Marry a woman who is a sheep and a man who is a chicken. Is this sentence correct?

In fact, these are some words handed down from the countryside, which are considered by many people to be formed by years of experience of the elderly, and many people also believe them.

"Marry a woman who belongs to the sheep" mainly comes from the sentence "Ten sheep and nine women are incomplete, and all sit in a golden rice bowl". This sentence means that the fate of sheep is even more embarrassing. In the past, the countryside thought that a sheep had a hard time and it was difficult to make a family rich, so it was biased.

But in fact, this proverb has been misinformed. At the earliest, it should be "ten sheep and nine blessings, and one sheep sits on the golden throne". It should be said that nine out of ten sheep have both good luck and good luck, and one is a man sitting on the golden throne, which is a good zodiac sign.

The reason why it was later misinformed was because Cixi had been in power for many years and everyone was miserable. Cixi happened to be a sheep, so everyone thought it was a sheep.

"Marry a man instead of a chicken man" is also a rural saying, because there is another saying called "Flying Dragon in the sky, Phoenix in the ground". Phoenix generally describes women, chickens are considered to be similar to phoenix, and men who belong to chickens are considered to be unmanly.

At the same time, chicken is homophonic with "hunger", and it is also believed that people who belong to chicken have been busy all their lives, but they still don't have enough to eat, indicating that they can't live a good life.

Many people believe everything the old man says, thinking that they have rich life experience, and may regret their disobedience when it comes to fate.

But should these be believed?

In fact, I think this is all superstition and there is no scientific basis. Should so many women who are sheep and so many men who are chickens be excluded? Is their fate really as the saying goes?

In fact, as long as we observe the people around us, we can know that many people's lives are bumpy, which has nothing to do with attributes, and some people with other attributes will have many destinies.

Fate has nothing to do with the zodiac. If you want to live the life you want in this world, you must work hard and struggle, and learn to seize the opportunity when it comes. This is the normal way to change fate.

In China's marriage, there are some animal taboos, such as "making trouble" and "making an example". Therefore, people who belong to the genus chicken are not optimistic. The Year of the Monkey and the Year of the Rooster are next to each other, so many combinations are destined to be this combination, and many people are separated.

There must be a reason why men are afraid of chickens and women are afraid of sheep!

Whether this reason is right or not, science is unscientific, that is another matter. I don't know why men are afraid of chickens. Let's start with "women are afraid of being sheep".

"Ten sheep are not complete". Every year of the Sheep, many people give birth in advance or postpone their children because they want to avoid the Year of the Sheep, because the marriage and career of people who belong to the Sheep are often not smooth.

Where does this statement come from and why "women are afraid of being sheep"? This is mainly related to two women, one is Wu Zetian and the other is Empress Dowager Cixi.

Whether Wu Zetian is a sheep still needs textual research, although folklore says that she is a sheep. Empress Dowager Cixi is definitely a sheep. In order to express their dissatisfaction with the corrupt rule of Empress Dowager Cixi, the people in the late Qing Dynasty came up with the saying that "ten sheep are not complete", and Empress Dowager Cixi was a woman in charge, so the saying that "women are not sheep" came into being.

Obviously, these statements are nonsense, feudal superstition and unreliable, but they have certain influence on people's ideas. For example, when some families have conflicts, they don't actively try to solve them, but lament their bad lives. This influence is obvious!

The author thinks this is complete nonsense! There is no scientific basis for marriage to see the zodiac and match the horoscope. They are all blind contacts, and it is not an exaggeration to say that they are feudal dross; Contemporary young people think these things are just fun, and no one really takes them seriously.

Love and marriage are the convergence of two people's values. Once the two sides have a sense of identity, with the deepening of communication, there will be a feeling of short meeting, which is the premise of love and marriage. People's emotions are amazing things. If there is no intersection, we will stop. Once the spark of love is struck, it will be that Mars hits the earth, which is absolutely out of control. What family background, property status, suitability, constellation matching mismatch and so on. Go to hell; In the eyes of lovers, it's just you and me, and everything about each other is so beautiful and lovely. "Either you don't marry or I don't marry", so we live together!

