Only when you are content can you always be happy, and when you are broad-minded can you be peaceful and far-reaching.

There is love in the heart, and the lotus heart crosses the mortal world. Living in the mortal world, we will inevitably be set off by everything in the mortal world. As the saying goes, those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. On this big stage of life, we will encounter different scenery. Some people desire success and wealth, while others like to be ordinary. Beauty has a different concept in everyone's heart. A person lives a lifetime, and vegetation lasts a season. Everyone longs for beauty and pursues his or her own wishes. In fact, beauty lies in our hearts. Only by being content can we always be happy, and only by being broad-minded can we be peaceful and far-reaching.

We will always lament that time is hasty and the years are ruthless.

In this noisy world of utilitarianism, it seems that time is life and time is money. People are always in a hurry and ignore the beautiful scenery around them.

People often pursue material and selfish desires. In order to obtain their so-called good life, they give up the beautiful and picturesque scenery on their way to life, blindly rush on, and ignore the most precious things around them. , some people even give up family affection, friendship, love...

Have love in your heart and be grateful as a human being. In the scenery of life, we will encounter all kinds of trivial matters in the world. We must know how to cherish the things around us, have love in our hearts, and be grateful as a human being, because the scenery around us needs everyone to protect and be friendly. The three words truth, goodness and beauty contain the truth of life. If your mind is as calm as water, you will be calm and able to tolerate everything, because in your eyes, the mortal world is a big garden, with hundreds of schools of thought contending, a fragrant and charming scenery.

Bi Shumin said: "The spirit has three cabins. The first room is used to contain our love and hate; the second room is used to contain our work; the third room is used to contain ourselves. ”

In fact, I can’t keep the hatred in my heart. Although sometimes hatred can be the driving force for us to move forward, it can also destroy the kindness in our hearts. Even if you succeed, you may have planted the seeds of evil. These seeds often take root and sprout without you realizing it, causing you to become obsessed and become a vicious person. The second and third rooms, I don’t think are necessary. It’s much better to forget yourself than to remember yourself from time to time. If the work is for yourself, for the sake of hatred, then it’s okay not to do it. If it were me, I would open up three rooms and give them all to love. Laugh as you please, and you will always be happy if you are content.

She looks forward to having her own future, but is afraid of falling apart in the past; she dreams of having a man, but she doesn’t want to be hunted by him. Behind every fear is the dormant desire. Conquest makes her afraid, but she also looks forward to being passive. She is therefore doomed to be false and has countless excuses. She is destined to be tortured by all kinds of negative emotions intertwined with anxiety and desire.

Silence is certainly a virtue, but being silent in front of your lover is cowardice. If you really like someone, you want to give them happiness with your own hands! If you really like someone, please let go of your noble face. There is no guilt in liking someone. It cannot be more real, and it is not a shameful thing. Why do you have to sacrifice to save face and suffer. If you really like someone, say it out loud! come on!

We always have endless work to do, endless grievances to vent, endless fat to lose, endless uncles to fuck, endless scoldings to scold, and endless cheating dads. This is life.

When you are tired, listen to music; when you are depressed, dance; when you are sad, talk about your mood; when you fail, start over; this is how life should be lived, sweep away the gloom and be happy. Although sometimes you are not satisfied, you have to control everything by yourself, face it happily, and do not feel tired when doing things. Be happy to yourself and infect everyone. Crying makes you feel happy, and a rainbow will appear after the rain. Laugh as you please, and contentment will bring you constant happiness.

If the person I fall in love with can't give me happiness, can't give me forever, can't give me a lifetime of love. Maybe we won't last forever, or maybe he has fallen in love with someone else. However, I will not regret it. I won’t regret meeting him or falling in love with him. I don’t regret ever being with him. No matter what the result is. No matter how tragic your ending is. I'm consistent.

The expression of love does not have to be expensive or time-consuming. After living together for a long time, the expression of love may become some trivial living habits. For example, make a cup of hot tea for your lover, tuck your lover into bed, or make a joke with your lover. Of course, the tea might be too hot, the quilt might not be tucked in, and the jokes might be a little vulgar. But never say no. Because what you reject is no longer an action, but love.

I once lost myself in your world without you, but now I have found a better version of myself in a world without you

The true meaning of life lies in what you can afford and how much you let go Down. When you can afford it, you must have courage and courage, never retreat in the face of difficulties, and never stop in spite of cold words. Only by carrying forward with a heavy load can life have quality; when you can let go, you must have determination and courage, and do not be limited by gains and losses. , Don’t be afraid of success or failure. Only by moving forward lightly can your soul be relaxed. Many times, it doesn’t matter whether you can pick it up or put it down. Everything you pick up must eventually be put down. There is nothing that cannot be forgotten.

