Talking about Babel's Law

You know, no matter what level of intelligence, as long as it is a false compliment, others will feel that something is wrong. Isn't false praise a compliment? Don't treat others as idiots, many times hypocrisy is just self-deception.

There is a "Babel's Law" in psychology, which explains a social psychological effect: when a person experiences a strong stimulus, the subsequent stimulus becomes insignificant to him. That is, the first stimulus can alleviate the second small stimulus. (correspondingly, things are scarce, just like the marginal effect in economics. Marginal utility refers to the new utility brought by consumers adding a unit of goods or services in a certain period of time, that is, the increment of total utility. In economics, utility refers to the ability of goods to satisfy people's desires, or, utility refers to the degree of satisfaction that consumers feel when they consume goods. Law of diminishing marginal utility: in a certain period of time, with the constant consumption of other commodities, with the increase of consumption of a certain commodity by consumers, the increment of utility obtained by consumers from each consumption unit of the commodity is decreasing, that is, marginal utility is decreasing. So paying too much and continuing to pay will only make your kindness cheaper and cheaper.

This application is applied to people who pursue the right, that is to say, don't be as good as you are to each other from the beginning, as if the stars in the sky will be picked up by each other's mouth, which is a bit exaggerated, but the consequence is that you make yourself very cheap-_-||, just like discounted goods in the mall, who will cherish it? No one will cherish what is given away for nothing. Therefore, the correct approach should be not to be unconditional to each other all the time. Cold is cold. There is a saying that it is good to pursue! That's what people do. If it is too easy to get, it will never be valued and cherished. The more you give, the more you will cherish when you get it. )

Generally speaking, if you talk too much about love, you will feel bored.

The same is true of compliments. If you always talk about praise, your praise will bring less and less stimulation to others. In other words, your praise will become cheaper and cheaper.