Lu Sanjin’s classic quotations

San Jin, the male protagonist in the period sitcom "Longmen Escort", is set as the young owner of a safe bank in Beijing. He later acquired the Dragon Gate Escort, which was on the verge of bankruptcy, and became the boss of a new generation. The character in the play is played by actor Guo Jingfei. The following is Lu Sanjin’s classic quotation, welcome to read it for reference!

1. Some men never understand. Why do women endure so much? Why do I take good care of you even though I endure hardships? No matter how poor or difficult it is, what are you going to do? It's not that they have masochism, they don't like to endure it, but they are willing to endure hardships with you, just because they love you. So men must not take everything for granted. No matter how much love I give you, please give me double love back.

2. A good man is not something you see at first sight, because the men you see at first sight are either handsome or rich, and they will be very proud. A good man is something you see at second sight. You don't like him at first, but as time goes by, you become more inseparable from him. A good woman is not something you can see at first glance, because you can only look at her appearance at first glance, but the beauty of her soul can only be understood by getting along slowly. So whether you are a man or a woman, if you want to discover the goodness within, you can only get along with each other.

3. Life is like a big drama, it will act like this when you cry to it. And when you smile at it, it behaves like that. Your attitude will not change the nature of life. Most of the time, you feel that life is teasing you, but it is just self-torture. Therefore, facing luck indifferently and facing adversity with a smile is life.

4. Having no boyfriend does not mean that you are a leftover woman. Having no girlfriend does not mean that you are a leftover man. In fact, others don’t understand. There are two different things between not being wanted and not being met. It’s not that many people are unwanted and have a lot of suitors, they just haven’t met the right person they like. So, don't worry, we are just walking on the road and looking forward to meeting you by chance. Sometimes, waiting is also part of love.

5. Love is a kind of trust, but this trust is not one-sided, but mutual. You can believe the other person unconditionally, even believe his lies. But he must also be able to reciprocate such trust and live up to your unconditional trust. If you give in and believe, all you get in return is harm. Then there is no doubt that he doesn't love you, he just wants to possess you.

6. People in this world are trying their best to express themselves, trying their best to persuade others, and they are constantly talking. But in fact, do you really need others to understand your life? The key to being a human being is to be comfortable with yourself, not to make others feel comfortable. We live our own lives and we are not acting, so why do we need applause and understanding? So, live quietly and live an ordinary life.

7. In love, men should be more tolerant. But if it really wants to last, unilateral tolerance is not enough. Two people are in love and want to be together forever. Whatever you once insisted on, you will give in for the other party. A good woman will endure the pressure of life and encourage her lover. A good man will shoulder the burden of the family and help his family share the burden. That's it, love is two people changing for each other, letting women learn to bear it, and letting men learn to bear it.

8. Each of us has to spend a lot of time and make many detours before we know what we ultimately want. But on that day, you will suddenly realize that you have already obtained that thing, but never cherished it. Many people are stupid. They only know how to love but never understand what it means to be loved. I think fate is destined, but what is fate? The so-called destiny is actually the person who is already by your side.

9. Love and control are different. When you love someone, you want that person to become better. If they become better, you will be happy. The desire to control is to hope that a person will become worse, as long as he can stay by your side. Therefore, when you are dating a man, you only need to look at the changes in yourself to know whether it is true love. It's getting worse. Someone is controlling you. It’s getting better and better, that’s when someone loves you.

10. What is compassion? It’s not about how much money you donate, or how many tears you shed. It’s about whether you really understand the pain of others and whether you really feel the suffering of others. People who are suffering need material support temporarily, but in the long run they need spiritual understanding. Money and goods are easy to give, but the heart is hard to soothe. To comfort people's hearts, what is needed is compassion, kindness and persistence. Therefore, the word compassion is not in the mouth, but in the heart. 11. Some people bully you again and again just because you love them. Because he knows that you will never leave no matter what, and you will forgive him.

As for you, you can only be angry and cry, but you don't know how to decide whether to break up or not. If a person no longer loves you, why should you tolerate him? As much as it hurts you, stay away from him. Really, it is better to love yourself than to love others.

12. If love requires dedication at all costs, then it is obvious that the other person does not care too much about your feelings. Because a person who cares about you will not let you get hurt in any way. Therefore, when you sacrifice more for love, the other person will love you less. Of course it is very tiring to love people blindly. And the feeling of being truly loved is actually being pampered.

