Life must have its own rhythm

I met a new friend at the alumni annual meeting yesterday and discussed the topic of life. He proposed that at a certain age, we should do what we should do at that age. Especially when you have just graduated, you must choose an industry and take root in it, so that you can have a good accumulation after a few years, otherwise you will fall behind compared with your peers. In my opinion, in this society, there are some generally recognized stages of growth. For example, you should finish college step by step, find a job, accumulate two or three years of experience, change jobs, get promoted and get a salary increase. It is best to find a good partner in college. After graduation, prepare to get married in a year or two, etc. However, everyone is such a different and independent individual. We need to find our own rhythm. Life is not an assembly line. We can completely customize our own life.

First, when it comes to work, the operation of this society requires certain rules. Many large enterprises and institutions work from nine to five, with two days off on weekends. There are also many companies that adjust working days by themselves. Some units start work early in the morning, and some get off work late in the evening. In addition, the work content of different industries is also very different. If the work content and work rhythm of the industry you choose are very uncomfortable for you and you don't like it, you can completely change to a job with a rhythm that suits you. If that doesn't work, you can choose to customize your work rhythm, find some industries that interest you, and start a business by learning the business model of the industry and arrange work for yourself.

Second, when it comes to relationships, it is said that it is difficult for young people nowadays to find a partner. Parents and relatives are also afraid that their children will miss the golden age of marriage and childbirth (it may also be due to the pressure of public opinion), so they force Everyone goes on a blind date, finds someone who is similar, and gets married as soon as possible. But you have to have your own ideas and find your own rhythm. Only you can decide when to get married, and only you know what kind of person is suitable for you. Many people in their 20s get married and have children with someone who feels similar to them when their families prompt them. Later, they find that the two of them are not suitable and break up. Some people even know that they are not suitable and still get together. So can you blame others for your bad life? In fact, you have always had the right to make your own choices, but you just followed the rhythm of others and gave up on yourself. Relationships and family are very important parts of life, and your own lifelong happiness must be fought for by yourself.

In terms of hobbies, as a person who likes sports, especially basketball, the most common sentence I hear about playing basketball after work is: I am too busy at work, how can I have time to play, and it is not school. There is no pressure when playing, and you can play every day. In fact, many people often choose to go to parties for entertainment after get off work every day, watch TV series until midnight, play games, go shopping, etc. The hobbies of my youth have long been forgotten. Although the pace of life after work is somewhat different from that of school, everyone can still choose their own pace. If your colleagues and friends ask you to go to a party to play games, you can refuse most parties and do what you really want to do.

Therefore, whether it is work, relationships, or our own hobbies, we need to focus on our own goals, find our own rhythm, and do what we want to do, so that we can live the life we ??want. Life.

Finally, I’ll post the recently popular little poem

> New York time is three hours ahead of California time,

> New York is 3 hours ahead of California,

> But California time doesn't slow down.

> but it does not make California slow.

> Someone graduated at the age of 22,

> Someone graduated at the age of 22,

> But it took me five years to find a good job!

>? but waited 5 years before securing a good job!

> Someone became a CEO at 25,

> But died at the age of 50.

> and died at 50.

> While another became a CEO at 50,

> And then live to be 90 years old.

> and lived to 90 years.

> Someone is still single,

> Someone is still single,

> There are also people Married.

> while someone else got married.

> Obama retires at 55,

> Sichuan Prudential did not become president until he was 70 years old.

> but Trump starts at 70.

> Everyone in the world has his own development time zone.

> Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.

> People around you might seem to be ahead of you.

> People around you might seem to go ahead of you,

> There are also people who seem to go ahead of you.

> some might seem to be behind you.

> But in fact, everyone has their own pace in their own time zone.

> But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.

> No need to be jealous or laugh at them.

> Don’t envy them or mock them.

> They are in their own time zone, and so are you!

> They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!

> Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.

> Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.

> So, relax.

> So, RELAX.

> You are not behind.

> You’re not LATE.

> You’re not LATE.

> You’re not EARLY.

> In your own time zone arranged by fate, everything is on time.

> You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.