Why visit relatives?

Why visit relatives

If you know this, you will no longer reject it

Many people are now "visiting relatives"

< p>This matter is troublesome, if you come to ask me this question

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I will tell you: I will not reject it

Because I think this is a very necessary thing.

1. The origin of visiting relatives?

It is impossible to trace the original origin of visiting relatives, but what can be determined

is that at the latest during the Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms There has already been a custom of visiting relatives

Qian Liu, King of Wuyue, said: "The princess must return to Lin'an every spring. The king wrote to the concubine in a letter

saying: "The flowers are blooming on the road. Return slowly. "

That is to say, Princess Wuyue would return to her natal home every Spring Festival, and King Wuyue went out for a trip.

Wang saw that the flowers on the road had bloomed, so he wrote to the princess to tell her that the flowers on the road had bloomed.

You can come back slowly

Although "slowly" means "urge", we can see from this that the highest value in ancient times

Rulers also have the custom of visiting relatives.

2. The development of visiting relatives?

Visiting relatives has become very popular in the Tang Dynasty, and many officials pay homage

< p>Prior to the visit, they will hand out famous tattoos to express respect for the host

At the same time, they will prepare some delicious food and wait for others to visit, visit relatives

or go to other people's homes. Visiting relatives is also called "passing the throne". Treating the visitors to a drink is called "New Year wine" or "Spring wine". The poem: "锵

The more people visit, the more people visit, which means that the family has a prosperous population.

In the Song Dynasty, scholar-bureaucrats used name cards to congratulate each other. In the Ming Dynasty, instead of paying New Year greetings, the Qing Dynasty added the custom of "group worship", that is, everyone visited relatives for mutual benefit. Gathering together to congratulate each other became a tradition.

Gathering at the host’s house to chat, printed New Year’s cards began to appear in the Republic of China.

As time went by, people began to have greeting cards. It formed what we know today as visiting relatives

friends, blessing each other, and giving out lucky money.

3. Why do we need to "visit relatives"?

1. .Continuing traditional customs

In the past, when everything was not developed, the social system was a clan society.

In a clan society, in a sense, visiting relatives was a basic skill for survival.

2. For emotional maintenance

We may meet less than 5 days a year, 365 days a year, but there are people who grew up together with bare butts

, there are elders who have brought you up and taken care of you, and they have the need for emotional maintenance, or gratitude. If you go and visit the elderly, they will be very happy, at least They will think that young people have not forgotten them.

3. Minor economic interests

In a small rural society, people form bonds with each other for various reasons.

< p>Benefit relationship, the process of visiting relatives is to maintain the link of a group, which can be used to resist some risks.

4. What is the meaning of visiting relatives?< /p>

1. Learn to be grateful

For example, paying New Year greetings to your elders when visiting relatives is a kind of gratitude. Respecting the elderly is a Chinese national tradition. During the New Year, you should carry them. Bringing a few decent gifts to visit your elders and chatting with them can enhance family ties.

2. Educational significance

You. Take your children to pay New Year greetings to your parents and elders, so that your children can learn to grow up in an orderly manner

Respect your elders, and your children will also respect you in the future.

3. Learn to live in harmony

You take your children to a relative’s house to pay New Year greetings, and the children from the same family play together. What you learn

is how to treat others with kindness and how to Live in harmony with others.

5. Reasons why you don’t like to visit relatives?

1. Direct reasons

Most of them are young people visiting their elders, and there are no similar topics< /p>

There are also some elders who are unreasonable, find fault with some parents, and are "extremely concerned" about their children

's lives through various "blind dates," "birthing," "study well," etc.< /p>

2. Indirect reasons

Our survival has become less and less dependent on the interconnection of a group of people. The development of modern economy has given greater freedom to individuals. Even if you don't have relatives, you can still support yourself in the city, but in the past, it was difficult to survive on your own. Therefore, there is no direct interest between you and them.

6. What to do when visiting relatives?

Learn to love yourself

1. Self-examination

Is it true that some aspects of yourself are true? If we fail to do a good job, finding out and correcting them

can help us grow better.

2. Compatibility

Where there are people, there will be friction. Try to understand each other's difficulties and mobilize our "***emotion"

and "tolerance", after all, home is a place of love

3. Sublimation

Humans are social animals, living in relationships, and interpersonal relationships are our life lessons

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Question. Having the ability to proactively solve problems will help us better adapt to society

Seize more opportunities.

7. What do you think about visiting relatives?

Of course you have to visit relatives, they like you very much.

Everything has pros and cons. After China's economic progress, human beings tend to be independent

The weakening of group power is a current trend. Under this

trend, what we can do is to keep our eyes open and pay more attention to the actions of decision-makers

and try our best to create an environment that can A mechanism to protect the majority of individuals, otherwise

in the face of power, without the previous ethnic strength, waiting for individuals to be doomed

will be an irreversible tragedy.

I don’t think you need to measure something by whether it has benefits. If you do something for benefits

then sooner or later you will become a violent person. ,

A stiff person with no feelings to talk about.

So. Going on a wedding trip is a very happy thing!