Because of my friends, my girlfriend always stood me up. What should I do if I am angry?

Let's just say we stood you up once or twice because of our friends. But the word you use is: forever. This shows that this situation often happens. So we must face it squarely.

Many people have a strange idea-because you are one of our own, your needs can be ranked behind. Because others are outsiders, the demand should be the first.

This idea is completely wrong.

We should meet the needs of others according to their importance to us.

I will definitely put my boyfriend's needs first; Put the needs of girlfriends in the second place. Because my boyfriend is probably my life partner, his importance must be ahead of my best friend and other good friends.

This involves the most basic ranking of values, so we must communicate well.

But in the specific implementation process, it should also be combined with the actual situation.

How to combine?

1

It depends on the urgency of the matter.

If your date with your girlfriend is going shopping. This is not a very urgent matter.

At this time, her friend called and said that she had just received a call from her boss and needed to ask her girlfriend to go to the hospital to help look after her sick family.

This is an urgent matter, which is understandable.

2

Look at the importance of things.

If your date with your girlfriend is going shopping. This is not a very urgent matter.

At the moment, her good friend has a car accident and needs your help to go to the hospital for hospitalization. This is a matter of life and death. Understandable.

Besides, I can't understand and I can't forgive.

It is recommended to communicate frankly with your girlfriend and tell her what you really think. If you really can't agree on this point, you can consider breaking up.

Even if you are lucky enough to get married, you will continue to have contradictions because of the different values at the bottom, and eventually go their separate ways.