to 1200 yuan. Some people even fold a corner on paper money to show their gratitude and return red envelopes.

It must be happy and lucky to give a red envelope when you get married.

When you give the couple a red envelope. Usually, the couple will hold a red plate with candy and other things in it. Even if you don't eat, you have to pick up two sweets. Make a gesture of kindness to add joy.

Under normal circumstances, when the host gets a red envelope, he will not only take out a red plate to give candy and cigarettes to the guests, but also give them a gift after the wedding. Such as candy boxes, children's toys and so on.

When you get married, you should receive a red envelope first, and you must add money when you send it.

Sometimes, people of the same age get married in fast and slow order, and those who get married first will receive red envelopes earlier than others. Moreover, when others get married, they have to add some to the amount of red envelopes given by others.

For example, Mr. Chen got married early. When he got married, Kobayashi gave him a red envelope of 680. Then if Xiaolin gets married, according to the traditional custom, Mr. Chen must give a red envelope of more than 680 yuan, usually 880 yuan or something.

It would be considered impolite to pay 680 yuan.

Whether you are married or not, when you give a red envelope, you'd better write your blessing and your name on it.

Because when attending the wedding banquet, most newcomers will welcome guests in the wedding banquet hall. If there are many people, I don't know who gave the red envelope and who didn't, and I don't know whether the red envelope is big or small. Let others know that your thoughts are your thoughts. Giving it away is just like not giving it away.

Writing blessings on red envelopes can also make newcomers feel their hearts. You can also distinguish your own red envelopes from others'.