How to chat with a boy who just added WeChat so that you can quickly get to know each other? Can you elaborate?

When you chat with a boy you just met, if you give him a sentence at the beginning: Hello, then your relationship can easily be defined as a stranger. Obviously, this is not conducive to the establishment and development of your relationship. So don't say hello. Even if the other person greets you, you can reply "I'm not okay" to him. He will be curious as to why, so you can tell him "because I ate too much and that store was delicious and I failed to lose weight". In this way, there are three topics to discuss: "food", "delicious restaurants" and "weight loss and fitness".

Isn’t this great. In fact, most straight men don’t know how to chat. If you can't chat, you can only lie in friends after awkward chats. In addition, you can eliminate the strangeness of new acquaintances to the greatest extent through the following three points:

1. Voice skills

When you join a boy’s WeChat for the first time, especially if you have not met him before I have friends on WeChat, and the words and pictures on WeChat are actually very cold. There is no way to give the other person a sense of reality. Only sound can reflect a truer self. Therefore, the usage of the "Pronunciation Rule" is: when you add a new WeChat friend, one of the first three sentences in the first conversation must be in Pinyin, which will quickly shorten the mental distance between you and him. .

2. Chat

Many people who cannot chat like to type out what they want to say and then send it to him in more than two lines of text. But chatting is a very emotional thing. If you send him such a long text, it will be difficult for him to be interested in reading it if it is not about communication. Because people today are really lazier than dogs. People who advertise on WeChat groups usually write a long paragraph of text. In addition, when chatting, it will affect the immediacy. Typing takes a certain amount of time. When you play for a long time, his attention and emotions have long been distracted.

Therefore, when chatting, you should learn to split sentences and try not to exceed 1 line per sentence. For example, I just got off work and was getting ready to eat, and then I went to my friends to talk about the studio. In this way, you can send him three messages. In this way, face-to-face communication will be more direct and situational, and the chat atmosphere will not be ruined. Of course, if you are chatting with a friend and it takes a certain amount of time to communicate, do not send it line by line in one sentence, otherwise the other party will display 18 unread messages immediately after you open the dialog box.

3. Same-frequency technology

"Same-frequency skill" means that during the chat process, try to keep the same time interval and the same number of consecutive messages with the other party, so that you You can invisibly strengthen communication after expressing it in words, and greatly increase the other party's willingness to chat with you. Time consistency is that if the other party often sends messages to him and he returns to you after more than 10 minutes, even if you see his reply for the first time, do not reply to him immediately, but you can reply again within 5-10 minutes. reply. The purpose of this is not to punish him for the speed of returning to you, but when you do not say inappropriate words, if the other person slowly returns to you, there must be a reason.

This may be because he is busy with the work at hand, may be in a meeting, or may be with other people. At this time, you must know how to reduce the frequency of chatting so that you do not give the other party Too much pressure exposes your needs. If the number of messages is the same, you will find that if the ratio of green dialog boxes and white dialog boxes in the chat interface is obviously unbalanced, you will feel that people with a smaller proportion do not want to talk, or people with a larger proportion have too much need, so , the balance of social interaction is lost at this time.

The same goes for when you chat with boys. If he sends you three messages and you only reply to one, he may think that you don't really want to chat with him and that your replies aren't enough. Therefore, if this happens often, he will gradually stop actively chatting with you.

Do you also think that although this is a small trick, the effect is really unexpected? Use it quickly.