13. Don’t be too condescending as a person. Even if you are successful, even if you are talented and beautiful, don't talk to others in a condescending manner. Because it is easy for a person to gain status if he is outstanding, but status does not mean nobility. There are different positions, powers, and reputations among people, but there is no distinction between high and low. The key to being kind to others is to treat them equally. Don't always feel that you can't afford it. People who really can't afford it are willing to be mediocre.

14. What is a couple? Just keep each other warm every night and work hard together every day. What is family? Just the same joy and the same tears. What is a lover? It means thinking about it when you can’t see it, and being silent when you see it. The most important person around us does not do earth-shattering things. He just stays with you, watches you, and protects you. He walks through flowers and stormy seas, and never separates from the beginning to the end.

15. Many people are always tired in life. No matter what the people around her do, it makes her tired, sad and nervous. In fact, there are so many unsatisfactory things in this world. It's just that you are too preoccupied and think too much. Some small things can become big things if you think too much about them. Some details, if taken seriously, can turn into a tragedy. After all, it's all just fantasy. Therefore, it is said that a heavy person is tiring, and a heavy heart is tiring the heart. Take it easy as a person.

16. How difficult is it to meet someone in a huge crowd? Sometimes it’s difficult, billions of people are rarely seen once in a lifetime. Sometimes it is easy to recognize him at first sight in the crowd. If there is true fate in this world, then it is an encounter. Meeting is harder than falling in love. So, please be brave, no matter how much you give to each other, it is still part of the fate. There are only three things in love: meeting, trusting and staying together.

17. Some people like to push their faults onto others. No matter what they do wrong, they always make excuses and pretend to be the most aggrieved and pitiful. The best way to deal with this kind of person is not to reason with him. Reason will not make sense. Just stay away from him and let him bear the consequences alone. The reason why a person is immature is because someone will bear the consequences of all mistakes for him. Ignoring him may be the best lesson.

18. The best love in the world is not a talented man matching a beautiful woman, nor is it a rich and beautiful man meeting a tall, rich and handsome man. It's that you were clearly waiting for Prince Charming, but you got distracted by a little gangster. You were originally looking for a handsome guy, but you fell into the relationship of a fat guy and couldn't extricate yourself. If your heart is a lock, there will be an inexplicable key to open it, which is not a complete set at all. So, don’t set standards for your future lover. Who you fall in love with is who you fall in love with.

19. Some people feel extremely affectionate when they miss their old friends. But when it comes to treating the people around you, you can be as bad as you want. In fact, if two people are not together, it is like the death of a relative. The most they can do is offer sacrifices and remember them during the Qingming Festival, but the other person really can't feel it. So, instead of missing each other, it’s better to stay together. Instead of commemorating, let's be kind to the people around us.

20. Many girls are very ordinary, not that beautiful, do not have a superior family background, they live the same life no matter how much money they make, and they love most to eat and drink with their friends. Such a girl looks ordinary, but is actually extraordinary. Because you reject many desires, are kind and do not harm others, you are willing to stick to plainness, you believe in love, and you do not sell your soul. What's wrong with being ordinary? The ordinary is the happy.

21. Kindness should not be a weakness for being bullied, but a way of repaying your love for your lover. Therefore, kind people should repay kindness and not be taken advantage of again and again. Be kind to good people and evil to bad people.

22. Many people always put themselves too low. Sometimes I feel unworthy of others, sometimes I don’t have enough self-confidence, and I always want to please others. As a result, they often come and go as soon as someone calls them, or they are thrown away casually.

Why doesn't anyone care about you? Because you don’t care for yourself, who will cherish you? The problem for many people is that they are too good to others and too bad to themselves.

23. The younger a woman is, the less she wants to get married. The older a woman is, the more anxious she is to get married. Men are just the opposite. The poorer they are, the more they want to get married. The richer they are, the less they want to get married. Why is this happening? Because women's confidence comes from youth, and men's confidence comes from wealth. So, a woman who is willing to marry when she is young and a man who is still willing to marry after becoming wealthy are the most precious.

24. Many people are talented, but why not every talented person can get things done? Because it’s not that we don’t have the ability to do things well, but that we lack the ability to “get things done to the end.” Doing something well depends on talent, talent and hard work. To stick to something to the end requires patience, persistence and determination. This is true in career, and it is also true in love. Do you have the courage to persevere?