From a superstitious point of view, why should we say that a woman who belongs to a sheep has a bad life? There are actually two misunderstandings here: one is the "ten sheep and nine blessings" in the Book of Changes, which means that nine of the nine women who belong to the sheep are blessed; However, due to historical misinformation, it has always been understood as "ten sheep and nine springs of happiness" and has become a rumor that women who belong to sheep have a bad life. Secondly, Empress Dowager Cixi, who was in charge in the late Qing Dynasty, was a sheep. She brought disaster to the country and people, and was especially hated. People vent their anger on her zodiac and think that a woman who belongs to a sheep has a bad life. I was drunk, too. I am a sheep girl with bad luck. Can I sit on the throne of the Empress Dowager and rule China for decades?

As for the reason why the chicken man can't get married, it's also wonderful. Judging from the so-called superstitious dross astrology, men born in the Year of the Rooster usually advocate freedom, like to be free and unrestrained, and are good at expressing themselves, which is more likely to be liked by women. Zodiac researchers believe that most men who are chickens in love are masters of love, lively and clear-cut, almost invincible in love, and can win the hearts of the opposite sex in a very short time. In my opinion, this is almost nonsense. On the one hand, it comes from the innate genetic factors of the family, on the other hand, the acquired living environment and family education are more important!

To sum up, the author thinks that the so-called genus theory is pseudoscience, which is basically a blind connection between rumors and rumors. Young people should believe in science, facts and their true feelings. When love and marriage really come, it is better to lose some of these nonsense things and not miss their due happiness in vain!

Since you ask sincerely, I will answer you seriously.

1. China proverb

Zodiac is a characteristic culture in China, and people have a lot to say about it. In ancient times and before, great events in rural areas depended on the auspicious day of the zodiac, especially marriage, and it was necessary to look at the birthday and his zodiac. At present, there is no scientific basis for these.

Men are afraid of chickens and women are afraid of sheep.

First of all, explain the sentence "Men are afraid of chickens and women are afraid of sheep". Literally, this sentence means that boys are afraid that their zodiac is a chicken, and girls are also afraid that their zodiac is a sheep. So why do you say that? First of all, there is an ancient saying that chickens fly to branches and become phoenixes. This refers to animals such as chickens, and it is also used to say that girls marry into rich families, so this sentence connects people who belong to chickens with women, but if boys are chickens, they are equivalent to girls.

Secondly, talk about the zodiac of sheep. Sheep are homophonic for masculinity, so sheep also represent men. In the past, girls should be gentle. If they are sheep, they are full of masculinity. This is why men are afraid of chickens and women are afraid of sheep, but this is a superstition without scientific basis!

3. Men pity their second wives, while women look forward to their ex-husbands.

As for the meaning of "men pity their second wives, but women look forward to their ex-husbands", it is even more interesting. A man pities his second wife to the effect that a man especially cherishes his divorced wife. In ancient times, in some rural areas, divorced men and women, men were more likely to remarry than women. This is because many people say that men will learn to love others after marriage.

The effect of women expecting their ex-husbands is that women especially regret divorcing their ex-husbands after divorce, which shows that women are very nostalgic for the past and can't let go. But I think these two sentences also show that it is easy for boys to get out of the shadows after experiencing feelings. They are heartless, it is difficult to miss the past, and they don't love the past, but they will cherish the following feelings more. However, girls have delicate minds. After experiencing feelings, they can't walk out for a long time, can't forget the past, and are full of doubts and distrust for the people they meet next.

"If you marry a wife, you don't marry a sheep girl, and if you marry a chicken man." This sentence is particularly popular in our hometown, and some people are particularly taboo.

There are two couples in our village, both men and women belong to dogs. A person is a cadre in the county and has a high position in the village. He is respected by the whole village. Every year when he returns to the village for the New Year, he is crowding round. The other person is a doctor, so is the child. His family business is very big. In the town and county, he has his own clinic, which also makes the villagers admire him very much.

At that time, the villagers always said that "women don't belong to sheep and men don't belong to chickens" is a lie. You see the two leaders in our village, not only the man is a chicken, but also the woman is a dog, and they have never seen anyone else "leave a chicken and a dog behind", so the couple have a good relationship.

