It is better to live a good life than to envy others.

It is better to live a good life than to envy others.

Rather than fishing in the forest, it is better to retreat and build a net. It is better to live a good life than to envy others. Focus on yourself, work hard and time will give you what you want. You will get all the time you want. You don't have to compare with others and you don't have to envy anyone. Everything will be fine. Don't just envy others' goodness, look at the goodness in your own life, and you will find that happiness is actually around you.

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One night last week, when it was almost twelve o'clock, the screen of the mobile phone lit up and WeChat received a new message.

The news came from my best friend's Woods.

Lin Zi said: I envy your life. In my favorite city, I am doing my favorite job and pursuing my dream. Unlike me, I have to deal with family chores every day. Finally fell asleep and had to get up to nurse the baby. It's probably another night. Hey, I'm really tired.

I smiled and sent: I still envy you. The child is so cute, and the husband loves you so much. As for me, I'm not as good as you think. I just got home, took a shower and had to stay up late to catch up on my manuscript.

Think of such a sentence: "The happiest life is the life of others." We seem to be jealous of each other easily. The envy of being single is the sweetness of one's lover and the freedom of being single with one's lover. Busy people envy leisure people, and leisure people envy the busyness and enrichment of others. The food in other people's bowls smells better than their own, and other people's lives seem to be better than their own.

In fact, no matter who is alive, there will always be some troubles, some loss and sadness. Everyone's life in the world is destined to be different. Each has its own difficulties and advantages. There is no need to compare with others, let alone stand in your own troubles and look up to others' happiness.

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I once saw a Japanese drama called "Next door always feels happier".

Just like the title of the play, four families living under the same roof always feel that others' lives are better and happier than their own.

I was deeply impressed by Komiyama, a housewife. Since the family next door moved in, Xiao Miyayama, who had a quiet life, has become particularly anxious and always unconsciously compares his life with that of his neighbors.

Washing clothes, cooking and dressing simply are Komiyama's daily habits. But when glamorous neighbors appeared, she couldn't help whispering and questioning her life.

Why do you only have a chicken feather, while others are so delicate and beautiful? In order to catch up with the "quality life" of neighbors, the family obviously has no way to uncover the pot. She also spends money to rent some luxury goods, invites people to pose at home, and puts exquisite photos on social networks to satisfy her "envy".

In fact, Komiyama didn't know that the couple he envied got into a quarrel because they wanted to get married after going home behind closed doors. What she didn't know was that another family had been pregnant for a long time, but it was too late to conceive a child, and she envied her having a child.

There is a saying: "A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, but finds himself being looked up to and envied by others."

Like Komiyama, we often compare our own bitterness with the sweetness of others. But every family has its own problems. Behind every life you envy, there may be pain you don't know. Behind every glamorous and decent, there may be unknown sadness hidden.

Don't just envy others' goodness, look at the goodness in your own life, and you will find that happiness is actually around you.

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Focus on yourself, work hard and time will give you what you want.

For example, the African long-distance running champion Harimo. He is not a professional athlete, nor does he have a professional training teacher and base. His father is his coach. The two have been living a poor and miserable life. For eight years, their lives have only revolved around running.

There is not much other income, and life is very tight. Others advised them: "Not everyone can make money by running, so why be so poor for running?"

But the two persisted.

In eight years, Harry's long-distance running speed has made amazing progress, winning the African long-distance running champion and the world champion in succession.

On the platform, someone asked him the secret of success. Harrimer said: "In these years, my father and I have never talked about other people's lives, let alone envied their superior lives. Just be yourself and pursue your dreams wholeheartedly. "

Yes, isn't the secret of success a good life? Work hard in the direction you want, step by step, and work hard in a down-to-earth manner, and time will eventually repay you. Instead of always looking at other people's lives, you will disrupt your own rhythm.

As a French writer wrote: Never compare people. Everyone is different. It is important to find the difference that suits you best.

What suits you is the best.

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Lu Sihao, a young writer, has a saying: "Sometimes enviing other people's lives is just an escape."

I'm impressed.

Always looking at other people's lives may be both a blind eye to the status quo and an escape from reality.

In fact, people who really work hard and are really excellent spend their time on improving themselves, so they have no time to envy other people's lives.

So instead of fishing in the forest, it is better to retreat into a net. It is better to live a good life than to envy others.

Everyone has his own time zone and rhythm. You just have to be yourself and work hard.

If you don't work hard enough, work harder. Living a good life is the biggest way to solve negative emotions.

Try to live.