Why do men love fishing?

Why do men love fishing? Many people can't understand men's obsession with fishing. Every holiday or weekend, we can see many people fishing by the river or lake, most of them are uncles, and even some men prefer night fishing. Let's see why men like fishing.

Why do men love fishing? 1 First, psychological addiction.

According to the explanation of behavioral psychology, men like fishing, which is essentially a "psychological addiction mechanism".

So, what is psychological addiction?

Simply put, it's hard to stop doing something that makes you feel good and subconsciously wants to do, even if it will have a bad effect on you for a long time.

Those behaviors that can make you get extra, double and extraordinary happiness can easily make you addicted.

Once this person encounters the pressure of life, work and emotion, he is more willing to devote himself to things that make him addicted.

Men like fishing, precisely because of the formation of psychological addiction mechanism, they enjoy the pleasure of fishing very much, and get psychological comfort and sense of accomplishment from fishing.

In the book "Behavior Addiction", the factors that touch an addiction are mentioned: preference, conformity, fear, reciprocity, power and consistency.

When men are fishing, they will be influenced by factors such as preference and conformity.

Second: the transfer of emotions, the "cave period" of the mind.

Psychologically, when people are influenced by some negative emotions, they are more eager to find a breakthrough to release their inner depression.

Moreover, men are more likely to enter the "emotional cave period", because men are naturally silent and don't want to say their troubles, but they just hide them in their hearts.

As a result, fishing is regarded by men as a kind of "love" to transfer negative emotions and seek psychological sustenance.

People are often willing to invest more cost and energy in what they love.

Third: after failure, get a sense of accomplishment and happiness from fishing.

When men feel failed in some fields, or think that they are under unbearable pressure and are "losers", they will find a sense of accomplishment in their own fields.

In fishing, men can get happiness and pride from it.

Especially at the moment when the fish are hooked, the adrenaline in their bodies is secreted, and there will be a feeling of joy that is still unfinished and very carefree.

This kind of pleasure will make people's brains send out "addiction dependence instructions", and over time, they don't want to lose this pleasure.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of men indulging in fishing?

First: benefits

From the perspective of self-emotion, men will feel at ease when fishing.

Just as some people like reading and drinking tea to get inner peace, fishing is also a means for men to relax.

Moreover, fishing can give men a "social topic".

People who like fishing can sit together and talk for a day and a night without feeling tired; Whenever they go fishing, they feel energetic and exhausted, and the whole person is in a state of "extreme excitement".

If we can handle the balance between fishing, marriage and family, then men are more likely to get happiness in life.

Second: Disadvantages

Anything, if you don't master it well, will easily have a bad influence on yourself.

To put it mildly, it is "playing with things and getting tired". To put it seriously, it will make a person slack and negative, unwilling to fight for life, and only willing to immerse himself in "temporary happiness".

Everything that can be addictive has two sides; On the one hand, it is positive, on the other hand, it is negative.

If you can't find a balance point, it will undoubtedly make a person lose the fighting spirit of life and work and become an "idle waste" from now on.

Moreover, many men have lost their sense of responsibility for marriage and family for fishing.

It is easy to cause conflicts between husband and wife, pay insufficient attention to children, and even some people divorce their partners for fishing.

Fishing is a "double-edged sword", and how to find a balance is very important.

Some people say that men are not catching fish, but past lives.

This hobby is a means for men to relax pressure and relieve anxiety; But in any case, we should be moderate and don't "attend to one thing and lose another."

Why do men love fishing 2 1. Fishing and hunting is a kind of blood inheritance. Since ancient times, men have been important members of the family. In ancient times, men's strong and resolute physical characteristics gave them the family responsibility of hunting and fishing, and they were responsible for the survival and inheritance of a family. Although in modern society, men no longer need to go hunting and fishing to fill their stomachs, but men like to conquer, like to take risks, and like to fight blood is passed down from generation to generation, so it is men's nature to like fishing!

Men who fish are more likely to have a successful career. Three glasses of wine and a pot of tea make a great career. I want what I think! Drinking tea is like fishing, stabilizing the great cause with calm and elegant wisdom. Secondly, at the end of the day's work, sit by the river with a pole and thread and look at the sparkling water, giving yourself enough time to think about the gains and losses of a day's work. How can you not succeed every day? In addition, fishing is a sport that pays attention to strategies and methods. Fishing often will keep your wit and agility, and your work will be smoother!

3. Fishing people can accumulate more contacts. As the saying goes, a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, which is perfectly verified by fishermen. Fishermen meet in Yishui, because the fishing talk is very pleasant. Their friendship is often a helper for fishermen to copy fish. A pair of hooks, a fishing line and * * * enjoy an umbrella in the wind and rain or in the hot sun. Because there is no major conflict of interest between them, they can experience the wind and rain together, so they are friends of gentlemen!

4. Fishermen are mature and steady, not eager for quick success. Fishing is a self-cultivation sport, which pays attention to patience, perseverance and methods. Only a person with a calm personality can return home with a full load. People who are eager for quick success and instant benefit often walk sideways for harvest, such as net fish, electric fish and poisonous fish. Maybe they will get something occasionally because of luck, but it won't last long, and they will never enjoy fishing! Birds of a feather flock together. Mature and steady fishermen generally live and work well, and electric fishermen who steal the column are generally gangsters in life!

5. People who fish love life more. Fishing people generally have a single hobby and pay more attention to life. It is because of their focus on life that they can always find the beauty in life. Of course, their single-mindedness is also reflected in their feelings. Generally, people who fish don't like drinking and don't have time to have an affair with the opposite sex. So their single-mindedness and love for fishing is the embodiment of their love for life!

6. Fishing men have high EQ because fishing is a time-consuming sport, but their wives and families want you to spend more time with them, so there will be time conflicts between fishing and spending time with their families, and fishermen often use high EQ to resolve this contradiction. Details are as follows:

Fishermen usually do more housework after returning home, and they are good at cooking, washing pots, mopping floors and washing clothes. Fishermen will give gifts to their wives and families on holiday anniversaries; Fishing people go shopping, shopping and watching movies with their wives in their spare time; Fishermen have no extra expenses except fishing. When they get paid, they only keep part of the money for refueling and buying bait, and give all the rest to their wives. What is the reason for showing it to my wife like this? Go fishing anyway!

Why do men love fishing? 1. Have a moment of peace.

Men like fishing. On the one hand, the reason may be that they can enjoy their own quiet time. Men are not good at housework, but if they are at home, they still have children to take care of, wives to take care of, family to take care of and so on. Therefore, it is better to choose their own hobbies and go fishing, so that they can enjoy a moment of quiet time, which is also their own time, undisturbed.

Second, enjoy the satisfaction of fish.

Secondly, men rarely get a sense of accomplishment, but fishing is different. People just enjoy a fishing process, throwing rods, watching floats and waiting for the fish to bite. All these scenes are very harmonious. Whether fishing or not, as long as you go through this process, you are very satisfied, so many men still prefer fishing and can vent quietly.

Third, a way of interpersonal communication.

The way of communication between men is not limited to the wine table, but may also be in some hobbies. Fishing is a good way to communicate. Not only can you find like-minded friends, but the fish you catch can also be given to your neighbors, which is also a very good way to increase the integration of neighborhood relations. This is why more and more men like fishing, choose fishing, and even fish all night to cultivate their fishing hobbies.