25. If you don’t say something, men will never understand it. If you don't do some things, you will lose the opportunity for a lifetime. If you don’t boldly accept some love, you may never meet a better one. That's it, the most important things and opportunities appear suddenly in life. You didn't know how to cherish it at the time, and you will regret it after losing it. So, don’t always think that there will be something better in the future. The best thing is actually by your side.

26. Some people say you are cute, but maybe they are not really cute, but they say you are stupid. When someone says you are beautiful, it may not be because they are really beautiful, but because they are trying to comfort you. Some people say they love you, but maybe they don't really love you, but they just say it. Most of what people tell you are lies. And facts are facts. If you are really cute, many people will chase you. If you are really beautiful, many people will be jealous. If you really love you, you will be very favored. Don't be deceived by other people's words, look at how you are treated.

27. When two people quarrel, if the man is unreasonable, he must give way to the girl, because you must be reasonable in doing things. What if a man makes sense? You must also let the girl go, because you must never ignore others. So, the way for two people to get along well is very simple, that is, the man must give way to the woman.

28. If a relationship makes you crazy, then it is the wrong love. If a kind of love makes you a fool, it's love that's right. Bad love makes people come back to life, but good love only makes people change. Don’t love until you are exhausted, but love until you are heartless.

29. Many people fall in love soon after getting along with each other. The word love has become a tool for picking up girls, and it works every time. But is falling in love really so easy? It is easy for people to have desires, and it is easy to possess them. But love should be a commitment that can entrust each other's lives and a lifelong responsibility. How easy is it to make such a determination? So, don't talk about love easily. Say, don't separate easily.

30. Women who sacrifice for their families usually have no good consequences. Women who have good results often make others sacrifice. This world is like this. If you think you are sacrificing everything, it is actually just in vain. Instead of waiting for others to be grateful (which is actually impossible), it is better to hold on to what you want. Being a woman is not about being nice, but about living a good life for yourself. No one will take care of you, you have to rely on yourself.

31. All love at first sight is related to appearance. All temperament feelings are also related to appearance. All heavenly romances are still related to appearance. Therefore, if you know how to dress up, someone will fall in love with you at first sight, and if you don't know how to dress up, you will fall in love with someone else at first sight. Never expect anyone to discover your soul at first sight. Because only when I fall in love with you can I see your soul.

32. Some girls are very nice, but their life is very hard and they can’t find anyone to love them. Why? In fact, whether a woman is loved or not has nothing to do with how good she is or how she treats others. Just look at how pathetic she is. This kind of pity is not real, but manifested. To put it bluntly, if you want someone to pamper you, you must first learn to pretend to be pitiful. Women don’t have to be weak, but they must show weakness.

33. The best woman is not beautiful, graceful, or sexy. Rather, there is a kind of calmness after going through all the hardships, and a kind of tranquility after seeing all the world. Don't be afraid of pain and sadness, because all pain will make you better in the end. The scars in the heart are signs of a woman's growth. How can one remain calm? When the tears dry up, the clouds will naturally become calm and the wind will be gentle.

34. Don’t test your lover, because that is using one lie to test another lie. Don't lie to your lover either. So-called white lies often bring malicious results. When two people are together, the most important thing is honesty and sincerity. If a relationship needs to be maintained by lies, it is better to break up as soon as possible. Love is born from truth and dies from hypocrisy.

35. It is too easy to be wronged by such a characterization as “green tea table”. Most of the girls in this world with straight bangs and clean faces are really innocent. Others, who appear to be one thing but hide another, act like sisters in front of others and cheat money at night. Regardless of men or women, no matter how they dress up, they are all "real". Even if they are pretending to be green tea, herbal tea, or heavy metals, the essence is Same. No matter how cheap it is packaged, it is still the same.

36. More and more people say that there is no marriage without material things. But please think about it, can it be considered a marriage without love? No matter at what time, feelings always come first. No matter how material things are ranked, they cannot be ranked first. Even if we don’t say that the lovers are full of water, how can the lovers be together? Therefore, those who are affectionate and rich are ranked first, those who are affectionate and have no money are ranked second, and those who are rich and ruthless are not considered.

37. No one knows which night disaster will strike. No one can predict when the end will suddenly appear. All we can do is cherish everything we have around us. The future may be better, or it may not be, but family, relatives, and lovers are everything at this moment. Don't always use busy work to alienate, don't always use making money to shirk. Hug the people around you, starting tonight.

