How to send a circle of friends when you break up and want to save it?

How to send a circle of friends when you break up and want to save it?

How to send a circle of friends after breaking up. Many people break up on impulse, so many people want to save their lover through their circle of friends. However, friends and friends can't mess with their hair, which is very particular. Let me take you a brief look at how to send friends after breaking up.

How to send a circle of friends 1 1 after breaking up and control the frequency of posting?

Some people send a few circle of friends every day, for fear that their predecessors will not see them. Don't worry, if TA doesn't want to see you, TA will block your dynamics, and you can't see it no matter how you send it; If TA wants to see you, TA will click on your homepage to see what you said.

Calm down, don't send anything at sixes and sevens, it has no positive effect except showing that you are extremely unstable.

Just stick to publishing 3-5 articles every week, and every 10 day, include a collection of distress indicators, such as working overtime late, taking a picture of an empty and deserted office, accompanied by "It's another busy day, I forgot to eat, and no one reminded me";

Publish a collection of old love indicators every two weeks, such as taking a photo of your "old place" with the caption "It's the same here, nothing is missing, but it seems that everything is missing."

2. Featured release content

What is good content? It is good to show that your life is full, but frequent parties and revelry will not show your life is full, but will only show your emptiness.

Many people have misunderstandings in this regard. They believe that showing their popularity and being accompanied will enhance their value and stimulate their predecessors to strive for reunification. In fact, many people were hacked by their predecessors in this way. The seniors either think that you are casual or have a new love, or think that you deliberately brush the sense of existence.

You can post photos of participating in public welfare activities, company development training activities, outdoor activities with friends, or taking photos with elders and leaders, with vibrant words to convey your positive attitude towards life.

He takes pictures instead of taking selfies.

Jiugongge's chicken soup selfie is out of date. Not only your ex, but also your friends will be speechless. Just give a polite compliment.

If you want to guide the interaction, you'd better take a look at the photos taken by others. On the one hand, it will be more vivid, on the other hand, it will arouse people's association-who took this?

One or two half-length or full-length photos, coupled with the feelings at that time, will attract people to stop. If you have like-minded friends, friends can also see your message, and TA will have the impulse to leave a message and say something.

4. share your feelings skillfully

Some people think that it is noisy to brush the sad chicken soup on various platforms, so they turn to the circle of friends and want their predecessors to see their grievances. But this way will never win the sympathy of the predecessors, but will give people a feeling of melodramatic and complaining.

If you send a similar circle of friends after breaking up, delete it quickly. Don't assume that your ex can feel your feelings. TA will only think that you are complaining and criticizing TA by innuendo.

If you must express your loneliness, you can share a movie and briefly talk about your interpretation. In short, don't let people think that you are depressed for no reason. At first glance, you are still immersed in the mood of lovelorn.

Strictly implement the above four points, and your circle of friends will play a boosting role in recovery. Of course, sending a circle of friends is only an auxiliary link. You can't think that just by sending some friends, you can automatically make your ex change their minds and make a complete recovery plan. It is still necessary!

How to send a circle of friends when you break up and want to save it? First of all, you understand, what do you need to pass on to the people you want to save? In my opinion, you need to pass on "three states" to each other.

First, the sense of self-sufficiency.

You are an independent person, you are not a person who depends on others for survival.

You have your own life, your own job, your own. My friend, you have your own independent life, and people who depend on others feel that they are subservient and a drag. Independence means that they can be self-sufficient, so they won't feel that your world has been pestering him since you broke up.

Insecure people will pester and depend on others, while independent people mean that I can live well without you.

The circle of friends you send can be a gathering between you and your friends, something related to your work, or something you won't or dare to do before.

Second, sustained growth.

No matter how good you are, it is useless for the other party not to remember you. Therefore, maintain a certain frequency of "brushing face" in the circle of friends.

Constantly deepen your impression in the other person's mind, frequency is very important here, don't send 5 or 6 articles every day, it will make people feel aesthetic fatigue and hate you more.

My suggestion is that it is very appropriate to send a circle of friends every three days or so.

The other person won't forget you, and won't think you are bored every day. (If you seldom send hair bands before, please double the interval between hair bands. )

How to scientifically evaluate your recovery success rate and recovery time, we have shared a lot in the article of WeChat official account at the end of the article!

Third, remould self-worth.

Rebuilding self-worth is the key to recovery.

Rebuilding self-worth refers to remolding a person's comprehensive qualities such as temperament, experience, vision and aesthetics.

1, no negative energy transfer

For example, complain about others, don't accuse the society of injustice and so on. Don't indulge your negative emotions, such as disappointment, despair, pain, sadness and so on.

You see, it is necessary to send some positive energy content, such as "learning from past experiences is the greatest growth!" "

2. Friends circle should have something to say.

It is especially necessary to be cautious to save your circle of friends, because the other party may judge your current situation through your circle of friends. Therefore, every circle of friends you send needs to be carefully designed. Don't send what you ate and where you went, which will only make you feel bored and frivolous.

For example, you can send a work photo, but it shows your working ability and strength. You send a photo of the library, which is a kind of transmission that you can calm yourself down to read and grow.

Any content is to convey a certain aspect of your information to the other party, and it is positive information.

It should be noted here that the essay should be concise, don't say too much, and try to see the core content you want to say at the moment when the other person's finger slides.

3. Transfer changes

You should have a clear purpose in your circle of friends. What do you want to convey to each other?

Any breakup has a reason. What is the reason?

You need to spend time combing and then design the content according to the combing results. These contents should be designed according to each other's psychology. For example, if the other person hates that you don't pay attention to your image, then you can send some photos with good clothes and makeup.

If the other person dislikes you being fat, you can send some sports photos; If the other person thinks you have a bad temper, you can send some reading photos, such as reading Ceng Shiqiang's The Mystery of Emotion.

You need to know why you send your friends instead of your hair.

Many people ask me, how often do I send friends?

Actually, there is no fixed standard. You can send two articles a day or one article every two or three days. If you have to give a standard, send one every three days.

A student once said to me, "Teacher, I think some circle of friends is too fake. Not really yourself at all. I want to be myself. "

Le Jia, a guest of If You Are the One, once said the following words to a male guest who insisted on being himself, which impressed me deeply.

"It took me ten years to understand this truth. When I was young, I always felt that I wanted to be my truest self. No matter what you say, I am me, and I don't want to live for what others say.

But it took me many years to realize that I had made a serious mistake, which was to confuse a concept. The truest self does not represent the best self, and sometimes the truth is not so beautiful.

Why insist on what is not so beautiful in yourself to express your truth? "

Yes, there are many people who don't care about other people's feelings and are completely self-centered. Do they have to stick to this self?

Some people have poor emotional control, hot temper and easy to publish. Why not make yourself a stable and gentle person?

If you are facing a difficult emotional problem now and many methods have failed, you can look at the end of the article for help!

Temporary emotional problems are not terrible, nor are they hopeless! It is not difficult to save nature successfully as long as a systematic scientific method is adopted!