How should you talk to your host when you are a guest?

When you are a guest, you must first use greetings when talking to the host to express your longing for the host and your concern for his family. For example, "How are you doing?", "How are your uncle and auntie doing?" etc.

Generally speaking, when visiting the host’s home, you must first determine the topic of the conversation and clarify the purpose of the conversation. Don’t ramble or chat endlessly, let alone get entangled in minutiae issues. To avoid any unpleasantness.

Secondly, when talking, you should look into the other person’s eyes and look attentive. Don’t let others think you are perfunctory.

Finally, when talking to the other person, especially when listening to others, don't make too many small movements. The correct approach should be to lean forward slightly, not skewed, and the posture should be correct. In addition, avoid being self-centered when speaking, let alone using catchphrases, dirty words or meaningless words. Especially when there are elderly people, you should try to avoid using words such as "gone" and "hanged up" that are easily offensive and associated with people.

It is worth noting that you should not make excessive jokes with others when talking, let alone talk about other people's physical defects or privacy, so as not to cause harm to others. Of course, you must respond positively to other people's active conversations, speak in a gentle voice, do not deliberately raise your voice, and try not to correct others' mistakes in the conversation.

After being a guest, you should not just say goodbye to the host before leaving, but also say hello to the host's family. Otherwise, others will think you are not polite. When the host sees off the guest, the guest cannot fail to make any indication. If you are a guest at someone else's home and the host sends you far away, but you don't even say a word of humility, then you will give others the impression that you are too arrogant. When the host sees off the guest, the guest should ask the host to stay. If the host is standing at the door to see off the guest, the guest should turn around and say goodbye to the host. Summary:

When visiting friends and giving gifts, you need to pay attention to many details. If you are visiting a friend or relative’s home, just bring some fruits, usual snacks, or specialties; if the other person has children at home, you can buy some Food or toys that children like.

If you want to send flowers to a patient, you should choose evergreen plants that are easy to maintain, and choose the flower variety according to the patient's condition. If the patient suffers from respiratory disease, flowers cannot be sent because the pollen and floral fragrance will aggravate the patient's condition.

If it is for a child, the price of the gift should not be too high. If the child is very young, you can give some simple books and small toys; if it is an older child, you can give some clothes and shoes; if you are giving gifts to children over 10 years old or teenagers, fairy tale books, educational toys, etc. Not a bad choice.