Look down on yourself, look up to others, and get out of my hand.

Look down on yourself, look up to others, and get out of my hand.

I am a pair of yin and yang with people, and so are gains and losses. I get yin and lose yang. Take me too seriously and want to take everything for yourself, that is, if the yin is too heavy, the yin will hurt the yang, and there will be disaster. Blessed are those who look down on themselves and look up to others. Because yin and yang are meant to be like this, yang stands for tall, and yin stands for low and small darkness.

After Liu Bang became emperor, he first eliminated some hidden dangers of the country, then enfeoffed his cronies and heroes and introduced policies to protect the people. Of course, in this process, he also wanted to avenge himself, but he finally gave up.

In terms of eliminating hidden dangers, Tian Heng was forced to die first. After Liu Bang proclaimed himself emperor, Tian Heng, the former king of Qi, was afraid of being killed, so he took more than 500 men to the sea and lived on the island. Liu Bang, the emperor of Gaudi, thought that Tian Heng had talented people and was afraid of his future insurrection, so he sent messengers to pardon Tian Heng's sin and called him. Tian Heng was afraid of being killed and didn't dare to come. He refused to say that he boiled Shi Li to death, and his brother Li Shang was a general of Han nationality, so there was nothing he could do. Liu bang continued to force him to come, saying that whoever dares to move will destroy his family. If he comes, he will seal the vassal, or if he doesn't come, he will send troops to attack you. Tian Heng had no choice but to report for duty. At a post office near Luoyang, he knew that he would be humiliated even if he went, so he committed suicide. Liu bang buried him hypocritically and wept bitterly. Who knows, the two attendants who came with him buried him and then committed suicide, which can be described as loyal. Liu bang was shocked. There are more than 500 people on the island, so he called them. They don't have any choice. They heard that Tian Heng died and committed suicide. Liu bang is relieved.

Eliminate hidden dangers and put Han Xin under house arrest. First, someone wrote to report Han Xin's rebellion, and Gaudi asked the generals for advice. Everyone said that he sent his troops to beat him. Chen Ping said, your majesty's chosen men are not as good as Han Xin, and the general is not as good as Han Xinqiang. How to fight? Why don't you take the opportunity of dreaming and meet your vassal near the fief in Han Xin to lure Han Xin out, so that you can catch him. Han Xin heard that Liu Bangceng went to visit the princes in Chen, but he was indecisive and didn't know what to do. At this time, someone suggested to him that you might as well kill Zhong Limei, the former surrenderer of Chu State, and give him to Liu Bang. Zhong Limei once humiliated Liu Bang. If Liu Bang is happy, you will be fine. Hearing this, Han Xin got there and arrested him on charges of rebellion. At this time, Han Xin still didn't believe that the rabbit was dead and the dog was cooked, but it was too late.

Although Han Xin has a strong ability to fight, he doesn't know enough about people's sinister feelings and is not proficient in intrigue. The most terrible thing is that he is greedy for fame and gain, which is very dangerous. The greed for fame can be seen from this. After Liu Bang named him King of Chu, he gave a daughter to the floating mother who had rewarded him with a bowl of rice, and also sealed the lieutenant who insulted him and let him drill his legs, saying that he was a strong man, and it was not incompetent or nominal not to kill him himself. How can you be so insecure as a general? Is the insult of the villain worth remembering for so long? You and he are not on the same level. This is called shattered glass, which means that you have been worried about it. Such a stingy person, although a little capable, really can't achieve great things, plus he is so greedy, it is inevitable to get himself into trouble.

In terms of eliminating hidden dangers, we have also done two things: one release and one kill. At the beginning, Ji Bu, a native of Chu, was a member of Xiang Yu's general, who put Liu Bang in danger many times. Liu bang offered a reward to his daughter for catching him, saying that whoever dared to harbor him would sit down together. The Zhu family in Lu had a pedometer and told Teng Gonghe that it was their responsibility to take care of each other. You can also kill all the courtiers of Xiang? And because of personal grievances, they will kill people, which is a manifestation of narrow-mindedness. Driving people to Xiongnu in the north or South Vietnam in the south is the embodiment of enemy capital. Please tell the emperor quickly. Xia Houying told Liu Bang when he had the chance. Liu Bang pardoned Lu Bu and made him a doctor. Zhujiajian Island is very interesting. He didn't like Lu Bu because of this, and he never went to see Lu Bu again. Don't remember yourself when you give someone a favor, otherwise you always think that others will repay you with kindness, and you will suffer if you suffer, and even think that others will repay you with kindness or turn kindness into enmity. If you don't put pressure on others, you won't have pressure yourself.

