When you are poor in the busy city, no one asks what it means to be rich and have distant relatives in the mountains. It exposes the ugliness of human nature.

When you are poor in the busy city, no one asks, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives? This quote comes from "Xizeng Guangxian Wen". When you are poor in the city, no one asks, what does it mean when you are rich and have distant relatives in the mountains? The language is concise and the meaning is clear. In just fourteen words, it reveals the ugliness of human nature and the ruthlessness of the world. Living in poverty on the street, even the closest relatives pretend to be passers-by and are not ashamed to ask, let alone help. But even if he is so famous and wealthy, he lives far away in the mountains, there are still people who are looking for him. What a stark contrast and what a cruel reality!

Even if you live in a prosperous city, you will be left out if you are born poor. If you have strong financial resources, you will be missed by many people even if you live in the mountains and forests. Reflects the realistic vision of people in life. It is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and it can also be said to be the instinct of all living things.

Being poor in a busy city with no one to care about is to avoid harm, and being rich in the mountains with distant relatives is to seek benefits.

We can sigh, but it is difficult to criticize. Feel your conscience and ask yourself if this is also the case? Although we don’t want to admit it, probably most people are like this! What are we pursuing? What to avoid?

Suppose that although you are still considered a poor person in terms of social class, you have no worries about food and clothing, no illness or disaster, a stable life, a happy family, your own interests and hobbies, and a fulfilling spiritual world, but you have no extra Financial ability to live a luxurious life. Then do you still need to curry favor with rich relatives?

I think most people don’t need it, because at this time you have a clear enough self-understanding and self-esteem level, and you don’t need to rely on external forces to meet your life needs, so you won’t particularly care about your needs. Rich relatives. Your wealthy relatives have no interest ties with you, so there is no need to avoid you.

At this time? If you are poor in the busy city and no one cares about you, and if you are rich in the mountains and have distant relatives, it is difficult to establish that survivability determines the way we look at problems

In the end, survivability determines The way we see things, not what is called morality or good or evil.

How can there be so much black and white in this world? It’s nothing more than animal instinct driving our behavior. We then paint these behaviors as black or white as appropriate.

When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives. It means that when you are poor, even if you live in a busy city, it is deserted and there are few relatives and friends. When you are rich, even if you are far away in the mountains and forests, the foyer is bustling with relatives and friends.

This also fully reveals human nature. We don’t need to complain about people’s indifference. When others have nothing to gain from you, they will naturally alienate you, no matter how good your friends or relatives are. Just like toasting during a meal, it is all done to those who are rich and powerful. Another example is that when some people become rich and powerful, they are surrounded by a group of people every day. When they go bankrupt and decline, even one of them can avoid them, just like many Hong Kong stars. No one likes to make friends with poor people. Those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are dark. Associating with rich people can subtly improve yourself, get out of trouble, and move towards success.

In today's society, not only the poor have few friends, but those who are not motivated will slowly lose friends. No one wants to regress or be held back. Just keep learning and make good life plans. Only by working hard to improve yourself can you make friends and bring relatives and friends together.

You may still have many friends today, but tomorrow you will fall behind and become a friendless loner. If you don’t believe it, just watch the party and drink, and drink to the rich first. When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you; when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives. It speaks the truth and reveals human nature. Thank you

The people who live in poverty and no one cares about them are mainly because they have grown up since they were young. From the very beginning, I have never cared about others, never respected others, and I am a selfish person who never knows how to deal with others, so no one cares about such people no matter how poor they are.

I live in a small city. Every year, people call me to ask about the health of my family members. During festivals or when we are slaughtering pigs, many people invite me. I can't eat all the bacon every year if I don't buy it myself, because relatives in the countryside, including many people who are not relatives, will bring it to me. Even if my family doesn't want them to bring it, they insist on bringing it, so we can only share it with ourselves. The children of each family eat some.

For rich people in the mountains to have distant relatives, it means that they are good at life and dealing with people. They have a profound influence on the family affection of their distant relatives, so that their distant relatives will not forget them; they are close to their neighbors next door. Most of the people are friendly.

When I was a child, I heard my father say this sentence, and later I often heard the old man say this sentence?

Needless to say the literal meaning, you understand it. I believe everyone has experienced the meaning of this sentence. Human nature is clearly revealed.

So how do we face it when we live in such a world? We can neither condemn, complain, slander, nor follow others and live for fame and fortune?

There were many sentences like this in ancient times, For example: There is wine, meat, and many brothers. How can you see one person in a crisis?; Honor and inferiority are determined by money. If you don’t believe it, just look at the wine at the banquet and advise the rich first cup by cup?; Law and justice are controlled by money, and the yamen’s horoscopes are opened. Don't come in if you have reason and no money?; Human nature is distorted by interests. There are straight trees in the mountains, but there are no straight people in the world?; Sophistication leads to unpredictable people. It is difficult to paint the bones of a tiger, and it is difficult to know the face of a person but not the heart?; It is difficult to distinguish between good and evil, but you are not afraid when you enter the mountain. A tiger that hurts people is only afraid of being a double-edged sword. Is that all we need to know?

