Recently, I have spent a lot of money and energy talking about it.

When people reach middle age, they are old and young, and the pressure is getting bigger and bigger. In order to make a living, you have to force yourself to struggle. In addition to work, family life and social life also bring you a lot of troubles, especially the expanding circle of friends, things that you can't win every day and neglected entertainment.

In fact, when you reach middle age, you should learn to organize your circle of friends. You should refuse all social activities that you shouldn't engage in, otherwise it will only be thankless.

After graduating from school, perhaps many people have lost contact with their old classmates. Everyone is busy with their own business, and there is little time to get together. But after marriage, their careers have stabilized and they have time to get together with classmates and friends. Nostalgic people always try their best to connect their classmates who are far away and talk about the romance and innocence of those years.

Students who have played well and have similar views have undoubtedly opened up a beautiful relationship for themselves, but in fact, most of them are not very gratifying. Most of them are "* * *" for the benefit, not borrowing money, because they want to buy wine when they get married, or use the back door to pull relationships. Such a trivial matter can be done once or twice, which is inevitably disgusting. In the past, the simple friendship changed, and the existence of friends and classmates became.

I'm already very busy, and it will be even sadder to have this kind of shit again! At this time, you should learn to break up and clean up your circle of friends one by one. Delete people who are not important to you or old classmates who haven't contacted for a long time, because their existence is not important, but whenever a classmate asks you for money, don't pay attention, because the consequences are mostly making enemies. Preferably a familiar stranger.

Since a competition launched free goods bargain-hunting, people who love to take advantage of it have been planning how to use free goods all day. Of course, websites won't take advantage of you so easily. They will let you add friends to attract members and let relatives and friends help bargain. At this time, you have to send links everywhere for help. In order to get business, even those students who haven't contacted for hundreds of years have been found out.

You will probably encounter such wonderful things often. Unfamiliar friends often send you a link for a little thing, asking you to cut it for me. If you don't cut it, he will question you and keep urging you. This kind of thing is annoying. Although it doesn't take much time to cut a knife, no one can let it go. The most important thing is that they are not familiar with each other. Some netizens who even talked a few words also posted links all day.

However, if you meet such an ungrateful person, don't be afraid of his embarrassment, ignore it directly, or simply hack it, because the pattern of such greedy and cheap people is too small, they will not bring you any benefits and will only waste your time in vain. Don't let nature take its course.

China people like to say such a sentence: "I am your XXX after all, you have to help me!" " ""He is so poor, he is related to you, and you have the ability. Why don't you help him? "Both the pleading tone and the questioning tone are unbearable.

Some people like to stand on the moral high ground and ask others to give directions with the attitude of God, but he refuses to pay at all. Such people are called "Goddess Bitch" by the poisonous tongues on the Internet.

Kidnapping your relatives who borrowed money with morality, you don't need to pay attention to them. After middle age, you are under great pressure. Even if you have some money, it will be more useful. You don't need money for children's tuition, living expenses, family expenses and supporting the elderly. You are still working hard for your life and dare not stop to have a rest. Those relatives come and ask you for money, but if you don't, they cry all kinds of abuse as if you owe them money.

Kidnapping people who borrow money from others by virtue is not good in itself. They will only think of themselves and will not consider your difficulties. If you encounter difficulties in the future, don't expect them to help you. They only gloat. Relatives with bad personalities like this will try to stay away.

When people reach middle age, they should learn to add and subtract, improve their quality of life and avoid some ineffective social interaction. Ignore those classmates who borrow money as soon as they appear without contact for many years, ignore the strange netizens who ask you for a knife online, and ignore the moral kidnapping of relatives who ask you for money. It is not easy for everyone to live. For many people, it is good to take care of their small family. As for the others, if they have the ability, they will help. I'm sorry if they lack ability. Jean.

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