Why don't the rural elderly who bought houses in the city want to live in the city?

I am facing this problem. Let me tell you my story first. I just graduated from college and was assigned to a small county town not far from my hometown. It doesn't matter if I have no money. I can only settle in this small county. After buying a house and marrying a daughter-in-law, I want my parents to come and live. It's time to support myself, but my parents don't want to come. I think the most important reasons are: first, without grandchildren, there is no way to coax them. I have lived in my hometown all my life, and I don't want to move with my family when I am old. For three reasons, there are relatives and friends, old neighbors, old sisters and old brothers in my hometown, but no one has come to the new environment. There are four reasons: there is work and gain at home, and you have to start all over again when you come to a new environment. For five reasons, the old people don't like change, and the new environment has to force them to study. Because of the relationship between my fifth son's daughter-in-law and their parents. As long as we consider these problems and try to change these reasons, I believe that parents will definitely come to live with their sons.

After living in the countryside for the next life, the old man got used to rural life and moved to the city to adapt to urban life. Most old people don't want to move to the city for their children, but in their hearts, the countryside is their home and their root. The old man has worked hard for this family all his life. As long as life is comfortable, why force the old man to move to the city? Young people think that buying a house will lead a good life. In the eyes of the rural elderly, it is really rare to live such a "suffering" life.

Personally, I think that if the elderly can take care of themselves and their physical conditions permit, it depends on their thoughts. After all, the old people live and communicate in the countryside, and their inner loneliness and loss are great for them. If you are in poor health, you can take it into the city.

From the perspective of being a child, this problem is to honor parents and let the old people enjoy happiness. The starting point is very good. But a good motive just ignores the living habits of the elderly. Because many old people are not used to living in a building, they can't eat, sleep restlessly and get worse and worse, so sometimes they just need to spend as much time with them as possible, and it doesn't matter where they live. They have neighbors in their hometown and will always be companions.