Why do some women have no pain in the process of super-fast delivery, while others have terrible pain?

In fact, the labor is smooth, especially in time, some labor processes are particularly long, and some labor processes are particularly short. What is the decisive factor? I am also very curious about this question, so I specially consulted the doctor in the third trimester. As an experienced person, share my heart … I hope it will help you!

Let me talk about my experience on the day of delivery.

The expected delivery date is September 10, and the delivery acceptance will be carried out on August 26th. Contractions began frequently on the 27th, every ten minutes.

The left and right bulges hurt. I thought it was a baby turning over, but I didn't know it was a contraction. I always want to take a shit. I got up and went to the bathroom twice, but I didn't go to the bathroom.

I told my husband that my stomach was hard and painful until after seven o'clock. I don't know if it's contractions. I plan to go to the hospital and ask my sister after getting up. My sister touched my stomach and said it was a contraction. Go to the hospital for examination. Then brush your teeth, wash your face and go to the toilet. I found it a little red. Because the baby has been very young, I don't want her to be born so early.

I went to the hospital and went directly to the obstetrics department to see the doctor who helped me with the prenatal examination. The doctor checked that the uterine orifice had not been opened and made a prenatal examination. As a result, the baby does not move frequently, saying that contractions are not frequent. The nurse asked me to go out for an hour's breakfast and then come back for prenatal examination. Then come back for prenatal examination, and the result is still similar. The doctor told me to be back before five in the afternoon. ...

After returning home, I still have contractions every ten minutes, which is very frequent. I have a stomachache and a backache. It's hard. I packed my things, washed my hair and went to the hospital. After three o'clock, I went to the hospital to continue fetal monitoring, which showed that the contractions were stronger. The doctor asked me if I wanted to be hospitalized, and then I checked my cervix. I opened a finger. The cervix is too soft, so I can be hospitalized. At 5: 30, the doctor checked my cervix and got off work. My husband went to the hospital. After I drew blood and took my blood pressure, I went into the ward and waited. During this period, contractions are still very frequent, every ten minutes to five minutes.

About eight o'clock, after my parents came to the hospital, a male doctor came in to help me do an electrocardiogram, saying that it was not done in the third trimester. After that, my husband's parents came to the hospital with food and brought me a stool for squatting in the toilet. I asked my husband to help me go to the toilet. The menstrual towel is covered with blood and there are many blood clots. Tell my husband to call a doctor, and then the midwife will come. Take me to the delivery room to check the palace door and see what the menstrual towel has arranged to check the palace door. Tell my husband to buy a natural delivery bag and let me take the food into the waiting room. I said, is there an anodyne fight? The nurse said that four or five fingers had been opened, and the anesthesiologist might not be here for half an hour, because it was already night. In case the anesthesiologist comes, I can give birth and see if I still want to fight. When I say fight, it won't hurt if it doesn't hurt, because the waist hurts too much. At that time, it hurt every three to five minutes.

The nurse called the anesthesiologist. Fortunately, the anesthesiologist happened to be in the hospital to help with the appendectomy, so I didn't have to wait long. I went back to the ward and asked my husband to call to buy a natural delivery bag. Then I sat in the ward and took a few bites. A bite is painful. Just after a few bites, the anesthesiologist arrived. Lying on the bed in the delivery room after painless treatment, the pain will gradually stop. The contraction pain of the lower abdomen can be tolerated, and the most important thing is that the waist is not painful. While doing fetal monitoring, while waiting for the palace to open. When the contraction is very painful, call a nurse to check the cervix. Call the doctor. At about ten o'clock, I was helped across the delivery room, and my legs were weak, so I couldn't go up and lie down. When the doctor arrived, he disinfected me and shaved me. Because I have candida, he taught me how to use force, because I can't use force innocently. The midwife pressed my stomach, then broke the water artificially, saying that the amniotic fluid was turbid. I have to go out and tell my family that I may have a caesarean section. I heard that amniotic fluid is turbid, and I am afraid that my baby will suffocate. Then I pushed myself and the baby's head went out of the birth canal. The nurse just told my family that I heard that my head came out before signing, and I was afraid that my baby would suffocate when it came out. I asked the midwife to press my stomach again, and the doctor who delivered the baby pressed it, and then the baby came out hard. This seems to be a feeling of relaxation. The nurse showed me the baby in her arms and took a shit when she came out. As a result, she weighed 4 kg 9 Liang, less than 5 kg. Fortunately, she doesn't have to live in an incubator for a whole year. Reach for the placenta at the back … get an anesthetic injection, press the stomach to discharge lochia … then my baby and I stayed in the delivery room for two hours before coming out …

Let's talk about the experience of postpartum recovery: I used to be very satisfied with my body, which can be described as slim. But after giving birth to the baby the year before last, my waist, abdomen and arms all accumulated fat, and my body was bloated like a child who was pregnant for three months. My good friend joked with me and said, "Do you still have a baby in your belly?" At this time, not only can't I put on all my old clothes, but I feel tired when I walk! I felt very insecure and looked at my friends who could wear beautiful clothes. I really envy them!

Now my mother-in-law also says that thin people become beautiful. When I go out with my baby, many people say that I'm not as beautiful as I just gave birth. I feel super good every day.

According to the doctor's words, every woman's physical condition is different, the size and position of the fetus are different, and the delivery mode and delivery speed are different. To sum up, it is:

1. Fetal size and position

If you want to give birth naturally, you must have a normal fetal position, a suitable fetal size, and a commensurate head and pelvis. If the fetal position is not correct, it is difficult to enter the basin, let alone give birth naturally; If the fetus is too big, it can't be put into the basin. Therefore, the head and basin are required to match. Will the delivery be fast if the basin is matched? Not necessarily, it depends on the specific situation. If the fetus is a little bigger, it will be particularly difficult to pass through the birth canal, and it will be difficult to give birth naturally. However, if the fetus is small, the resistance through the birth canal will be small, and natural delivery will be faster.

2. Maternal pelvis

In fact, the pelvic condition depends not only on the width, but also on the depth. Generally speaking, women with wide and shallow pelvis will have less resistance when the fetus passes through the birth canal and will be born faster; For women with narrow and deep pelvis, the resistance of the fetus will be greater, the birth will be slower, and even dystocia will occur.

3. Maternal productivity

Productivity is very important for natural childbirth, so what is productivity? To put it bluntly, it is the force that can force the fetus and its appendages to leave the uterus during natural childbirth, mainly referring to the contractility of the uterus. Generally, women with good productivity will exert their strength according to the doctor's requirements during childbirth, and the fetus will soon be squeezed out; However, if the labor process is not good, or the force is not right, the fetus is not easy to appear, the labor process is too long, or it is difficult to produce.

4. Maternal cervix

The speed of delivery depends on the softness of the maternal cervix. If the cervical softness is good, the fetus will come out of the uterus more easily under the action of uterine contractility, and the delivery speed will be much faster; However, if the cervical softness is too poor, the fetus will suffer more resistance and it is not easy to give birth.

5. Psychological factors

I always feel a sharp pain during childbirth. In fact, these pains are not only pains, but also related to maternal pain and tension. The more nervous I am, the more painful it is. It is difficult to relax, and it is impossible to give birth hard according to the doctor's instructions, which leads to prolonged labor and is not conducive to the delivery of the fetus. But if the parturient can relax and listen to the doctor's guidance, not only will the pain be relieved, but the delivery speed will also be accelerated.