Look at the man without shoes and say.

When we complain about bad shoes, many people still have no feet.

? I seem to have heard this sentence somewhere, but I have never felt it.

Working overtime again.

It is very hot at noon in summer of beijing, especially for people like me who are used to living in the north. There is nowhere to hide in hot and humid weather.

I am a person transferred from other units to help, and because of my young age and low position, I have to do many small chores.

One day after lunch, I was busy 1 for many hours. I put down what I copied in my hand and walked back to the hostel from my unit.

I used to walk all the way in the shade of trees. I wish I had worn sunglasses.

It's not cool in the shade, and cicadas on the trees are chirping and fidgeting.

When I walked back to my room, I broke out in a sweat.

In a bad mood, depressed and irritable.

At this time, I have long forgotten the glory of coming to Beijing to help, and I didn't think I should cherish such a good exercise opportunity.

Anyway, it is compared with the leaders around me.

Seeing that they can go home for dinner after work, I have to work overtime, and my heart is very uncomfortable and unbalanced.

Sometimes I even want to hurry back to my original unit. Because everyone there is the same, the serious mentality of being widowed and unfair.

When I arrived at the room, I took off my clothes in advance, threw them on the luggage rack and picked up a bottle of mineral water to drink.

When I went to draw the curtains, everything I saw made me move.

Several migrant workers are working on the opposite roof.

Probably waterproofing the roof. On such a hot day, I feel breathless when I walk, but they are under construction.

I can't hear what they are saying through the window, but they must be laughing.

In order to support their families, they have no regrets.

I have many choices, and I am still complaining about such a good condition.

I stood by the window for a long time.

Images flashed through my mind.

In high school, I always didn't want to listen to my parents because they were long-winded and chattered.

There is a simple cable bridge between the two mountains. There is only one steel wire on the fast-flowing river now. The children tied their bodies with ropes, then tied the ropes to steel wires and slowly crossed the river. They must go to school.

A little girl is writing on a stone with a pen. When the reporter asked her what she was doing, he said, "This is my exercise book."

There is also a picture of seven or eight children reading aloud with their mouths open in the dilapidated classroom. At first, I didn't pay attention to their posture, thinking that they were sitting because their upper bodies were straight. But when you look closely, you find that they have no seats at all, and their legs as thin as bamboo poles are kneeling on the cold concrete floor, with no cushions and nothing, but they are still reading aloud, which seems to be full of expectations for life.

They should complain.

But they didn't complain, they were still grateful for life and still faced life with sincerity.

The essence of complaining is that it can neither satisfy the status quo nor change life.

It's easy to stop complaining, either satisfy the status quo or change your life.

Actually, it was just a moment.

At that time, I thought, I am already very good. From the Great Northern Wilderness to the provincial capital, from a region to Beijing, I am the only one in a unit. What am I dissatisfied with or ungrateful for? What I'm thinking now is how to change my mind and start my life.

When the car gets there, it will find a way around the hill. Everyone's life is not smooth sailing, but it is precisely because of these twists and turns that a colorful life has been cultivated. Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, and no one or thing can be "perfect". Look at the positive side more and look at the negative side less. In the face of difficulties, we should have a positive attitude, accept the status quo and move on. This is the most important thing, so we should form the habit of positive and optimistic thinking.

I want to learn to adapt and accept the reality. The past cannot be changed, and the future is out of reach. Live in the present, seize the present time, take the initiative to accept the challenge, and look at the positive side of things, even a small part. See this experience as an opportunity, not an insurmountable obstacle.

Learn to accept everything that life brings us, whether it is good or bad. Even the worst situation will change, which can teach you a more meaningful attitude: patience, for example.

I will try to be myself and allow others to be others. Praise yourself and others. Whether the work is successfully completed and whether the clothes you wear fit.

Most problems are only temporary and fleeting. Understanding this is the key to progress. Write down all the doubts about yourself and release these thoughts. It's really a waste of time to spend on self-doubt. Make your own decisions and move forward boldly.

Later, I also learned that the best way to remove weeds is to plant flowers.

The best way to get rid of complaining is to be grateful.

Gratitude is the most precious thing in life. A person who knows how to be grateful must be a person with good cultivation, a person who treats others sincerely, a free and easy person, a happy person and a humorous person.

Gratitude, you can give everything you have, and you can return it with your life, but maybe you don't need too much material return, just a sincere smile and a warm-hearted movable type. However, gratitude can make the world full of warm breath and life full of bright sunshine.

Think about it, in fact, we should be grateful for everything we have. We don't worry about food and clothing, and live in a stable and peaceful era. Isn't that enough to make you grateful?

Then I read a story and thought it was very good.

When a writer was on a business trip, he accidentally took a distinctive taxi. The drivers of these two taxis are dressed very clean, and the cars are also clean.

As soon as the writer sat down, he received a beautiful card from the driver, which read: "In a friendly atmosphere, send my guests to their destination fastest, safest and cheapest."

Seeing this sentence, the writer became interested and chatted with the driver.

The driver said, "Excuse me, would you like something to drink?" The author was surprised: "Does this car still serve drinks?"

The driver smiled and said, "Yes, I not only provide coffee, but also various drinks and different newspapers." The author said, "Can I have a cup of hot coffee?" The driver calmly poured a cup of hot coffee for the writer from the thermos cup next to him. Then he gave the writer a card with the names of various newspapers and various radio programs on it. I saw that USA-Today wrote Time magazine and Sports Daily. . . Too comprehensive. .

The writer neither reads newspapers nor listens to music. But I talked to the driver. In the meantime, the driver kindly asked the author whether the temperature inside the car was appropriate and whether there was a shorter way to reach the destination. The author just feels warm.

The driver said to the author, "In fact, at first, my car didn't provide such a comprehensive service." Like everyone else, I like to complain. Bad weather, meager income, terrible traffic jams and terrible road conditions make my life miserable every day. One day, I overheard a story on the radio and changed my mind. That radio program invited Wayne, an inspiring master of success. Dr. Dale, let the doctor introduce his new book. I still remember the name of that book. This is called sincerity and spirit.

The focus of this book is {Stop complaining} and stopping complaining in daily life will make anyone successful. He suddenly woke me up that my bad situation was actually caused by my own complaints. So I decided to stop complaining and start changing.

In the first year, I just smiled at all the passengers and my income doubled.

In the second year, I sincerely cared about the joys and sorrows of all passengers, comforted them and doubled my income.

In the third year, this year, I turned my taxi into a rare five-star taxi in the United States. In addition to income, popularity has also increased. Now, if you want to take my car, you need to call in advance to make an appointment. And you, in fact, are a passenger I picked up on the road.

What the taxi driver said surprised the author. A writer cannot but reflect on himself. In fact, in daily life, they complain a lot. He decided to change himself. He wrote a book about drivers. Later, some readers were inspired and tried to do it. Life has really changed. This change shows the author how powerful it is to stop complaining.

Look at Ma Yun's life carefully. In the first 37 years, his life was full of two words: failure. After the age of 37, I suddenly made a fortune. The secret is four words: never complain.

My understanding of these four words is getting deeper and deeper. The reason is that all the successful people I have contacted have recently entered a state of nuclear explosion. I have dealt with these people, and combined with my own experience, I found that the secret of success is these four words: never complain.