How to deal with attacks

He has good conditions now, and you will have good conditions in the future. How can I put it? Because you are of the same sex and both look at things from the perspective of men, I think two people have their own shortcomings in getting along more or less, and it is difficult to find the same conditions in all aspects, let alone your sexual orientation and mate selection. If he doesn't care, why should you feel guilty? When two people are together, sensibility is greater than rationality. If you care about everything, you can't stay with anyone for long.