Mother-in-law: "If you don't buy a new car for your brother-in-law, we will live in your house!" " What should I do?

As the saying goes, "Every family has its own problems", but it's really a headache to meet Patricia Lam Fung Lan. As a sister-in-law, she was asked by her mother-in-law to buy a new car for her brother-in-law, or she would stay at home. Not only that, when getting married, the down payment for the house is given by the family, and the children are born at home. My mother-in-law only wants money, but this time she wants a new car, so she can't cheat directly. This matter is unacceptable to anyone. Is it just the eldest brother and sister-in-law who have to bear all the responsibilities at home? It is every child's obligation to support the elderly, but this obligation does not mean that we can push our luck. This bottomless family is the sorrow of everyone's life. Be rational and have a bottom line about this kind of thing in the family, and say "no" bravely.

My mother-in-law didn't ask for a new car, but Lin Fenglan didn't expect her mother-in-law to take her brother-in-law to live in her own house, just because he wanted to change a new car. As a sister-in-law, according to her mother-in-law, she should have the obligation to help. From the moment she entered her mother-in-law's house, her mother-in-law often said, "As a big brother and sister-in-law, she should help her younger brother."

You know, Lin Fenglan and her husband's money didn't come from the wind. At that time, they didn't have a house when they fell in love, but rented a house to live in. They live on extremely low wages and even need the help of Lin Fenglan's family for a long time.

After they got married, the husband's family couldn't afford a wedding room at all, and her husband didn't have much salary and couldn't afford the down payment, so Lin Fenglan's family paid the down payment of the new house as a dowry. Lin Fenglan is an only child, and all her parents' savings will be reserved for herself in the future. It is precisely because of this that the husband's family will take a fancy to this daughter-in-law. Lin Fenglan knows this very well.

The sorrow of Chinese-style "bottomless pit" family Because Lin Fenglan has a family to rely on, she still has a certain right to speak at home, and her husband has given herself economic power. Although we have a new house and paid the down payment, the monthly mortgage is still provided by the couple, and the birth of the child makes their lives stretched.

However, the mother-in-law did not feel bad about them. When she was pregnant, her mother-in-law pretended to be ill, didn't take care of herself, and even asked the couple for living expenses. Lin Fenglan is grateful to her mother for not only taking care of herself, but also taking care of her grandson.

In fact, my mother-in-law wants money not for herself, but for her abrasive brother-in-law. At that time, my brother-in-law was getting married, and my mother-in-law asked them to pay100000 with a bride price. Lin Fenglan was unwilling to give it, but at that time, her mother-in-law put aside her malicious words and refused to leave. So in order to calm the storm, the couple gave it in desperation.

I thought my mother-in-law and brother-in-law would be grateful, but after her brother-in-law, she was more unprofessional and enterprising. This time, they did it again and forced them to buy a new car for their brother-in-law. Usually, the husband and wife go to work to squeeze the bus and subway, and they are not willing to buy a car. Why did they buy him a car?

Lin Fenglan and her husband decided to drive their mother-in-law and brother-in-law out of the house, but they just wouldn't open the door. For such people, we must take some extreme measure and make a determined effort to close the door.

Concessions will not solve the problem. Say no bravely. There are many families like Lin Fenglan in China. This ignorant demand will make everyone live a depressed life. Fortunately, Lin Fenglan's husband is very wise and willing to stand from a rational point of view. The young couple are already living in poverty, and they have to scrimp and save to support their brothers and sisters, which is an irresponsible behavior for a family like Lin Fenglan. Now people live in a free and democratic society, and it is really ridiculous to be kidnapped by morality.

This kind of thing is very common in real life and film and television dramas, such as Fan, Su Mingyu, Fang and so on. They are also well-paid white-collar workers. And working families like Lin Fenglan are even worse. They should be cruel and say "no" bravely! This kind of thing is intolerable, because once you give in, there will be countless times in the future.

As children, they have the obligation to support their parents, but they have no obligation to help their brothers and sisters. If you want something, you should strive for it. If you do anything, enough is enough. For this kind of relatives who have been asking for it, let them know that they have a bottom line and cannot be influenced by their families. Every family is a small one in society, and it will encounter different problems. It is wrong to help the other half brothers and sisters unconditionally. I hope this society will have less such misconceptions and more love and care.