Why do you pretend to love your daughter when she gets married, and really love her and give her a house and money?

Because in general, if you really love your daughter, you will be very sad, because this is the reality. I will definitely prepare something for my daughter. In this world, any feelings may be fake, and money and houses must be real. Today, I saw two wedding videos in my circle of friends, and I was happy all afternoon. In the video sent by girl A, her parents held her in their arms and cried, saying, "My baby daughter is married, and she is going to suffer. Mom and dad are beyond her power. How can I take care of you in the future? " It's really touching to watch. There is a circle of people wiping their eyes.

I think it's all based on my own living conditions. That's why this is happening. Actually, it's true. Domesticated by traditional ideas, most women have weak consciousness of defending their own values and wealth. Once they get married, especially after giving birth, they will give up themselves for the sake of their children, regardless of you and me, including money and house. One of my readers is an only child. Her parents gave her two suites before marriage. After giving birth to a child, she decided to buy a school district house for the good future of the child. Her husband's family pretends to be poor. She is reluctant to fight with wits and courage, and her maternal love is rampant. She is cruel and gnashing her teeth. She sold two pre-marital properties and replaced them with marital properties. When the child was in junior high school, the school district room nearly tripled, and her husband was derailed. She can't stand this tone and wants a divorce. Her husband demanded that half of the property rights of the school district be divided in an upright, "legal and reasonable" way. ...

Because this is the reality. I will definitely prepare something for my daughter. I have attended many weddings, and all the parents who were particularly excited and tearful at their daughter's wedding knew very well that they had never had intimate relationship with their daughter and gave her some dowry. Even if we are even, we are really worried that our daughter will be bullied by her husband's family.

Because this is because I am worried that my daughter will suffer after marriage, so I will give money. However, this is not love, tears are performed by "loving father and loving mother" for everyone to see, and no matter how much they cry, resolutely not giving their daughters practical and useful resources will always be their unbreakable values of marriage and love. At the wedding, the woman's parents were calm, and there was no servility and grandstanding crying. They have a bottom in their hearts, and either give their daughter a house and money directly, or they are always ready to welcome her to go home after divorce.