38. If you fall in love with a woman, please praise her. Yes, she has many little problems, a lot of things wrong with her, and she is stupid to the point of making people laugh, but isn't that why you fell in love with her? To love someone is not to tolerate their shortcomings, but to fall in love with their shortcomings. It's not about suffering the trouble she brings you, but enjoying the responsibility she makes you take. A good man cherishes you like a treasure and treats you like a fairy.

39. Don’t use the hurt you suffered in the past to punish the people around you now. Once bitten by a snake, I have been afraid of the well rope for ten years. How innocent the well rope is. No one has ever bitten you, so why should you pay for the hurt you suffered in the past? Some people will go after whoever harms you. Never take your anger out on those who treat you well. Repay kindness with kindness and repay evil with kindness. Being a human being is very simple, just be nicer to good people and be even worse to evil people.

40. I always want to tell girls, don’t put someone in your heart easily. Sometimes, it is easy to fall in love with someone, but it is difficult to fall in love with someone. This is how relationships are, you work so hard to get someone, but in the end you find that it is this person who hurts you the most. Because people who are not in your heart cannot hurt you, only people who are in your heart can hurt you deeply. That's what it means to be sad.

41. No matter how much a woman values ??love, she cannot give up her career. Because in relationships and families, what is most needed is equality and independence. If you give up your source of income, you will become someone else’s accessory. No matter how much you give, no one will appreciate it. Because the other person will only think that he is supporting you. Therefore, if you are not independent, you will have no status. Without inequality, there is no love.

42. Everyone has dreamy love in their hearts, but in fact, no matter how beautiful love is, it will be defeated by the details of life. Things as trivial as sesame seeds make you quarrel again and again, causing love to be wasted and exhausted. Love born of passion is actually just a dream, and you always wake up. Only the feelings accumulated slowly in life are unbreakable. Therefore, the most dreamy thing is not to love until death, but to love forever.

43. Which is more important, money or feelings? If you just want to live, then money is the most important thing. But if you want to live happily, feelings are the most important. Happiness requires spiritual harmony between two people, not property. Even if you have a house full of money, but you can't talk about it together, you will definitely be miserable in the end. It's not important to be a good match in material terms, but it is important to be a good match in spirit.

44. Men always say that they want to make money for their families, fight for their careers, and fight for their wives and children, so they linger around again and again. It seems that a man is considered a good man only if he spends every minute on his career. Actually they are wrong. Because the family most women want is neither rich nor romantic. All I want is companionship. Let the people around you know that all the wealth in the world is not as good as a small reunion every night.

45. What is happiness? Some people think it’s fancy clothes and delicious food, while some people think it’s luxury and wealth.

But in fact, when you continue to satisfy your desires, you will find that life is not happier, but more troubled. Because happiness is not about pursuing a better life, but about having someone to accompany you through life, good or bad. Having someone by your side who is willing to accompany you till eternity is happiness and luck.

46. What kind of talent is right? There is only one criterion. If you are willing to marry him, and he is willing to marry you, and is willing to bear all the joys and sorrows, then that's no problem. In that moment, you have found each other's MR.RIGHT. Love in that moment is the starting point of mutual affection. Don't think too much. The more you think, the less you will get. The future is not imagined, but walked out together.

47. The most important thing for a woman is to be independent. Not only must life be independent and financially independent, but also personality and thought must be independent. Don't be blinded by a few words from authority, don't be carried away by the enthusiasm of love, and don't be weak due to the pressure of family members. Only by learning to live and bear independently can we face all setbacks with a smile. What if your lover leaves? So what if life is not going well? You can still live, and live better.

48. Some people always say that as long as there is love, there is everything. Yes, love allows you to overcome difficulties, just having the other person is enough. How long is it likely to last? In fact, falling in love should not be an impulse, but a responsibility. If you love someone, you must have the ability to support a family and the courage to take care of the other person. If you can't bear such responsibility, then don't love others casually. Sometimes love is careless and harmful to others.

49. A good man is annoyed when he sees other women, but never tires of seeing you. A good woman sees other men as boring and only finds her husband capable and interesting. The best aesthetics in the world is not pretentious or elegant, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If it belongs to one's own people, everything is fine. If it's not one of my own, it's none of my business. Love does not require fraternity, only narrow-mindedness.

50. There are only three reasons why excellent women cannot marry: 1. They stay home. 2. Busy. 3. Strong. There is only one reason why a good man cannot marry a wife: he cannot speak... Beauty, handsomeness, money, good career, good personality and other advantages are all invincible, but for the above reasons, no matter how invincible the advantages are, they are useless. . (Workplace)