What are the benefits of expectant fathers talking to the fetus more?

Talking to the fetus more often can make the fetus feel more secure after birth, increase the relationship between husband and wife, make pregnant women feel happier, be conducive to the development of the fetus, and let the father participate in the parenting process more actively.

The fetus is in the mother's womb and can hear the voice of the prospective father. Dr Brazer Denton, a pediatrician, demonstrated an experiment to parents in the hospital. First of all, dad and strangers (such as doctors) stand at the relative angle that newborns can see.

At the same time, they said to the baby in their usual tone: "Baby, did you hear the voice of dad?" The child will turn his eyes to his father. When the baby is in a good mood, he may kick and shake his hand at his father.

Newborns can distinguish the father's voice, which means that the fetus can hear the prospective father's voice in the womb. The baby was born very familiar with his father's voice and intonation. If the prospective father often talks to the baby next to the expectant mother's stomach.

First, the prospective father often talks to the fetus. After the baby is born, he can get a sense of security from his father's voice. Pediatricians define the first three months after the birth of a newborn as "the fourth pregnancy" (a pregnancy of three months, the fetus in the womb, has experienced the first three pregnancies). In the first three months of the baby's life, it is unsafe to leave the familiar uterus, and parents need to help the baby adapt to the new world outside the body.

The newborn's body organs are not mature enough to fully adapt to the new environment. Children's brains like an environment similar to familiar things. Parents can create a womb-like environment for their children, making them feel safer and calmer.

The voice of mom and dad, accompanied by the fetus in the womb 10 months, is the most familiar thing for newborns. Mom and dad's voice can give the baby a sense of security and calm the child's mood when comforting the anxious and crying baby.

Second, the prospective father and baby can talk more, which can increase the relationship between husband and wife and make an appointment for pregnant women. If the prospective father has the consciousness of talking to the fetus more, he will arrange it in his own schedule, get off work on time, push away unnecessary meals, and go home early to talk to the fetus in the expectant mother's stomach. Invisibly, spending more time with pregnant women is a way to increase the relationship between husband and wife.

The intimate relationship between husband and wife makes pregnant women very happy. As we all know, the mood of pregnant women is closely related to the healthy development of the fetus. Therefore, prospective fathers and fetuses can talk more and have a healthier baby.

The prospective father often talks to the fetus, so that the baby is already familiar with the father's voice when he is a fetus. After the baby is born, the father can be the mother's right-hand man, so that the mother can have a rest time, and the mother in a good mood can take care of the baby and be lively and cheerful.

Third, the prospective father can talk to the fetus more, which can avoid the "widowed parenting" of the mother. Biologists call human fathers "temporary caregivers". Whether the father can devote himself to the process of child-rearing depends on his participation in the early stage of the baby.

"Widowed parenting" and "fraudulent parenting" have become the troubles of mothers in many families. Part of the reason is that from the second month of the baby, the elders at home have arranged all the tasks of taking care of the newborn, and the fathers have no chance to participate in the process of the child. When the elders go back to their hometown and the mother needs his father's help to raise the children, the father is used to the fact that the children don't need to take care of themselves, so he doesn't care so much about the children's affairs.

The prospective father starts talking to the baby from the fetus. Before the baby was born, he had been with the baby for 10 months. Dad spends more time with his children, and he will take an active part in the parenting process in the future to avoid Ma Bao-style "widowed parenting".

Expectant mothers can encourage prospective fathers to talk to the fetus more. If they don't know what to talk about, or feel embarrassed to talk to themselves in front of the pregnant woman's stomach. You can read the books you want to read, or the news you are browsing on your mobile phone, and you can also talk to your children more.

Talking to the fetus more often can make the fetus feel more secure after birth, increase the relationship between husband and wife, make pregnant women feel happier, be conducive to the development of the fetus, and let the father participate in the parenting process more actively. Expectant fathers and expectant mothers take action and talk to the baby in their mothers' bellies.