Tell me about your mother-in-law's wonderful behavior, which makes you unbearable.

As the saying goes, there can be no good wife without a good mother-in-law. A virtuous wife is cultivated by her mother-in-law. So if you want your mother-in-law to help you balance your family relationship after marriage, you must love her daughter well. Some film and television dramas depict many harsh and unreasonable images of mother-in-law. Many people mistakenly think that the mother-in-law is an unreasonable old man. In fact, my mother-in-law is also a mother, an ordinary mother. Most mothers-in-law are vicious. I have always wanted to give my children the best help.

First of all, as a mother, she can't interfere with her daughter's marriage and tell her what to do. As the saying goes, only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not. If we don't consider whether the personality and outlook on life of both sides are consistent, we can only judge our daughter's marriage by our own preferences. Then it will leave a potential danger. Because the mother-in-law is too critical, it will also increase the contradiction between the daughter and the son-in-law, and even the marriage will break down.

Secondly, when intervening in her daughter's home, her mother-in-law must grasp the distance, correct her attitude and recognize her position. You know, you came to your daughter's house to relieve her burden and help the young couple run their own small home better. Never forget your original intention. Don't be opinionated when you meet something, ask your daughter and son-in-law. Everyone has business and quantity, so things can be handled well. Otherwise, it may affect their relationship.

No amount of mother-in-law should monopolize power, but it will be appropriate to learn to let go. Many people regard marriage as the second intersection of life, and it is also a crucial turning point. A mother-in-law should really let go of her daughter. You should know that they are adults, married and independent individuals, and you should learn to keep your distance from them. Give them some free space. Let them learn to grow up, learn to be independent and bless them.