However, the good times did not last long. When this man was 45 years old, the county cadres went to the countryside to inspect the work. There was an accident on the way back, and no one was there. That year he went back to the village for a funeral, and the woman cried her eyes out.

Afterwards, the villagers shouted, "Men are chickens, wives are dogs, and daughters are dogs. Can these two dogs pinch a chicken? Hey! "

In fact, in those years, Li Sanwu village was not the only one who died in a car accident, but no one came to a conclusion with this unscientific diagnosis.

However, another doctor in our village is safe and sound. The husband and wife respect each other as guests, their children are successful in their careers, their families are rich in economy, and the villagers no longer talk about their zodiac signs.

Compared with men who are chickens, we are more taboo about sheep here. Both ram and ewe think that "ten sheep are not complete". When it comes to the bad life of sheep, parents can always cite a lot of examples of people around them. For example, a sheep in the village has a bad marriage and divorced after a few years of marriage. In fact, with the development of the times, there are more divorced people in the village, and some people divorce other animals. People don't blame his zodiac, but the husband and wife are not harmonious. Only people who belong to the sheep can blame the bad zodiac when they encounter setbacks in their lives. This is of course.

In real life, everyone may encounter setbacks in life, and everyone's success will go through many hardships. Only those who dare to create and forge ahead can achieve the perfection of life, which has nothing to do with the zodiac. The ancients were superstitious because they had little power to dominate their destiny. In the face of some hardships in life, they can't find the reasons, and they use some "unwarranted" superstitions to explain them, which has no scientific basis.

The core of the topic is to marry a woman who is not a sheep and a man who is not a chicken. Is this correct? Personally, I think not, because the old saying is really summed up by the older generation. Sometimes you think it's feudal superstition, but it really works and comes true. But sometimes you will find that it is artificial, because I have been married for 93 years, and I bought a car and a house. Of course, I just got married last month, so everything is starting to get on the right track. Although the income is not much, the monthly mortgage and car loan is still quite a lot, at least it is stable.

1. Boys. Why don't boys count chickens well? This is because the old man thinks that the rooster looks like a phoenix, and it is a bit girlish to use the phoenix to describe a noble woman.

In addition, there is a saying that the rooster crows every day and is busy all day every day, and the days are bitter and hard.

2. Girls. Because in the theory of yin and yang, sheep are true yang, while women are yin, and yin and yang are not harmonious, so people think it is unlucky.

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer. But these are just the experiences of the elderly, and there is really no scientific basis. It is important to examine our personal control over our lives. Sometimes if you control it well, you will get rid of this proverb. If not, you will feel that this is a portrayal of yourself, which is really accurate. Therefore, everyone has his own opinion. Although he would rather believe that it is not credible, hard work and goals are the real business.

Answer over

"Marrying a wife and having children" is a major event in life, and it is also a lifelong matter. Therefore, young people are also very cautious when choosing objects. They think that besides appearance, they should also look for lovers to control their happy life.

Dating in cities is relatively simple, but in rural areas, it is more complicated for young people to choose partners. In rural areas, dating is also the old way for rural elderly people to find partners. For example, the other person's constellation, age, zodiac and so on. Because the rural elderly feel that only these meet the requirements are they willing to talk about meeting and getting married. So in this case, there is a rural proverb about finding a partner, saying, "Marry a woman who belongs to the sheep and marry a man who belongs to the chicken". Is this proverb right? Does it make sense? Gigi Lai will answer.

Let's start with the bizarre story of a friend of mine who is a chicken and a sheep:

A friend of mine is a chicken, but he married a woman who is a sheep. Take this rural proverb as an example, it is also a perfect match. Because "marry a woman as a sheep, marry a man as a chicken", both of them took it.

Because of this, some old people in rural areas don't think highly of their marriage, because according to their superstition, the two of them can't go on, and sooner or later they will end up divorced.

But what no one expected was that instead of divorcing because of poverty, the couple became more and more prosperous. The next year, they had twin daughters, and four years later, they had twin sons. It can be said that they have both children and children. And now they also open a garage, which is a very happy couple.

Therefore, through the experience of friends, the rural saying that "men are afraid of chickens and women are afraid of sheep" is inaccurate. But why did our ancestors have this rural proverb? Let me say:

The meaning of "marry a woman who belongs to the sheep";

The meaning of this sentence is that a man must not find a woman who belongs to the sheep before marriage, otherwise he will not be able to live in the future and will be bad for himself. Why is this sentence?

