Comfort the girl who was hurt by love rat.

It is said that one party can not understand love, but can not live without love. Feelings without love are marriages without love. Marriage without love is doomed to be a tragedy. So don't be infatuated, let the other person accept you from the bottom of my heart and accept the unique people around you. Remember: I will always admire a man who can be kind to himself but kind to others.

1, don't be soft-hearted when you meet love rat.

The cruelest thing in this world is that when you fall in love with someone, don't be impulsive, because impulsive will only make you get deeper and deeper in this relationship. You can ask yourself: will he let you do this? Can he give me happiness? Will his later life hurt you? Love rat has his own difficulties. Before choosing his partner, ask yourself, will he be so kind to you? If he only thought about how bad love rat would be, he wouldn't choose you.

2. Men can make mistakes, but they can't condone them.

When a person makes a mistake, he will have different reactions. Is there any way to keep you from getting angry and regretting? If you are angry, think about his mistakes and how he can compensate you. If you are sad, tell him, "I know I was wrong." If you are sad, tell him, "I understand how you feel. You can make mistakes, but you can't condone them. " What if you really love someone?

Loving him can tolerate all his shortcomings.

If you love a man, you will love him very much. Love unconsciously embraces all his shortcomings, including his own. This is a feeling of being protected in love, but it is also a manifestation of selfishness and possessiveness. In this relationship, you will give your all to accommodate all the shortcomings of the other party. But you can't break up with him for this.

4. Don't believe in the so-called "love rat Doctrine"

"love rat" refers to those who look serious and loyal to others, but in fact their hearts are very dark. They have their own ideas and principles. They don't look at feelings, but only run them as a career. They like to deceive their feelings, and they hate others to deceive themselves. Such people often say: I like you, but I don't want you to do this to me. Sometimes you like him, not because he is really good to you, but because he wants to make you happy, so he will pay for you. And those men who pretend to be love rat and even want to be "love rat" just want to cheat others' love to achieve their goals, but they don't really love you at all.