What is a spare tire? How do I know if you are a spare tire?

When the seniors gave you emotional counseling, they found a very common problem. Many buddies don't know how to become spare tires!

When they come to ask the seniors, they usually ask: Why did the seniors ignore me? After I confessed, she began to be cold to me, but after a while she came to me as close as before, but I resisted upgrading the relationship in various ways ...

In fact, the spare tire should meet such a premise: you must like her, she has a good impression on you, but the initiative of falling in love is that she is not with you, so your confession and good impression on her is the prelude to the spare tire. Don't think this is an ordinary paper chasing girls. Look at yourself. How much money, time and energy have you paid for this relationship? Especially emotional involvement, how many times do you miss her a day? What about her? Do I think of you occasionally? So, if you don't want to be a spare tire, promise the seniors not to do these things, okay?

Strong sense of demand, often returning information every second, and once the sister paper does not return information, it will send multiple messages immediately; Still constantly questioning why sister paper ignores itself.

Who did you say you were? Even her parents, relatives and friends have no right to ask her to reply to the information immediately. Who are you? You answer her every second and she answers her every second? Who told you to go back in seconds? It's not enough that you're cheap, so you have to pull others along?

Except for a strong sense of ideological need, you wait for nothing but the information of sister paper, which shows that you are bored and focus on sister paper. What will sister paper think of you?

Do you think sister paper will be moved? No one has ever taken her so seriously? Ha ha! You are stressed, not sweet. People don't like you. You are so aggressive that you think it is her honor to love her. How can you be so shameless? Besides, what have you been doing all day? Have you ever seen someone staring at her dialog box with a mobile phone all day, waiting for her to reply? Will do this, it must be diaosi! Sister paper didn't even think of her toes, so do you think it is necessary for her to talk and laugh with a diaosi for a second?

The buddies who have seen the "Charm Attraction Tutorial" must know that value determines attraction, and ideas determine routines. Will become a spare tire, not necessarily low value, but low self-esteem and inferiority, who will be a spare tire without it?

You are a man of seven feet seven inches. If you have no confidence, forget it. How can you feel so inferior? Is this really the only one in the world?

Please don't be so sacred that you haven't seen the world, okay? Just like you are too lazy to struggle, but you chose a comfortable life at the age of struggle. It is also a kind of happiness to call it ordinary and simple.

The most deceitful thing in this world is yourself.

It is impossible to correctly distinguish when being good for her is icing on the cake and when being good for her is destroying attraction. Many buddies can't tell this "good" because they accept the idea that women will like you only if they are good to women; A woman has no opinion of her own, and whoever is good to her will go with her.

In fact, none of them understand the principle of attraction. Anyone who has seen the "Attraction Tutorial" should know that how to distinguish this is too simple. First, you have to attract her to be good to her; Second, being kind to her is a reward, not an obligation.

In short, you have a framework, you are kind to the person you like, and the other person must pay, even if it is a verbal response to you and a practical response to you, including thanking you and doing the same thing for you ... This is a valuable and mutually beneficial "goodness". Always remember one sentence: no one will cherish what you get for nothing! Especially a woman, if she can get your kindness as easy as blowing off dust, why should she cherish it? Do you think she is stupid or you are stupid? In other words, I understand that if a girl likes you and then treats you well, but you don't like her, will you cherish it?

Your kindness is a reward, not an obligation.

You can't hide the urge to like her, then you choose to confess, then you are rejected, and then you start to enter the spare tire area.

Women are very sensitive animals. They have a sixth sense and strong social intuition. Whether you like her or not, she will know at once.

And you foolishly chose to take the initiative to confess, not only on the premise of attracting her, but you said that such a mindless move is equivalent to directly telling her that my heart is shining! In fact, your brain has no bottom line!

Women have an instinctive sense of challenge to feelings. What challenges? She likes this kind of chasing game, and constantly improves the difficulty of the game, because she wants to test whether you really love her, whether you can pass this test safely, and finally win the beauty through layers of checkpoints.

However, many buddies don't understand this truth. They think that if they like each other, they must confess. The senior comes out of nowhere: you don't even know whether the other person likes it or not, so you throw yourself at the other person like a ball. Are you too shameless, selfish and shameless?

I am a weak woman. Why should I grab your huge body? You like her. Why does she like you? Is this logical? Many people like her. Who are you? If everyone who likes her has an obligation to like her, isn't she guilty of being a playboy?

So there's a reason such a buddy became a spare tire. He is selfish and brainless. Without knowing the enemy's situation, he charged blindly and didn't kill you. Who did you kill?

So making a spare tire is self-defeating.

In this era when everyone has spare tires, spare tires are everywhere and are spare tires for each other, it is really difficult and even harder to make spare tires! But if you know how to attract women and how to grasp the hearts of girls, you will naturally not be confused: First, I have my own framework and principles, and I will not fall easily. Secondly, what if I become a spare tire? There is a shortcut to counterattack! Tutorial in hand, sister paper I have!

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