An inch of emotion, a piece of longing, in the lonely world, who brews lovesickness into a thousand-year treasure, a thousand-year watch, in the world of mortals, in the cold and warm autumn, who looks with infatuation, Staying in a circle, like the passing years, whose palm holds whose thoughts!

Just because I don’t say or ask about some things doesn’t mean I don’t care. Once upon a time, anyone cried for whom. You are the sand blown into my eyes, which blurs my eyes and makes me unable to see the sky clearly. This end of prosperity does not cost the city or the country, but it costs everything I have. What do you want, a lifetime together or a moment of pleasure? What I want is just a simple and stable life. Love reaches the end of the road and cannot be recovered. The best happiness is the care you give. It is very sad to say that only if you achieve tranquility and far-reaching, can you see through the mortal world

1. When you are depressed, you will always feel the power of loneliness. I long for understanding people to lend some warmth and lend a shoulder. I am very happy. I'll be with you on the road. The original dream is held tightly in the hand, the place you want to go the most, how dare you return halfway?

2. No matter what you are going through, it is always good to have someone to share it with. I'm used to habits that I shouldn't be used to, but I'm clinging to things that I shouldn't be clinging to. We always keep our words to ourselves, for the sake of dignity and for many stupid reasons. No matter how well you do, there will still be people pointing fingers; even if you are a mess, there will still be people singing praises. So don't fall into other people's eyes. What you need to please is just yourself.

3. The monster of habit, although it is a devil, will swallow up all shame, and it will also become an angel, cultivating the accumulated virtues and good deeds into a natural and comfortable daily routine.

4. His eyes were dull and his expression was depressed. His figure and his eyes all make people feel his profound and shuddering sadness. His eyes sunk deeply into his sockets, and he moved like an old man. He stayed there, staring at the stream with blank eyes, until he died sadly.

5. People should be content and happy, be tolerant and generous, and cherish each other in this world. The past is allowed to disappear with the wind, and the future is allowed to come naturally. He cherishes everything he has now. In this way, only if you know how to cherish it, you are worthy of having it. Only if you achieve tranquility and distance can you see through the world of mortals.

6. Those things that come because of fate will eventually part ways. ---San Mao's "My Baby"

7. Miss you; make me sad and lonely! Miss you; makes me sad, makes me cry!

8. The passing of time is like water, and the years are like songs. Time always passes by inadvertently. As time goes by, many memories are slowly forgotten, and the once familiar beautiful faces become gradually blurred. Only some fading memories are left, drifting with the wind into mottled spots on the ground. The prosperity of the past has turned into a lifetime of loneliness. Life is one gathering and parting after another, moving slowly with the hour hand of the clock.

9. A person’s biggest opponent is often not others, but his own laziness. Don't expect to get lucky. Luck can't always be with you. You have to rely on your ability at all times.

You must try your best to be qualified to say that you are unlucky.

10. Family, friendship, love. If you can keep it, keep it. If you can't keep it, let it go. Why bother others and force yourself.

11. Let go, everything will eventually be dust. Looking back, how many heartbeats have become barren. I can no longer tell the difference between happiness and sadness. Drifting and losing, or belonging somewhere. Enjoy a cup of tea and let your soul radiate warmth. Take a long trip and let life quietly revive.

12. Smile when you can face things with a smile, because smiling is always better than crying.

13. Stop regretting what you missed. Only the people or things you miss will have the opportunity for others to meet. Only the people or things that others have missed will have the opportunity for you. Everyone will miss it, everyone has missed it, but what truly belongs to you will never be missed.

14. That year, that month, that time, have passed quietly. The mountains, the water, and the sound of the piano have gradually become clearer. The river, the bank, and both sides are devastated. The figure parked on my shore is still the same as before, and the sound of the flute is melodious. Who is it? Looking back at the moment, who is someone's missed concern, who is someone's end of the world. Who can wipe the dust off the pages year after year? Who else can read those everlasting feelings?

15. You cannot be friends after a breakup because we have hurt each other. You cannot be enemies because we have loved each other deeply, so we have become the most familiar strangers.

16. The smoke and water are vast, and the grass is green again. You are the pretty girl standing on the water, wearing a plain skirt, black eyebrows like distant mountains, and a pair of loving eyes. Like a pool of blue waves, full of autumn water, charming and elegant, the skin is as white as gelatin, and the ice-cold skin is like jade bones. The face without makeup reveals peerless beauty, distant, seemingly visible, high mountains and flowing water, with a low eyebrow and a smile, flowers I was so ashamed that I danced in the wind, mesmerized by the wind and moon, and drunk by the world of mortals!

