My wife is pregnant. How did you survive as a husband?

There is really no "support". When my daughter-in-law was pregnant, my mother took care of her at first (mainly cooking for her). After a while, I found that both of them were depressed. In order to make pregnant women feel better, I asked my mother to go back to her hometown, and the two of us lived alone. I go home after work every day, buy food in the supermarket on the way, and start cooking when I get home.

Almost after dinner, I went home as a daughter-in-law (she works in the Internet industry and gets off work late). After supper, she had a rest. After I washed the dishes, we went for a walk in the community. ?

Let me sum up my experience. In the meantime, my husband should do the following:

1, company. Companionship is the longest confession. It takes an hour to say 10 thousand words of "love dearly" than to spend an hour with high quality. Besides spending time, you should pay more attention to it. Doesn't mean that staying with your daughter-in-law is companionship. Think more about what your daughter-in-law wants and ask others. Why don't you just ask her and start from her needs?

For example, my daughter-in-law is afraid of dogs, so I bought a stick specially and took it with her when she was walking in the community (actually, it was useless, just to reassure her). She likes soup, but I have to go to work, so I can't make soup after work every day. So I bought a rice cooker, put the ingredients in the refrigerator at night, and throw them in the rice cooker after getting up in the morning to set the time, so that I can drink delicious soup with a little salt when I get home from work. ?

2, * * * love. Many husbands know their wives' pain, but they don't know where it is, and then simply understand pregnancy companionship as "unreasonable tolerance for pregnant women", which is wrong. What pregnant women in this period hate most is something like "melodramatic? Women have been like this for thousands of years. " In fact, my husband's impatience and condescending attitude can't be hidden. As soon as your mouth is closed, you will run out of your eyes.

It's said that there is a machine abroad to let her husband experience the pain of childbirth. I haven't tried it. It just means you have to treat yourself like a pregnant woman. When a pregnant woman is bored, you should not simply tolerate her, but understand her negative emotions, help her relieve stress and give her love and support. ?

3. Talk about science. Knowledge is power, and there is no way to take good care of pregnant women if they are completely blind. It is suggested that it is necessary for my husband to listen to some special pregnancy lectures or read books for self-study. For example, how many stages are there in labor? What should I do after seeing red? How should I prepare the bag just now? How to detect fetal heart rate? How much fruit should pregnant women eat every day? Wait a minute.

The more knowledge you have, the more confident you will be, and you won't panic when you encounter something. Your wife will trust and rely on you more psychologically. In addition, the more correct knowledge you have, the more you can avoid some messy pseudoscience. For example, WiFi is harmful to pregnant women, so you must wear radiation protection clothes and don't wash your hair more during pregnancy.

In fact, pregnancy is also a process of mutual growth. After the test of this period of time, both sides have become better people and their feelings have become better, and they will welcome the arrival of a new life together.