What should I talk about when chatting with my little sister?

What should I talk about when chatting with my little sister?

What should I talk about with my little sister? Whenever we meet a girl we like, we will definitely ask for each other's contact information. In the process of chatting, chatting is an important step to enhance our relationship, so what should we talk about when chatting with my little sister?

What should I talk about with my little sister?

Girls usually like clothes, bags or cosmetics. Chatting can focus on this aspect. If you like her, you should observe what she likes at ordinary times. A girl who takes the initiative will start a conversation first, but if she doesn't take the initiative and you don't know what to talk about, it will be embarrassing. Instead of chatting face to face, we can only find topics through her space content or chat materials. For example, she loves food as much as I do. You can ask her what she likes to eat, and then derive it from her favorite food, such as where a new restaurant has opened, which is said to be good, and what dishes can we eat together when we are free. Some girls don't like private chat, but like chatting with strangers. Anyway, just find a bigger Kun or a place where there are strangers. The important thing is that she can say whatever she likes, just follow her words;

Appropriate jokes:

After all, online chatting is different from reality. It's impossible to talk seriously all the time. There must be some jokes. There is always a serious chat. That's the headmaster chatting. Even the goddess can tell some jokes. Most people like to joke and can't be serious all the time. It's not impossible to say dirty jokes, as long as they are harmless, otherwise girls will think you have no sense of humor.

Give her help in time:

Once she asks for help, jump out and give her an answer. Whether in space or in a group, once she calls for first aid, hurry! You can pretend that you are not online, and you will appear as soon as she appears, so that she will think that you are timely and that you are suddenly online when she asks questions. Even if you can't help her, try to help her. You can find someone else to help her, as long as you can surprise her.

There is nothing to talk about:

There is nothing to talk about. Poor words? Let's talk about the weather Weather is an enduring topic. Besides eating, we can also talk about the weather. Talk about the recent weather. For example, she has always hated rain, so she can say that she hates it more/likes it more, because she likes the sun, but it is too hot, so she can be advised how to be cool and how to have the sun and not be so hot. A topic, people who can chat can talk for a long time without stopping. Such people are commonly known as chatterboxes. Maybe you can't chat, but you are shy when you meet girls, so you must talk about some very common topics.

It's best to tell a short story at home:

You can always say what you do every day, right? Just like chatting with friends, you don't need to find any topic, just say it casually. For example, if she is having breakfast, you can ask her what she is eating and say that you are also having breakfast. Then you can discuss what to eat and do for lunch. You can also talk about interesting things between your parents and friends. It's not very personal anyway. It doesn't hurt to talk about it while chatting.

Qiong precious jade type chat:

Chatting endlessly through one thing is Qiong Yao's chat style. For example: then who is with that person; Really, I really don't know what's good about him; Isn't it that he has a well-off father? How can he not be with a well-equipped garage and handsome people? Really? I heard that he and she have been childhood friends since childhood … don't think these gossips are boring, some girls like them! You can also talk about hobbies, such as: What do you like? Oh, what I like; Why do you like it? Well … because it … what's the attraction of it? This conversation can last more than half an hour, and then you can make her like things like you, such as sports hobbies, and then you can tell her what skills this sport has, how to do it and so on. In short, it doesn't have to take a long time to talk about a particularly big topic to arouse her interest, but trivial things can arouse her interest.

What should I talk about with my little sister? 2 1, with a sense of substitution.

What is the sense of substitution? That is, we should feel her happiness and sadness from each other's perspective. For example, if a girl says that she was dumped by her boyfriend, you should put yourself in her experience. It seems that you are also a lover who was dumped by your beloved boyfriend. Imagine how you would feel in this situation. Do you feel the same way? After thinking like this, you can say to her, "No wonder you are so depressed. It's hard for me to fall asleep when I'm lovelorn. Will you be like this? "

On the one hand, such an answer can let her know that you understand her feelings, on the other hand, it can also make her feel that you care about her. In addition, you should keep asking questions and let her confide in you. However, it should be noted that some people may not like it. Don't keep asking them what happened.

Chasing girls, how many brothers think it is to please and pay attention to girls blindly? That's what I thought before. Will low explode? It was not until I saw the e-book "Love Manipulation" that I changed many misunderstandings about picking up girls. Chasing girls is just a noun, don't be a verb, it won't end well. Girls rely on attraction. If you want to stir her mood, then she will naturally obey you. Now I have seven or eight sisters around me, and they are singing almost every night, so you will understand how cool it is. But for the brothers who want to take off the bill, I think we still have to learn to change ourselves. You will find it easy to get rid of the bill. There are e-books on the Internet, so you can look for them and read them. It costs nothing.

Step 2 set psychological cues

You can set some sounds to remind yourself from time to time that what is happening now is just an ordinary chat. This will help us:

1, euphemistically put forward different views and ideas. Don't say "nonsense, it's obviously,,," but "is this really the case?" I have seen different situations,,,, "Is this more acceptable?

2. Tell yourself to ask more questions. After you finish your thoughts and opinions, use "What do you think?" The end of this sentence. This provides the other party with a sense of participation and avoids talking alone for a long time.

Remind yourself that when arguing, you can't exceed 5 sentences.

4. Tell yourself that by telling your similar experiences, you can give each other a sense of identity.

5. If necessary, you can also use appropriate body language, such as clapping your hands or handing paper towels.

6. Even if you don't agree with each other, you can't dig your own grave and only alienate you.

Of course, you should always pay attention to your tone and tone when you speak.

3. Topic attraction skills

If you really want a girl to be interested in you, then your conversation must interest her. Only in this way will she think you are an interesting person and pay attention to you. If your conversation is boring, even if it is because she can't pick up your topic, she will think it is because you are a boring person. Therefore, it is very important to make the conversation relevant. Even if she talks most of the time, as long as you arouse her interest and let her talk, she will think that you are not bad and you know her.

