What do you think of having three children?

It is undoubtedly in line with God's will to let go of the policy of having three children. If there are no corresponding incentives, according to the current worries of Chinese people about the burden of raising children, most couples of school age who have two children (a man and a woman) may not have this plan. Of course, unless the economic conditions are particularly good, take Zhang Dao as an example: people will risk being fined a lot of money to be Johnson & Johnson, and these people will applaud accordingly. As for the Dink family, it has nothing to do with him to put down his three sons and four daughters. In the final analysis, the concept of a generation has changed, the concept of carrying on the family line has gradually faded, and the concept of self-interest has gradually strengthened. In the long run, this decision made by national policy makers will certainly be rewarded by some people, and will certainly help the country's economic development, control the aging population and balance fertility.

It varies from person to person, from family situation to economic condition. Some people are in poor health and cannot have more children; Some couples admire the Dink family and have no children. More people, because of limited economic conditions, only choose to have one child. There are several Zhang Yimou in China who gave birth to three children at a time when more children were not allowed, and they were not afraid of huge fines. That's because he is rich and doesn't have to worry about raising children. He has a nanny to take care of children. He wants to have more children and be happy. Why not? However, most ordinary couples live on low wages. From the birth of their children, to kindergarten, to primary school, middle school and university, there is really great pressure to ensure that they are not sick. Once they get sick, it's a big expense. In today's society, poverty will be looked down upon by others, and this psychological pressure can be imagined. Even if the state gives some concessions and subsidies in some aspects, if it is only superficial, I believe most couples will not buy it. Unless the welfare treatment is particularly perfect, it may promote the implementation of the policy of having three children. I wish China people prosperity for generations to come.

The three-child policy has come, but is it too late? I believe that those who should be born will be born if they don't come, and those who don't want to be born and dare not be born will not be born.

Just after giving birth, all kinds of welfare and supporting facilities have to keep up.

The most important thing is that house prices can come down and let the people improve their housing. Where else do you live, a bunk bed? Bunk bed?

Anyway, my colleagues have been talking about this for the past two days, among which there are more post-80 s, and many people who wanted a second child in those days decided to have it after a lot of psychological struggles. Now that this policy has come out, I should not think about it. The working class really has a heavy burden, and those who have mines at home can consider it. The post-80s generation can be said to be the main force of social fertility. After 70, the youngest 42, 70 smiled and said: Health? Ploughs can work, but fields can't, so most of them haven't considered this problem. Many post-90s people don't know whether they are avant-garde or not, and their friends are too lazy to play, let alone have children. They are still three children. They don't exist.

The reason why they are not active is that the cost of living is high and they don't want to live too tired, especially in big cities. It is estimated that they will go to two extremes in the end. Rich people will try their best to survive because they have property to inherit, and a few rural people may still be thinking about getting an extra pair of chopsticks, two to raise, three to raise, and they can fight for another pair.

It is timely and necessary for the state to issue this policy. After all, the population of China is seriously declining and aging, and the "demographic dividend" has basically disappeared. I believe that people will actively participate in it after all kinds of related benefits, supporting facilities and hardware are improved. A large part of everyone's sensation is also due to various supporting facilities, welfare and hardware. The most important thing is the housing market regulation, which is the key.

Let me talk about my own ideas. In the past few years, the national family planning policy has been resolutely and thoroughly implemented in Northeast China. People who are fertile now are only children. If three children are born, the family structure is a young couple, four old people and three children. Financial burden, mental burden, that's a lot of pressure. Some experts suggested to formulate corresponding preferential compensation policies, but I don't think the effect will be very satisfactory. At least, there are very few people who want to have three children in the northeast. This is just my immature idea.

The three-child policy is quite good, so that people who are willing to have children can have children boldly without worrying about fines.

Some people say that this group of people after 80 s and 90 s is actually quite pit. Speaking of the three-child policy, three children have finally been brought up and may not have reached retirement age. If they are lucky enough to reach the retirement age of 65, they will have to bring nine grandchildren. It's scary to think about it.

But I don't think about three children, and I certainly won't. Life is only thirty thousand days. I want to leave time to love myself.

Some people say that having more children is taking advantage of the country. Sorry, I don't like to take advantage. I just hope that my efforts will be treated fairly.

Some people say that the chances of having more children are high. Sorry, I don't think I'm bad at all. I want to spend my time improving myself, instead of having more children to gamble on odds.

As a post-80s generation, let me talk about my thoughts on having three children. In our growing environment, we didn't suffer too much, so when we gave birth to our first child, we felt it was beyond our capacity. This is with the help of our parents. If we bring our own children, we will be more tired. If we have a second child, we really don't want to have one. I think as the post-90s generation, their living environment is better than ours. It is even more difficult for them to have a second child, let alone three children. Now that they have children, so many things have happened at home. For example, no one cares about the nanny's depression and physical fatigue. Even the nanny's mother has no financial resources at home, and her husband doesn't give money. Everything is on the baby, the pain of childbirth, the child's sick mood and the anxiety of housework are all on her.