17. If you want to train a person who can do great things, you must make him endure hardships and be unsatisfied in order to develop a persevering character.

18. Don’t envy prosperity, don’t deliberately carve things out, be honest with people, and do things in a down-to-earth manner; don’t be too stingy, don’t be too stubborn, know how to make choices, learn to give; don’t let your heart be burdened, don’t pretend to be spirit or walk. Be light, and happiness is always there; don't be eager for success, don't show off yourself, be low-key when you succeed, and free and easy when you fail. Only by being simple can you live your true self. Learn to practice tranquility, tolerance, and indifference. Smile and watch the flowers bloom, and appreciate the falling leaves without competing. It is best to adapt to the circumstances.

19. People who are lovelorn understand love better, and frustrated people understand life better.

20. Bad mood: Life is short, you should live brilliantly, not sallowly. Lying down; surprise is like a double-yolked egg, despair is like a double-yolk link; in life, live like a sunflower, even if you are depressed, you still face the sun. Life is short, and you should live it brilliantly, rather than lying in a gray state; surprise is like a double-yolked egg, and despair is like a double-yolked lily; while you are alive, you should live like a sunflower, even if you are depressed, you should always face the sun.

21. How can we stay together when we are drunk and forget each other? It is a pity for the silent night, and the words of sparse shadows are desolate. Thousands of years of predestined acquaintance, this life's emotions are melancholy; unable to bear them, there are many sorrows, and tears flow first before I want to speak. In the ageless night, I string together your gentle fragments of words, fold them into Tang and Song Dynasties, and pave the way for tonight's words. A kind of love can only be sent in a distant dream, and I turned into a butterfly in the dream, waiting for the moment of dawn in the slender moonlight, dancing.

22. When people are alive, they are confused, troubled and frustrated every day! Is it useful to still not forget the past when you look back? Whether you want to be happy or continue is the only decision you make

23. There are two roads in life, one needs to be walked with heart, called dream; the other needs to be walked with feet , called reality.

24. Despicableness is the passport of the despicable, and nobility is the epitaph of the noble.

25. Record every bit of the soul, collect the trajectory of life, and time will eventually If everything is stripped away, some people will always disappear from sight. The gathering and dispersion of causes and conditions is the unchanging theme of life; open the dusty memories, relive the words of spring, and longing will eventually burst in the wind. Some things are always remembered inadvertently. There is love in the world, and there are eternal things in this world.

Words of contentment

1. "Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. The development of human society has never been a straight line, and there will be contradictions at every stage." But people should not only understand the society based on their own interests. They should learn to "be contented, happy and tolerant" and "the ordinary is the truth", so that they can live calmly, be contented in the "slow life", and make others happy. I feel safe and fulfilled because of you.

2. The so-called happy people are those who only remember the contentment in their lives; while the so-called unhappy people only remember the opposite.

3. If anyone is truly content in his heart, he will be able to obtain all happiness.

4. To be content is to be satisfied with the life or desires that one has received, not to be jealous of those who are stronger than oneself, not to be arrogant to those who are weaker than oneself, and to do one's best to help those in need. ; Contentment does not mean being content with the status quo, but fully cherishing the existing harvest, fully enjoying the current results, and fully tapping the existing potential to provide a platform for future innovation and progress. Rational progress should be based on a contented and happy mentality.

5. Being content and happy is the normal state of the world. Wealth and glory are like passing smoke. A truly optimistic attitude should be to be content with poverty and be prepared for danger in times of peace.

6. Lovers enjoy the joy of love, and families enjoy the joy of family relationships. Ordinary people enjoy the happiness of mouth, and philosophers enjoy the happiness of wisdom. Mortals enjoy material happiness, while saints enjoy spiritual happiness. Be content with yourself, be content, and live a happy life!

7. Being content and not satisfied is easy to say but difficult to do. We need to experience it with our heart, grasp it with wisdom, and practice it with action. If a person can put himself in others' shoes and realize that he is content and not satisfied, his life will be more exciting and beautiful, and his career will be smoother and more brilliant.

8. Life is like a journey. A contented person "can have a stable and quiet mind. Everywhere he touches is green water and green mountains, and the sky is high and the clouds are clear." They generally adhere to the principle of "starting from afar and starting from near, big things start from small things", usually "be honest and work hard", do not envy vanity and do not pursue fame and fortune, "live in the world and live in peace and harmony". Be at ease; discover the wonders of the universe, and see the articles of heaven and earth." You will end up with "the breeze on your sleeves, a relaxed body, leisurely and contented, no complaints or regrets."

9. Being content may mean that you cannot get more, but it will make you more rational and will not let you derail from reality and lead to the abyss of destruction. I still say the same thing: He who is content is always happy!

