Please don't yell at the children.

Do you still yell at your child when he does something wrong? Are you still yelling when the child can't finish his homework? When children procrastinate. Are you still yelling at your children without a sense of time? When you teach your child to do the problem many times, he is still at a loss. Are you yelling at the child loudly?

Wrong, wrong, wrong, please calm down, calm down and calm down. Calm down.

Children are God's best gift to parents. Please don't abuse him. Because he's fragile. Need your protection. Playing is a child's nature. A newborn baby. Come into this world. I am very fresh and curious about everything. He wants to touch or bite, which is the normal curiosity of children. Inevitably, something will be broken. Break things. Please don't yell at her. Because shouting loudly will make children feel scared. The brain will be severely stimulated. It will change children's intellectual development, physical and mental growth and character cultivation.

Please don't yell at the children who have done something wrong. Because in the child's mind, I don't know what is right. He will do things with his own thinking. He doesn't know if it's dangerous. I don't know. Fear. Correct guidance and demonstration. Let him know how to protect himself. How to do one thing well? How can we persist in doing one thing well? Sometimes he breaks things. This is normal. He will ask for help. He will watch carefully when you repair it. At the same time, it also cultivates children's concentration. I want to get involved once in a while. I always feel that I am happiest when I am with my children …

Playing is a child's nature. You forget everything when you play. Forget to go home for dinner, forget the unfinished homework, even if it is dark, I can't bear to leave. Children's minds are always naive and simple. As the meaning we pursue, life is to live happily …

After dinner, the child couldn't sleep for a long time. Because his excitement has not subsided. But before the story is finished, he has fallen asleep. I still remember that if he dreamed of happy things at night, he would secretly laugh out loud. If this is a dream of fear. She will also shout for mom and dad …

I feel so sweet in the morning that I can't wake up after several phone calls. I don't want to get up even if I wake up. I will stay in bed for a while. This is because he didn't get enough sleep. The cranial nerves are not fully awake. Actually, he's up. He doesn't know what to do. I don't know how to make the bed, brush my teeth and wash my face, tidy my schoolbag, and drag my feet. I have no idea of the time. These are all because parents didn't make a daily action plan with him. Or he's not interested in these things. If his parents force him to do something he doesn't want to do or doesn't like to do, he will procrastinate, drag his feet and be reluctant.

I've observed it carefully. For example, finishing homework after school can let him play freely. He will quickly find the TV remote control, turn on the power, dial a favorite cartoon, and then jump on the sofa and sit down. It can be described as staring and concentrating. Even shooting and thunder won't impact his concentration.

From this, I come to a conclusion that only his hobbies can arouse his own internal drive. Only by delaying can it be completed quickly.

Finally, I will patiently explain many times when guiding my child to do homework, but the child still looks at a loss. Hands are constantly playing with pencils or digging erasers, either drinking water or going to the toilet. My mouth is thirsty, and the child just can't. Sometimes I can't control my temper and want to call names.

At that time, these were things that children were not interested in. I think for boring numbers and memorizing Chinese characters, it is definitely not as good-looking and fun as cartoons. Even if you are not interested, he won't listen to you no matter how much you say. Gradually lost patience and became more rebellious.

Why don't we tell our children that you can finish your homework quickly and make sure it is completely correct, and then play around in the rest of the time. This will inspire the child to have a hope that he will concentrate on doing it.

Remember, don't yell at children!

There used to be a very good saying.

Before the child is seven years old, home is everything.

7 to 13 years old. It's night at home.

13 to 18. Going home is the weekend.

18 to 23 years old, winter and summer vacations at home.

After the age of 23, there is only Spring Festival at home.

It won't take a few years. When you look at the desk lamp in the children's room, you will miss that little figure in the dark room. Occasionally write, occasionally touch your little head, occasionally go there to play, and occasionally call your parents over.

Don't be angry with the children. Don't yell at the children. Because we can't follow the children forever. Cherish what you have at the moment.