The mother-in-law bought a villa for her daughter-in-law.

I suddenly saw this problem, and I was secretly pleased. Because of my personal experience, I have the right to speak. In my personal experience, even if my in-laws buy a villa, they strongly oppose living with them. My husband and I were married 14 years and lived with my in-laws for 5 years. Those five years can be said to be the most painful, tormenting and unforgettable five years in my life.

The villa was bought by her in-laws, who have the initiative. She is full of natural superiority. When the family is together, they respect each other as guests, enjoy each other and live a comfortable life. However, contradictions and frictions will inevitably appear in reality. At this time, my mother-in-law will definitely criticize you, abuse you at will, and even let you get out of the house. On the surface, it is dissatisfaction with his son. In fact, it is the feeling that the daughter-in-law depends on others, which makes people very unhappy.

Secondly, living habits, my husband and I take the bus to squeeze the subway to work, which is very hard. If you want to wake up naturally on weekends, it is a luxury. In-laws have a fixed biological clock. Every day before dawn, they get up to watch TV, listen to novels and play music, and they are very busy. I don't apologize for disturbing others' rest. If I get up late, my mother-in-law will complain: "Nowadays, young people don't understand three obedience and four virtues, don't take care of their husbands, don't wait on their in-laws, don't get up and cook ..." Just like Tang Yan's mantra, it makes people feel depressed and annoying.

Third, children are educated and naturally close to each other. In-laws give their children everything they want and spoil them in every way. As long as children like to eat snacks, no matter whether they are healthy or not, they will steal many hidden snacks, leading to anorexia and unbalanced nutrition. The child learns to sing, and the mother-in-law says that the tone is incomplete and out of tune; Children learn to draw, and mother-in-law says graffiti wastes pen and ink; When children learn English, their mother-in-law can't tell clearly what is right and wrong. When the child learns Allegro, her mother-in-law says that she is lisping and talking nonsense. The child was later beaten with cowardice and confidence.

Not alarmist, for the sake of children's future, for the sake of conjugal love and family harmony, never live with in-laws. People must bow their heads under the eaves. Young people, straighten the rocker, work hard, live in your own nest first, and one day the day will be as sunny as spring.