Compared with Lu Bu, his uncle Ding Gong, who was also a general under Xiang Yu, once hunted down Liu Bang in the Battle of Pengcheng. At that time, Liu Bang was defeated in hand-to-hand combat, so he turned back and said to Ding Gong, leave a line to do things and meet you later. Ding Gong then led the troops to withdraw. When Xiang Yu perished, Ding Gong came to see Gaudi, who immediately dragged Ding Gong to the barracks and killed him, saying, "Ding Gong, as a courtier of Wang Xiang, was unfaithful, which caused Wang Xiang to lose the world! Later generations are courtiers, don't imitate Ding Gong! " Now that Liu Bang has seized power, everyone in the world will naturally be loyal to him. Ding Gong didn't know the situation. He thought he owed Liu Bang, but he never thought that he had lost his sense of honor. How could Liu Canbang use such a person? Therefore, we must do our duty well, and we must not be those who are disloyal, unfilial and unjust, and look down not only on our own people, but also on our enemies.

This is what Liu Bang did when he was sealed for his work. Liu Bang learned the lesson that Qin's isolation led to extinction, so he wantonly enfeoffed people with the same surname, so as to appease the world and enfeoffed all the large tracts of land obtained from governors to his brothers, cousins, younger brothers, illegitimate children and others. It can be said that one person gets the word, and chickens and dogs ascend to heaven. After Emperor Gao raised more than 20 people who had made great contributions, the rest struggled day and night, but they couldn't make up their minds for a moment and couldn't raise them in time. Gaudi is in Nangong, Luoyang. From the overpass, he saw the generals often sitting in the sand in twos and threes talking about something. Gaudi said, "What are you talking about?" Liu Hou Sean said, "Don't you know? This is rebellion! " Gaudi said: "The world has just settled down. Why do you want to rebel again? "

Liu Hou said, "Your Majesty starts with ordinary people and relies on these people to seize the world. Now that your majesty has become the son of heaven, he has repaid all his close and beloved old friends and killed all those who hated him for life. Now, the military attache counts merit and thinks that even if all the land in the world is designated as a state, it will not be rewarded in full, so these people are afraid that your majesty will not be rewarded in full, and they are afraid that they will be suspected or even killed because of their usual mistakes, so they gather together to plot rebellion. " Gaudi then said worriedly, "What should I do?" Liu Hou said, "Who does the emperor hate most? Do all his ministers know?" Gao Di said, "Yongchi and I have an old feud. He humiliated me many times. I want to kill him, but because he has done a lot of credit, I can't bear to do it. " Liu Hou said: "Then give the award to Yongchi as soon as possible, so that everyone in the group firmly believes that they can get the award." At this time, Gaudi prepared a banquet, named Yong Chi the Marquis, and quickly urged the Prime Minister and the suggestion to honor him. After the banquet, the ministers were overjoyed and said, "Yong Chi is still a long time, and we ordinary people have nothing to worry about!"

Don't take your desires so seriously, because if you take yourself too seriously, if you have too many desires and get too much, you will be rich and scattered, and everyone will be centrifugal. If you look down on yourself and give your property to others, you will be rich and scattered. If you underestimate your own views and ideas, you will learn from others' correct ideas and make the right decisions; If you despise your reputation, you won't get tired of it. If you retire, you can save yourself, and you won't be so arrogant as to bring disaster to yourself like Han Xin. Look down on your hatred and don't use other people's lives to satisfy your peace of mind, because people are equal, life and peace of mind are not the same, and you can only let yourself lose virtue. A man without virtue will be betrayed by all.

In a word, happiness is not only material wealth, but also spiritual peace. People who take themselves too seriously, whether because of their dissatisfaction or because of external reactions, will make themselves in an uneasy state. Therefore, look down on yourself and look up to others, until the light is not bright, the natural state of mind is complete.