Therefore, we should pay attention to the following points:

1, indicating understanding and agreeing with her point of view.

The most common mistake made by many AFC beginners is always repression. If the girl you are dating is not very confident, suppressing her all the time will make her think you are rude and arrogant. Therefore, novices should never use repression easily. On the contrary, it is easier to get close to people by showing your recognition and understanding intentionally or unintentionally when chatting. We all hope to find someone who understands us.

2. Create opportunities for her to find you-always leave voluntarily.

Many boys always insist on having nothing to say when chatting. In fact, people are most impressed by the beginning and end of a thing. If it is a conversation that ends when there is nothing to say, girls will remember that you ended the conversation when there is nothing to say, so that the other party will feel bored chatting with you and blame you for being bored. Therefore, if you want her to expect something from you, you should give her a chance to find you, and you can end the conversation at the most exciting time, leaving the other person wanting more.

3. Let the other person express his feelings.

Choose a pleasant place, listen to music, blow the wind, and listen to each other attentively in an unrestrained atmosphere. You can also talk about each other's dreams, struggles, favorite things and regrettable memories. In the spiritual communication, giving some appropriate suggestions and encouragement will make the other person feel valued, and you will feel that you are a person who can confide in you, not only will you trust you more, but you may also want to talk to you when there is something, and you will be dependent on you.

4, chat content, you can try to play some embarrassing jokes, such as riddles like toothbrushes.

Guide her to associate herself with sex, and then take the opportunity to tease her about how she thinks wrong all day. If she doesn't react very much and still thinks you are funny, she can be more direct next time. But if she is serious about this kind of joke, she will still be unhappy, which means that she is not ready for this, so you should slow down. Whether chatting or studying, it is a process of constantly learning new things. If you want to catch up with girls, you must learn this skill well Are these contents very practical? Use it quickly!

What should I talk about with my little sister? 1. What should I talk to my sister about? Learn to expand the topic.

For some brothers who can't find a topic in the chat, they basically don't start the topic, just follow rational thinking. The result is that chatting with girls only asks questions, and it is easy to talk to death. Give a common example:

M: Why?

Woman: Go to the theatre.

M: What drama did you see?

Female: Korean drama

M: Is it nice?

Female:,

This is the way most brothers chat. To put it simply, they like to get to the bottom of the matter. This is a typical straight man's logical thinking, making the chat look like an inquiry, and the sister won't like it.

I went to talk to strange girls before, but there was no result, and I was even harassed by girls. It wasn't until later that I saw a book about picking up girls-Gong Bei Yuze's Counter-Strike that I realized that it took some skill to strike up a conversation. After that, I learned and practiced the methods in the book. In the first month, I successfully hooked up with more than 65,438+000 girls and took home more than 65,438+00 girls. It was really a wave. If there is a brother who wants to take off the bill, I suggest learning. There are e-books on the internet, and you can go directly to actual combat after learning them.

The so-called extension topic is to grasp the key points in girls' discourse and then extend it. For example:

Woman: Go to the theatre.

Man: It's such a good day to go out in the sun, and you're painting a play at home.

Female: You can't go out during the epidemic.

M: Although you can't go out, you can sunbathe on the balcony or rooftop.

Woman: Oh.

Man: (photo of pet) Look at my puppy, I'm almost asleep.

Here, many brothers can't enter the conversation simply by chatting with girls, so don't dwell too much on unfamiliar topics, talk about what they are good at or show their self-worth appropriately. In short, don't spend too much time chatting with your sister.

Girls are indifferent, which means that girls are not interested in what you said, so we need to switch topics in time.

Second, what to chat with girls: the attitude of chatting with girls.

During the initial chat, girls will test the boy to determine whether the boy is worth knowing and developing. Generally speaking, we call this behavior a waste test. For example:

W: How tall are you?

Male: 175

W: Then you are not tall in front of boys.

…、

It seems that this is just a girl's casual remark. In fact, this is her waste test. In fact, there are many "waste tests" like this, such as: "I don't like people younger than me" and "I don't want to fall in love yet". If you cater to the girl's point of view, she will see that you are not confident and you will be in a low-value position; If you prove your point of view, girls will feel that you are a proud boy, and naturally they won't expect too much from you.

Here we also need to distinguish between friends and lovers.

First of all, the feeling of friends is to cater to each other and fulfill each other, that is, friends often sacrifice themselves to fulfill each other. For example, when a girl says she is hungry, her friends will cook for her. When she is in trouble, her friends will cater to each other's needs, but lovers are not like this. Compared with the rational blending of friends, lovers are more emotional blending and heart-to-heart communication. When we get along with girls, what we have to do is to control our emotions, not to satisfy our rationality.

Generally, there are two ways for us to encounter invalid tests. If it's just an ordinary test, we usually take an attitude-keeping approach. For example, in this case, we should say, "I'm basically born with height, and I can't help it." Anyway, I just have a good personality. " If she is maliciously suppressing, you can go back, for example, "165 girls are not tall."

Third, what to chat with my sister: the grasp of emotions and the promotion of relationships in chat.

Some brothers and sisters have known each other for a long time and have a good relationship, which can also make each other happy, but the problem is that they will always be friends, so they will generally fall into the "friendship zone". You know, in love, a girl has to take the initiative long ago. If she doesn't take the initiative, you won't take the initiative, so even after ten years, you are still just friends. Therefore, when you have a certain emotional foundation, you must upgrade your relationship as soon as possible. For example:

Man: Can you cook?

W: Certainly.

M: It's a good thing that you can cook, otherwise the children will starve to death in the future.