May you become an educated person.

Education, the dictionary says that education is "the cultivation of culture and morality", and some data also say that education is "the excellent quality and habit formed by education", but I think education is a conventional concept and a quality that everyone will recognize.

It can be manifested as self-emotional management, self-sacrifice, consideration for others, awe and admiration. This is a manifestation of heteronomy.

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Emerson said that anyone with a good upbringing has a taboo: don't lose your temper.

Most of us think that good temper means no principle. In fact, on the contrary, it is because of principles that you have a good temper.

Good temper is actually that we can control our emotions and be the masters of them. We will tolerate others, be generous and reasonable to others, instead of accusing or losing our temper.

You can have nothing, nothing, but you must not be good-tempered.

A few days ago, a 3 1 year-old woman in Sichuan successively pushed down signs and trash cans in the scenic spot. Some are warning signs, warning people to travel safely or not to climb. It was photographed by netizens and sent online. It was searched all over for a time, and everyone was shocked.

The reason behind this phenomenon is that I quarreled with my family and felt unhappy, so I destroyed these public goods at will! Vent their emotions.

Later, the lady was detained according to law. Punish and criticize education according to criminal responsibility.

Netizens have pointed out that "this 3 1 year-old old lady has no quality." She should be blacklisted.

Yes, can a bad mood destroy things to influence others? Your mood is good, but others will be in danger because they can't see the warning signal!

Today, you are in a bad mood, and this happens. So tomorrow, if others are in a bad mood, will the same thing happen to you?

Netizen commented that "they should be blacklisted, and they should not be allowed to go to various scenic spots or important occasions in the future."

I think it's all angry words, but if a person can't even control his temper, if it breaks out one day, everyone with him will suffer with him!

I hope we can learn to control our temper at any time.

I hope we can take care of other people's feelings, because we control our emotions everywhere.

After all, we are adults. Even if you can't control your emotions, you can't do things that hurt others and hurt yourself. The so-called "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". That's the truth.

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A few days ago, our colleagues had dinner, or at the old local restaurant. I have been working in 10 for many years, and we all have a fixed habit in the office. Because we come from different cities, we will have dinner together before school starts or before holidays. Not because of anything else, but because I think life needs some sense of ceremony.

This time is no exception, there are not many male colleagues, and they will leave when eating. Before, I thought they were embarrassed by so many female colleagues and hid outside to chat.

Later, during a meal, I heard a conversation between them, "Go outside and have a cigarette!" " "ok". Two people left their seats in tandem.

Since this incident, my views on them have changed 180 degrees.

Because in my impression, they are just humorous, playful and sometimes even a little timid. I didn't expect them to do this.

If a person respects you once, it is possible that he has an element of acting. If he can respect you every time, this is a person's quality and education.

If a person can always consider the feelings of others, then you are lovely. At least you are kind and warm inside.

Eating at the dinner table, in the face of so many people smoking, you don't think it matters, but it is this little thing that can reflect your quality. This is called politeness.

We have been taught to be polite children since childhood, and politeness is also an education.

Politeness is the premise of education, and politeness is the external expression of education. If a person doesn't even have the minimum manners, don't say that he will have a good upbringing.

It is also a courtesy to respect others. You respect others, others will respect you, and this mutual relationship will make our interpersonal relationship more harmonious.

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I still remember that there was a little boy in the subway who sat on the ground and rolled around because he wanted to eat fried chicken sent by a young girl. Then his mother said to him, "You can ask and see if my sister will let you eat!" "

After being rejected, the little boy just snatched the fried chicken.

What is even more amazing is that the mother not only did not stop it, but also accused the girl of saying, "Isn't this fried chicken? Children have to eat because they respect you. " What an irritating mother.

After getting off the bus, this naughty "Xiong Haizi". I gave the girl a hand when the train was about to pass by. Fortunately, someone nearby stopped it, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.

Afterwards, the mother took her children and disappeared into the crowd amid people's accusations.

As soon as this news came out, the abuse of netizens continued. They said that "this parent has no quality", "Xiong Haizi is not to be taunted" and "parents of children should be sentenced" and so on.

In recent years, the "Xiong Haizi" incident has occurred frequently, and most parents have dropped it because "children are still young, so don't share common sense".

As the saying goes, "it's your father's fault not to teach." Parents' education is the first in the family, and children's education should start from an early age. "Look at the young at the age of three, and look at the old at the age of seven." The most fundamental thing in children's education is to cultivate them from an early age.

Our parents should also set a good example for their children. Always pay attention to your words and deeds. Because everything you say and do will have a subtle influence on children.

Our parents should reflect on how to make themselves an educated person. Since you love children, you should educate them well. Instead of going with the flow, let nature take its course. That's irresponsible to them.

I also saw some foreign news on the internet before, saying that in a western restaurant, foreigners were eating quietly with their children. At a certain table, Mr. and Mrs. Hua are taking their children. While eating, they were chasing and fighting. One minute they stepped on other people's feet, and the next minute they tripped.

And their parents not only didn't stop it, but also pursued it tirelessly.

I felt deeply ashamed after reading it. Are the quality and self-restraint of our citizens really that bad? After all, we are guests from other countries, shouldn't we restrain ourselves?

Even in China, if you go to other people's homes, you should have rules and don't mess around! What's more, it is in a strange place overseas.

Shouldn't we reflect on ourselves? This is disrespectful to us. Isn't it sad that most people don't notice?

Because we don't know how to respect others, then others will certainly not respect us. In fact, respect is mutual. With respect, we will have better communication and exchange.

We have always advocated quality education, but when will our quality education really be put into use, not just lip service?

A person's quality represents the quality of a nation or even a country. If you don't even have the minimum manners and upbringing, what is the future? What is the future?

We should reflect, we should reflect. Because our next generation depends on us adults to receive a good education. Instead of letting other countries educate us.

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Education is not achieved overnight, but we have been constantly polishing and experiencing. It should not be superficial, but a deep-rooted growth in our blood.

We should not only start from ourselves, be a parent that our children admire, but also infect people around us, so that everyone can work hard to get an education!

I wish you become an educated person, know how to manage your emotions and treat others better.

May you become an educated person, know how to respect others and be kind to yourself.

May you be an educated person, educate your children and improve yourself.

May you be an educated person and be the best you can be!