My boyfriend always talks to me about sex.

Men want the psychology of the first time (girls must watch)

Save the first time for the man who got the marriage certificate with you ... First declare that I am not a feudal teenager. However, I can't bear to see many girls give their lives for their boyfriends, but they are miserable after being lovelorn. Moreover, some of the reasons why they die for their boyfriends are silly, and some are because they don't know enough about boys. So, I want to tell you something about boys' psychology and physiology.

The theme I want to say is: leave your first time to the man who got your marriage certificate!

First of all, a girlfriend has no obligation to satisfy her boyfriend's sexual desire! ! Don't think that just because he calls you wife every day, you really think you are his wife. When your boyfriend makes such a request to you, if you are not very happy, you should refuse it with euphemistic language and firm mind, instead of like this: We are getting married anyway, when will it be the same? If you don't do it with me, you don't love me (this is a provocation); Still soft-hearted to his poor appearance and bitter pleading. Although it is difficult to do so, after all, you really love him, but remember the song sung by ChouHuei: Sometimes being soft-hearted is a kind of suffering, pushing yourself to the abyss! There will be some discomfort, but it is not as exaggerated as they appear, and it is completely controllable. It depends on your attitude. If you show some softening, he will become a Bangladeshi. I'll ask you more often. It's even harder if you sayno. "I even heard that some boys lied to girls that if they didn't do it themselves, the erect lower body would stand up all the time, and some girls actually believed it, which is pitiful."). If he really loves you, he will love and cherish you more because of your reserve and independent mind, because you will be more sacred and noble in his mind and become more attractive and attractive; If you do, he will thank you temporarily and be surprisingly good to you, but please don't be too happy. If you refuse him again one day, his face will often make you feel chilling! Moreover, after doing it, I fell into a passive position! ! Who doesn't want to cherish their first time? The more you pay for him, the higher your expectations are, the more afraid you are of losing him, and the more you will accommodate him. In the eyes of many boys, this means losing personality and becoming boring, and the more he will let you down. When you have conflicts again, he won't come to apologize to you as early as before, because you are the one who can't let go! Even if you get married in the future, it is not good to form this habit. If he left you for this reason, congratulations, you left someone who didn't love you, even a liar with other motives (although such people are often attractive). I 100% am sure that you will find someone who really loves you and is better than him! No one can live without him. Get through the first half of the year and wake up from his life, and you will find that the fact is not what you originally thought.

Secondly, if you are not a virgin and meet someone who loves you after breaking up, he really loves you. If you confess to him, he will accept you because he knows that you are innocent and even thinks that you are a victim. If he is not a virgin, so much the better. I'm sure that if he doesn't move, he will feel very uncomfortable, very uncomfortable. When he closes his eyes at night, he will see a picture of you making out with other boys, which will make him feel very uncomfortable and almost have the urge to leave you. The more he loves you, the more pure he thinks you are, and the more uncomfortable he will feel. There will even be a feeling of being insulted and laughed at by others. He would rather hit himself on the head with a big stick and forget all this. You can put yourself in his shoes. This is definitely a shadow, which may be good, but it needs considerable efforts. If he loves you, he won't tell anyone about it for the sake of your reputation. He has to bear all the hardships himself, and he may be strong in front of you. But he will experience all these feelings in some way. And your heart must be very guilty, and you may regret it. What you need to do more is to comfort him. A good girl will feel very sorry for him and will spend her whole life making up for him. He will think that you are doing this because you owe him. And his kindness to you and his devotion to your feelings will be greatly reduced. Although he will cherish you, he won't cherish you as much as before. Do you have the heart to make the person you love suffer so much?

Third, I know that every girl cherishes her first time. But a person who will leave you because you don't have sex with him, compared with a person who wants to spend your life with you, take care of you all your life, give you a home, take you to the hospital when you are sick, and take care of you when you are in danger, a person who can understand you, comfort you and make you happy no matter what mistakes you make and what grievances you suffer, the last thing you want is you.

Finally, the university stage is still an unstable stage, and what will happen in the future is unpredictable. When I graduated, although I loved each other, I couldn't be together. Although love can stimulate the great potential of promoters, it is not all-encompassing. With the growth of age, it will become more and more realistic. I hope that girls who have romantic fantasies about love can realize. When we made an oath, I also believed it, but the cruelty of reality is also quite cruel!

Finally, I hope everyone can accept a point: it is a virtue to lead an honest and clean life, but it does not mean feudal backwardness! (I believe that the girls themselves will ultimately benefit)

Postscript:

I am a boy, so I only published this post. On the one hand, I can't bear to see many kind and weak good girls cheated. On the other hand, I can't bear to see many sensitive and good boys suffer so much pain and injustice! ! They are all really poor and innocent. I hope the world will be more perfect and have less regrets!

Most people who say they don't care if their girlfriends are virgins want to take advantage. Please don't be fooled! ! ! Really, he met his emotional girl and knew that she was not a virgin. He is also very confused! ! .