10. Dissatisfaction is relative to contentment. There is no absolute contentment or dissatisfaction in the world. The two are often intertwined, interact and complement each other. Whether contentment or dissatisfaction, they are both the same. A mentality of life. Contentment can make people peaceful, calm, optimistic, free and aloof; dissatisfaction can make people eager to strive for passion and strive to climb.

11. If people want to be happy, the key is to have an optimistic attitude. Being content and happy is a fundamental requirement of contemporary people and contemporary society. In life, people tend to think about what they don’t have and ignore what they already have. They often have society's expectations for leaders that exceed the actual expectations. Once they are not met, they will be full of complaints. They will feel resentful when they see others who are powerful, take high salaries, drive luxury cars and live in luxury houses.

12. When life is good, be helpful to others; when life is average, be content with what you have; when you are in adversity, learn to enjoy yourself. Don't use other people's mistakes to punish yourself, because it's not worth it; don't use your own mistakes to punish others, because when you hurt others, you will be hurt again; don't use your own mistakes to punish yourself, no one can do anything wrong, It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, as long as you carefully find out the reason, learn the lesson, and change it!

13. Happiness means looking down on the materialistic worries of the world and not pursuing glory and gain.

If you like martial arts novels, you don’t need to be ashamed of Dream of Red Mansions; if the person you like suddenly disappears, you don’t need to risk your life to assert that he will leave freely; if your friend is unfortunate, you don’t need to blame everyone; if you think Maggie Cheung It is beautiful and vulgar, you don't need to be greedy and abuse your wife; if you are already physically and mentally ill, then go to church to repent, there is no need to hate others' mediocrity; face the harmony of the soul calmly, happiness is in your heart.

14. “Not being satisfied” means having unrealistic goals and having too many desires, which can easily lead to mental stress, depression, and even rebellious psychology, leading to behaviors that are contrary to the law or ethics. They are all incompatible with the construction of a "civilized society and a harmonious society" and are not conducive to one's peaceful life.

15. Contentment - The limit of a person's desire is not a bottomless pit, nor is it a "lion's big mouth". It is about stopping one's desires while satisfying one's own needs. Be down-to-earth and enterprising, be prudent and protect yourself. Everyone's desires have a certain limit. Although they are also their own bad nature, they will not extend infinitely to the spiritual world. Even the group of worms who are "greedy and greedy" will not act recklessly forever. There will eventually be a moment to "do justice for heaven". And the "worms" followed their greed and were buried deep in the abyss of darkness, "never able to stand up again." In comparison, the result seems too clear, but it is precisely in this way that it shows the beauty of the soul: contentment and happiness.

16. If you don’t blindly compare with others, you will be relaxed and contented. If you don’t set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you don’t deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. You will not be demanding all the time. By yourself, you will live at ease, and by not being critical, you will be relaxed. If you live too tiredly, you will be miserable. Be content and happy!

17. I must learn to feel happiness no matter when and where I am. Go to work without the purpose of making money; to love first forget all the bad things others do to you; to dance regardless of whether others are paying attention; to sing without thinking about whether the singing is very beautiful; to live like the world. Heaven, if I do this, I will definitely be happier than living in a real paradise.

18. People should be content and happy, and they should not overthink anything. When the mind is overloaded, they will complain about everything and worry about others. If you are simple, the world will be simple for you. A simple life leads to a happy life. It is necessary to delete the memory regularly and discard unpleasant people and things from the memory. Formatting yourself is to delete you. Zhang Ailing said: Because I have loved, I am compassionate; because I understand, I am tolerant.

19. Being able to be at peace with yourself is a supplement and reinforcement of contentment and happiness. The two sentences are combined to form a lofty spiritual realm. A sociologist said: "'Benevolence, justice, etiquette, wisdom and trust' are the core of Chinese Confucianism. It is easy for people to learn anything, but the most difficult thing to learn is tolerance and tolerance." "Be patient for a while and let the sea and sky be brighter." In the years just after the Cultural Revolution, the popular slogan "Long Live Understanding" was popular in society, which was the application and development of the famous saying "Be content with one's content, be able to tolerate oneself" in specific situations.

20. The most important thing for a contented person is knowing what is not possible but not doing it. For those who are dissatisfied, wisdom lies in knowing what is possible and doing it. If you know it's not possible and force it, you'll be in vain; if you know it's possible but don't do it, you'll miss a good opportunity. In real life, if a person can be content with fame and wealth, and at the same time be dissatisfied with career, contentment will become an auxiliary and foundation for dissatisfaction, and dissatisfaction will become the aggregation of contentment. This is the sublimation of the realm of life.