What can I do for you?

After reading so many questions, this is the person I really want to talk about ~

Have you ever seen the stairs leading to heaven? The hero in it has made a lot of efforts for the woman he loves, but these efforts are invisible to people, even the heroine, but he has been doing and working hard until he makes that woman happy! My girlfriend says she doesn't like that kind of woman, but I will be that kind of person!

When two people are together, it is very important to get the blessing of their elders. However, the people who have lived with you all your life are not elders after all. What matters is whether the people you are with care about you and are willing to do many things for you! If your boyfriend is really nice to you, try to convince his parents, not by your performance. You can be said to be passive in this respect. No matter what you do, it is never you who make the decision, but your boyfriend is different. He can do many things. If he really loves you and even does it for you at all costs, then what is the job and what are the difficulties of parents? You can throw it all away, but your boyfriend can do it for you. Only you know these things. I mean, as long as he really loves you, you can give up everything for love. But if he listens to his parents, he refuses. I think your friend should be firm in this matter!

Take me for example. I am 22 years old and my girlfriend is 32. She's divorced. My job is unstable, her job is unstable, and her family is not very rich. I made a lot of unknown efforts to be with her. I will work hard for the secular vision first, then I will work hard for her parents, and then I will work hard for my family. Only I can understand the hardships of this journey, but now, I am here.

Emotional things belong to two people, and feelings cannot be mixed with some interests, but I don't think it's important. The important thing is to see how you two handle it and how to protect this relationship!

I hope you are happy, and I hope I am happy!

If you think he is worth your sacrifice, don't regret it and don't look back. If you are not sure, wait until you believe him before making a decision!

I'm not asking you to let go. I just want to say that I hope your boyfriend will take some responsibility. Love is a matter for two people. If he doesn't make some efforts, you can talk about it later, but have you thought about your family's position?