The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. How to avoid the occurrence of cold war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

If you have different opinions with your mother-in-law, don’t contradict her head-on and lead to a direct conflict. There is an art in getting along with your mother-in-law. Don’t treat yourself as an outsider. Your mother-in-law is her mother-in-law, and her son is a relative. Don't let your mother-in-law know when your husband is quarreling or having a cold war, as your son will feel distressed. No matter how bad your husband is, don't always go to your mother-in-law to complain. On the surface, your mother-in-law will complain to you. Over time, your mother-in-law will also get annoyed. Who likes others to always say bad things about their son? If a daughter-in-law regards her mother-in-law as her own mother, she will sincerely love, take care of, and honor her mother-in-law without caring about anything in return. Even, I would rather eat less and drink less and leave it to my mother-in-law. The human heart is made of flesh.

To resolve the grudge in the mother-in-law’s heart. As the saying goes: "When you marry a daughter-in-law, you forget your mother." This sentence is exactly what all the mothers-in-law in the world worry about. Therefore, the mother-in-law will think that the daughter-in-law is here to compete with her for her son, and she will naturally be hostile to her daughter-in-law, for fear that her daughter-in-law will blow her "pillow". "Border wind" has caused the son he has worked so hard to raise to alienate himself. Therefore, he must first resolve the hostility of his mother-in-law, truly treat her as his mother, respect and care for her everywhere, and let her understand that he is as filial to her as his son. , if one more person is filial, the mother-in-law will naturally accept it happily and let down her guard. This completes the first step towards a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

You should lower your expectations for your mother-in-law and don’t expect your mother-in-law to treat you like your mother, especially when your mother-in-law prefers your husband or your husband’s brothers and sisters. This is human nature. Just respect your mother-in-law as an elder. . If possible, it is best to live separately from your parents-in-law, but not too far away, and go back to visit your parents-in-law frequently. If you need the help of your parents-in-law to take care of the children and have to live together, you should be full of gratitude to your mother-in-law and thank her for helping to take care of the children. Depending on the personality of the mother-in-law, it is best to live separately and keep a certain distance. Generally speaking, the living habits of the elders and the younger ones are different, and differences in ideas are inevitable.