Of course, nowadays, through one’s life’s wisdom, hard work, kindness and simple hard work, money comes from the sunshine, cleanliness, meeting the needs of family expenses, and being passionate about public welfare, is he the most respectable person?

It is human nature to follow the trend!

Just imagine, who doesn’t want to have good relatives and good friends with connections and abilities? Although it is a bit vulgar, the reality is that, no one can change it, everyone wants to take advantage of it! Seeking good fortune and avoiding harm is the normal thinking of Chinese people!

The poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them, the rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives!

I’m afraid Brother Zhu Zhiwen understands this sentence best!

Before he became famous, the folks in his hometown didn't like him very much. If he asked someone to borrow money, they were afraid that he would not be able to repay it!

After becoming famous on the Avenue of Stars and getting rich, relatives and neighbors from far and near came in droves. They either borrowed money or took advantage of the popularity to crowd out Brother Dayi’s family, making Brother Dayi miserable, and all the folks took advantage of Brother Dayi. Being a cash cow, a free bank, and excessive demands made Brother Da Yi unhappy, who was originally eager to help the villagers, and even had the worry of becoming famous!

Originally, helping others is a good thing and a good deed, but for Brother Dayi, he was kidnapped by morality. Helping others is a task that must be completed in the eyes of some people!

Rich in the mountains, people who were not very close to each other, too close, or even impossible to reach with eight poles, squeezed in, seriously affecting Brother Dayi's normal life!

Living in poverty in a busy city with no one asking,

Qin Qiong had to sell his horse to find out the truth,

The rich have distant relatives in the mountains,

Don’t believe it. Look at Zhu Zhiwen!

This sentence in the Collection of Famous Sages has been circulated for thousands of years, and it can be said to have a certain philosophical meaning. Life has also taught me that life in this world is like a stage, with music of different tastes. Of course, this sentence seems even more correct today when the economy is raising its flag. Although there are countless righteous people now, in real life, the kind of no one and distant relatives still exist. Therefore, I agree with this statement. Who makes life so realistic?

Usually this sentence is just an additional word for "human feelings". Is this really the case? No.

If, think carefully, infer in reverse. You can even apply the logic.

First of all, make sure: poverty means poverty. Having nothing is called poverty. Not relatively poor. It’s not that you look a little poor.

A busy city is a busy city, and a place with many people is called a busy city. A street cannot be called a busy place if only a few people walk on it.

Now that all the premises are in place, the inference begins:

Have you thought about this problem in reverse? Why is it that no one asks about living in poverty in a busy city? Why does the rich have distant relatives in the mountains?

Let’s first talk about why you live in poverty in a busy city? There is a clear contrast between living in poverty and living in a busy city. The general inference is that you are already living in a busy city, why are you still living in poverty?

So here comes the question: Is it the busy city that makes you poor? Apparently not. Because downtown? This location already has the basic conditions to make you rich. This is an innate condition that exists objectively.

With objective conditions in place, there is still a need for subjective prosperity. From this we can deduce: It must be your subjective conditions and you are not qualified to become rich.

As for your subjective lack of conditions, there are two types. One is physical, such as: the old, weak, sick and disabled. The other is ideological: laziness.

There is no third kind.

Then let’s do the elimination: if you are old, weak, sick or disabled. So can we not be poor? The answer is yes. Why? Because: the objective conditions of a busy city can keep you from poverty, even if you are old, weak, sick or disabled.

Are you in the downtown area? You see clearly, it’s a busy city? So it can be understood as the current prime location?. Just imagine, in the face of such a flow of people, even if you are old, weak, sick or disabled, you can just set up a stall or engage in some unpaid business, as long as you are alive and sitting there, even if you are lying down, looking at the stalls. You won't be poor.

Not to mention renting some stalls or renting houses. You can be a charterer just by lying down?

Even if your residence does not face the street, you can still give people a place to rest, drink tea, and store goods? (What? High-rise buildings and basements? When there is this sentence, there are no such levels.)

< p> Then, all problems eliminated! But you are poor. And he lives in a busy city. Then there is only one answer: so damn lazy!

It’s so delicious and too lazy to make, then think about it again? Who will come to express condolences to you? So what if I'm here? Still poor! There is no point in coming or not, so I won’t come.

Besides, have you given others a reason to express condolences to you? If you don't give others a reason, how can they have the nerve to come and express condolences to you?

There is another sentence, rich people have distant relatives in the mountains. ?Actually, it is the same, as long as we infer it in reverse, it is the same. No need to waste any more words.