People who love deeply never know themselves. What should they do?

I love people who don't understand me. Of course, I feel distressed, because it is because I don't understand that I have many fantasies. Once it happens, there will be contradictions. Many unexpected things will happen. Therefore, mutual understanding and understanding is the correct way to maintain the relationship between two people. I hope many women will be considerate of their husbands, and many men will love their women.

I think there will be heartache, but there should be growth after heartache. In fact, every relationship has a running-in period, which requires two people to run in with each other. There will inevitably be some bumps in the relationship, one party does not understand the other party, and the other party does not understand the situation of the other party. If he doesn't understand you, you can't just blame him for not understanding your heart. You should also think about whether you have fully communicated with him and let him know yourself. If I don't understand what you say, I think it can be divided into two parts: incomprehension in life and disagreement in opinion.

If he doesn't understand some of your living habits in life and makes you feel that he doesn't understand you, you can communicate with him and tell him what you like and don't like. But if you two always disagree, it may be a disagreement. For example, he likes rice because he can fill his stomach, and you like roses because of romance. When your life is in a trough and you are troubled by poverty, the dispute about rice and roses will get deeper and deeper. He thinks you don't understand him. You think he doesn't understand you. This feeling is shared by both sides. Over time, both of you will get tired of this state, and there will be cracks in your feelings. When a relationship ends, you will feel that it ends because he doesn't understand you, while he feels that you don't understand him, in fact, you lack tolerance and understanding for each other.

If you two used to love each other very much, then when you think he doesn't understand you, there will definitely be heartache. But in addition to heartache, you should also do some reflection and grow up. Both sides should make some concessions, draw closer to each other and integrate with each other.

At the end of a relationship, when you really understand the essence of a relationship, you will become free and easy, and understand that love or not is two different things.