The ancestors believed in superstition, believing that women belonged to sheep and had a hard life root, so they were "cowards and cowards", while the ancients thought that women belonging to sheep were widows, just like Empress Dowager Cixi in the Qing Dynasty. At the age of 27, she became a widow for 48 years and finally killed her son Emperor Guangxu. Not only that, Empress Dowager Cixi, a sheep, almost died at her hands.

It is precisely because of this that the folk have the saying "marry a woman who belongs to the sheep". In rural areas, many old people also think that women who are sheep are unlucky, and there is a saying that "ten sheep are not complete".

In addition, the ancestors also thought that this sheep and Yang were homophonic, which meant that the woman who belonged to the sheep was masculine, without a trace of femininity. And men are looking for some virtuous and attractive women when looking for objects, not some men's women. Therefore, the ancestors also thought that they could not find a woman who was a sheep.

The meaning of "marry a man but not a chicken";

The meaning of this sentence is also very simple and clear, that is to say, as a woman, don't marry a man who is a chicken, otherwise you will never be happy. Here, the ancestors also have their own views.

Ancestors are superstitious that this kind of chicken represents the phoenix, which is the characteristic of women. Therefore, the ancestors believed that if a man had such an animal sign, he would behave like a woman, but not masculine enough. In ancient times, women didn't like this unmanly man very much, and thought that the man who belonged to the dragon was masculine, because this dragon represented the characteristics of men.

Of course, there is another reason for the ancestors: that is, the rooster starts to work and crow before dawn every day. The hard work of the rooster is considered by the ancestors to be a hard life and does not belong to the life of the rich. Because of this, the ancestors thought that as women, they should not marry some men who are chickens.

But on the whole, the author thinks that the old saying "marry a woman who is not a sheep and a man who is not a chicken" is unreasonable, unrealistic and superstitious.

Let me give you an example: take a man who is a chicken. My boss is a coward. He used to be poor, but he gradually established his own company through his own efforts. Now, I am the boss of a chicken, and my wealth ranks among the best in the city. The company has tens of thousands of employees, which can be described as reaching the peak of my life.

On the other hand, those of us who are pigs and dragons, although our ancestors thought this zodiac was better, some of us have been living an ordinary life, and making a lot of money is just our dream. Therefore, it is inevitably inaccurate to determine people by their genus.

From the above analysis, it can be concluded that it doesn't matter whether it is a chicken or a sheep. The important thing is that you can get a happy life through your own efforts. Therefore, it is incorrect to say that "marry a woman who belongs to the sheep and marry a man who belongs to the chicken", because people who belong to the sheep also have their own happy lives.

I say this statement is biased, and it is also good for men who belong to chickens and women who belong to sheep. In the past, people said that there were five different kinds of sheep, namely B Wei, D Wei, Wiki, Wei Xin and Gui Wei, which were divided into five different elements in Jin Mu. Chickens are divided into five categories: Yi You, Ding You, Ji You, Xin You, and Gui You, and are divided into yin men and yin women. Women who are born in the dark or in the right direction are gentle, but men who occupy the above attributes are inevitably nosy, and men are narrow-minded and nagging. Therefore, if you marry someone with matching attributes, you can complement each other and cooperate closely, and there are few quarrels. If male and female attributes are combined with each other, it will be more harmonious.

"Don't marry a sheep girl, don't marry a chicken man" is a kind of prejudice and incorrect statement, in fact, it is untenable! Twelve attributes, from rats, cows, tigers, rabbits, dragons, snakes, horses, sheep, monkeys, chickens, dogs and pigs, are divided into good and bad, good and evil, rich and poor, and good and bad!

(Pisces swims in the ink).

This statement is pure nonsense, neither scientific nor humanized! Because marriage is the fate of two people, happiness after marriage is a matter of two people! Better than bad has nothing to do with attributes, so I disagree with this statement!

I am not a sheep, I am strong in everything, I have a long life, and I will not suffer losses all my life. I am just a little stingy, gentle and lovely, and I am a sheep, and I am happier. You are not right.