What should men do if they are timid?

This does not mean that he is weak, but that he lacks masculinity. This is just your one-sided understanding. Some men have a good temper, but once something worthy of his protection is violated, he will try his best to protect it, such as a lover!

From what you said, I feel that you are stronger and more independent, but you also said that you are four years older than him. Obviously, you are more mature than him, and you should be more sophisticated and calm when dealing with problems. But what you show is a sense of compulsion that you can't bear in love. You want him to be more domineering, more negative sense of social responsibility or justice. That's just your subjective will, but he is an honest Nuo Nuo sports teenager. You can't try to impose it on him. Since you don't approve, you can find another one with the right eye, but remember to restrain your temper and find a responsible man, not a sad man full of responsibility!