"Growing up with a boy? Or do you want to talk to your uncle? This is a choice. "

In fact, the two of us didn't start from the same starting point. After all, at that time, I only thought he was a child, a boy who didn't grow up but liked to chase my ass.

? I often joke that growing up with a boy is better than talking to my uncle. Although this view has always made him sneer, Mr. Wang has always been excluded from my long criteria for choosing a spouse.

? I have fantasized about him countless times: maybe he is a handsome, rich and strong-willed bully; Or maybe glasses, computers, and high-income IT elites; Or a knowledgeable, flexible and quick-witted lawyer; Really can't. Having an uncle worth tens of billions is my ideal type. It's a pity that man is not as good as heaven, and heaven is not as good as Mr. Wang's calculation. Finally, under the entanglement of teacher Wang for many years, he was forced to grow up with a boy.

At first, all the family members opposed it. Traditional ideas make parents feel that there are always women who don't bully the young and the poor, while men rarely don't dislike their wives. Therefore, meeting the wrong person at the wrong time always fills everyone with worries, and even makes them feel "born without a husband, old and married".

But in order to get married, Mr. Wang went to Hebei alone to negotiate with my parents. I still don't know why my parents compromised with him so easily. Perhaps Mr. Wang thinks that his sincerity touched the hard Mount Tai, but in my opinion, my parents just don't want to embarrass me.

I once heard an elder say that growth is never a process, but an instant commitment to the future. From that moment on, you have all the reasons and all the motivation to fight for it in your life, and these have never been related to your age.

Maybe I filled in the wrong answer in this 50% choice, who knows, but for me, it is better to take this step bravely than to regret it later.