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Why is the original wife called "married wife"?

Married couples refer to the original couple.

One of the origins of married couples

There are "married couples" in southern Zhejiang, and there are folk customs of "tying hair and hugging body" and "throwing silk to comfort feelings". The so-called "tying the hair to support the body" means that the original husband and wife get married one day, and the man sends a Geng sticker and the woman returns it. The name, date of birth and date of marriage are indicated on the Geng sticker. When the woman returned to Geng Tie, she attached a bunch of hair and tied it with a red rope as a token of mutual commitment and commitment to show unity and happiness over the past hundred years. And "throwing silk to comfort feelings" is a married couple. When the man drowned and the body was not found, his wife had to cut off a bunch of hair, tie it to a stone and throw it at the accident site to comfort her feelings. According to legend, the custom of marriage between husband and wife was left by an ancient emperor when he ascended the throne.

It is said that it was the first night when the emperor ascended the throne, because he was worried that his beard was too short to sleep (ancient men measured people's knowledge by the length of his beard). The queen beside her is very clever. She cut off her hair and carefully stuck it on the emperor's beard, making the emperor's short beard become a long beard overnight. When the emperor ascended the throne the next day, he stroked his beard and accepted the worship of his courtiers. The courtiers were surprised that the emperor's beard went through his navel overnight. He is really the "real dragon son of heaven"! The queen cut her hair and tied the emperor's beard, which became the reason for getting married.

The second origin of married couples

In ancient China, after the groom took the bride home, he held a wedding ceremony. During the ceremony, he would worship the heavens and the ground, then go to Gaotang, and then the husband and wife would pay homage to each other, and finally they would have a drink, also called a toast. Later, it developed into a ceremony of tying temples, that is, husband and wife sat side by side with their heads tied together, from which the word "married couple" came.

Tie a knot with a pillow and make friends with the dead.

We often hear the word "married wife". The original meaning of "marrying a wife" is: "Men come of age, 20 years old, and women are 15 years old, which just happens to take the crown." In ancient times, both men and women had to have long hair, and when they reached a certain age, they would hold a "rite of passage" for them. When a man wears a crown, he puts his hair in a bun, which is called a "knot", and then puts on a hat. In Shuowen, the total name of the crown is also. Call them adults. It is recorded in the Book of Rites Quli that men have 20 crowns. It means to hold a coronation ceremony and give it a word. Crown age means that the man is twenty years old, which means that he has just reached the age of adulthood. Twenty years old is also called "the year of weak crown".

In many areas of our country, underage women are called "girls", which can also be seen in many novels written by the ancients. In addition, in the old days, it was also said that "girl" was a handmaid of a large family. "Girl" also includes intimacy. Some elders call their younger generation with a smile: "You are a dead girl, and you can't even do a little thing well!" In ancient times, the real meaning of "girl" refers to a style of women combing their hair, which can often be seen in today's movies and TV shows. For example, in the movie "Dream of Red Mansions", the hair styles of maids who serve their masters are all combed into symmetrical double bun and stuck on the top of their heads, just like a forked ya character. Cheng Zongluo's "Ancient Yangzhou Zhuzhi Ci" contains: a clever bun and two temples. When a woman reaches the age of fifteen, she will be given a gift, that is, "hairpin ceremony", which means that a woman will come of age at the age of fifteen. Zi: The original meaning, the hairpin used in ancient times to curl your hair or button your hat, means that you can curl your hair now and then use Zi, which was called Zi Nian in ancient times. According to the ancients, when men and women reach adulthood, it means that they can get married and start a family.

Ancient people were very solemn when crowning and giving gifts. That's why there is the word "wife", which means the original wife. Tie your hair is also called tie your hair. In ancient times, men began to tie their hair in childhood, because it refers to early adulthood. Having a knot in your hair also means getting married. On the wedding day, men and women tie their hair in a bun, so it is called a bun. A couple on their wedding night: "Cross silk knot dragons and phoenixes, carve colorful clouds, one inch is concentric, and a hundred years will last forever." It means: two new people sit on the bed, male left and female right, each cut off a lock of their own hair, and then tied these two long locks together, swearing that they will be soul mates, love forever, live and die together, and never part. Throughout the ages, despite the good wishes of "one inch with one heart" and "long life for a hundred years", things have changed, and life is inevitably suffering from acacia, just as in ancient times, I always said in my heart: This is the joy of knot, what can you do? Women always carefully wrap their love expectations and best wishes in their hair, shiny black hair and skillfully combed hair. In a sense, it is the expectation and guarantee to win love and happiness.

The word "knot" used in the word "knot" is the most meaningful. Nowadays, there are probably several "Chinese knots" hanging in the living room of every household, and lux "concentric knots" will also be seen in the wedding bridal chamber. The meaning of "knot" includes firmness, combination and companionship. In ancient times, "knot" was connected with "bun", which means total hair. The bun is tied at the top of the hair. A poetess in the Tang Dynasty wrote a poem "Midnight Song": "Nong not only cuts clouds, but also distributes them. I have nowhere to go, and I am United. " In ancient times, the bun on the wife's head in the bridal chamber could not be untied by herself. The ancient book "Wedding in Yi Li" records: "The master enters the room and takes off the bride's tassel." It means that only the husband can untie the coiled bun, and then embrace each other, loving and lingering, inseparable. Later, people called men and women who got married for the first time "married couples".

In the Han Dynasty in China, there was a custom of holding funeral ceremonies. If the married wife breaks off early for some reason, the husband will break the comb they used when they got married, divide it into two parts, put some strands of his wife's green hair on it, and bury the other half in the coffin, to show that he never forgets his married wife and commemorate this deep love. In "New Poetry Yutai Poetry for Jiao Zhongqing's Wife", he wrote: "Make a pillow mat and be friends with the grave." Although this poem is a tragic story with the feudal patriarchal clan system as the background. At that time, lovers in love, if a woman gave a lock of her hair to a man as a token, it was like she gave her body to a man as an important token. Sometimes, however, a lock of a lover's hair is just like what Li Bai, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, said: "White hair is three thousands of feet, and sorrow is like a long beard", and the hair becomes "loose hair". Only in ancient times, women couldn't hear the song "Short Hair" sung today: I have cut my hair short, cut my troubles short, cut a fork I don't love, and struggled inch by inch. ...