Filial piety, if you talk about it, it is false filial piety.

Filial piety is the embodiment of a person's conscience. Filial piety comes from the heart and is put into action, which is the most sincere emotional expression of people.

Filial piety is hierarchical, just like products, there are advantages and disadvantages.

When I was a child, I heard old people talk about the famine in 196 and people went hungry. At that time, there were two girls in the village. My son was in his forties and my mother was in her seventies. At that time, when the lack of food threatened people's lives to the extreme, my son tried his best to search for something to eat everywhere, and sent it to my mother as soon as he found it. My mother asked him to eat, but he always said, "I ate a long time ago, mom, please eat quickly."

Later, this son starved to death alive, and his mother survived.

This is a true story in our village. I-I can't help but feel my tears blurred and my heart is bulging because it touched me.

this is really filial, and it really happened.

In our modern society, the material conditions have changed dramatically. Having enough food is no longer a problem, and no one will pay the price of his life because of filial piety and starvation. However, under this superior material condition, some children's filial piety to the elderly is not in place, some even do poorly, and some can even be said to be unfilial and hypocritical.

According to my observation, many rural areas lack filial piety. It will be very difficult for them to catch up with their children, who are relatively backward in living conditions, lack of old-age security and unable to work.

In a village, an old lady is almost eighty and has three sons. The sons have a good life, but they don't want to support their parents. The old lady lives in a doorway by herself. It is agreed that the rations given by each son every year are often delayed, so the old man has to pick up wheat ears in the fields and on the road every season of wheat harvest and save them as rations.

This is also a true story, and there are many similar examples. If you want to listen, I will write a lot, but it makes people angry and depressed!

there are filial piety, unfilial filial piety and false filial piety. Filial piety and unfilial piety are easy to distinguish, but false filial piety is not easy to see at a glance.

The reason why it is called fake filial piety is that he is not filial in nature, or is not very filial, and he deliberately pretends to be filial to others in order to put on a show and win fame.

A very common situation is that brothers and sisters compare with each other, who pays more for the elderly and who pays less, which makes conflicts and even makes trouble. Some people have paid their parents a little bit of their due obligations, and they think that they are extremely hardworking and filial, and regard themselves as big filial sons, showing off everywhere.

He didn't think that compared with his parents' nurturing kindness, he took care of his parents, just like Niu Yi Mao. Your parents are old, or you are sick, and you wait on them, serving tea and meals, washing clothes and folding quilts ... What is this? Isn't it just to pay some physical strength and time? What is bitter?

You keep saying that the elder brother is not as good as you take care of the elderly, and which sister is not as good as you. Everyone tries his best to be filial. Why do you compare with others? You compare yourself with others because you feel wronged when you do too much work. Your idea of taking care of the elderly is the true heart of the elderly and the true reaction of false filial piety.

"Filial piety comes first in all the virtues", and everyone will be old one day from generation to generation. Filial piety for the elderly is a matter of course, and it is a due obligation and responsibility. How do you treat your parents and elders? Your children and grandchildren will follow suit. When you get old, they will treat you in your way, and it will come true soon.