Why did my wife run away without posting on WeChat Moments? Does happiness have to be shared?

On August 13, read the news "Newlyweds Traveling, Husband Didn't Post on WeChat Moments, Wife Ran Out and Jumped into a River" reported that Xiao Liu, a newlywed couple from Sichuan, traveled to Xi'an with his wife, and his wife was with him After a big quarrel, he left. Xiao Liu searched hard for several hours but could not find her. Because his wife threatened to jump into the river before leaving, Xiao Liu had to call the police. Finally, with the help of the police, Xiao Liu's wife was found in the early morning of the next day.

The reason why the young couple quarreled in the news is indeed very interesting. It was Xiao Liu’s wife who blamed Xiao Liu for not posting on WeChat Moments after going out to play for several days. The behavior of not posting on WeChat Moments must be very normal in Xiao Liu's opinion, but it is quite serious in the opinion of his wife. His wife therefore concluded that Xiao Liu did not pay enough attention to her, so she was unwilling to let people around her know the happy state of their couple.

Many women like to show off their happiness. Every time they travel to a place, they take photos and post on their WeChat Moments. Some middle-aged and elderly women will invite friends to accompany them and travel together. And when they travel, they always go out with a lot of clothes, take various photos, and then post the photos in Jiugongge. Some people are not limited to traveling, but they have to post on Moments wherever they go. Even when they want to have a meal, they have to post on Moments before officially starting.

Faced with this reality, it is actually normal for Xiao Liu’s wife to hope that her husband can also post on Moments to satisfy her vanity. However, there is a big difference in the ideas of men and women, which can be seen in the circle of friends. Basically nothing that male friends post in their WeChat Moments is sketches of daily life. If you want to post about daily life, at most it would be working out, going on a business trip, attending a meeting, or seeing something weird. Of course, there are also male friends who post their happiness in WeChat Moments, but it can be safely said that most of these people are probably doing it to make their wives happy. There are very few men who voluntarily post photos of traveling with their wives.

Don’t think that the reason why Xiao Liu’s wife quarrels with him is too weird, because anyone who has ever been married knows that the reason why young couples quarrel is always All sorts of strange things. As far as women are concerned, many women are sensible and polite in front of other people, but in front of their significant other, they are completely careless. Even some women with reserved personalities may blush when talking to strangers outside, but once they quarrel with their husbands at home, they immediately become a different person. At this time, it is not an exaggeration to say that she is a shrew.

If you really want to be honest, you really can’t find a couple in life who doesn’t quarrel at all. Living in the same house every day, there will always be all kinds of odds and ends, which will inevitably cause some bumps and bruises. Therefore, it is not an exaggeration to say that quarreling is an inevitable part of a married life. Of course, when most women quarrel with their husbands, only the husband himself knows how it feels, and it is not enough for outsiders to understand, and it is impossible for outsiders to have the opportunity to "appreciate" it.

But on a certain media page today, two women had a quarrel with their husbands that made the news. Moreover, the police were involved because the women were seeking life and death. After the woman in the Sichuan news ran away in anger, the police searched for several hours before finding her. In another news story, a 37-year-old woman from Jiangsu attempted suicide first with a knife and then jumped into a river because her husband refused to buy her a necklace because it was too expensive. Fortunately, she was rescued by the police in time.

Many reserved traditional women cannot stand this kind of behavior. Even a modern woman would definitely not approve of such a practice of crying, making trouble, and hanging herself in front of everyone. Because in the final analysis, conflicts and disputes between husband and wife are very personal matters, and others will not be too interested in your family's affairs. No matter what conflicts there are between husband and wife, if there is no domestic violence, it is better for both parties to negotiate and resolve them privately. I really can’t live any longer. There is freedom to marry and divorce.

Let’s go back to the issues that appeared in the news today. The husband did not post on WeChat Moments, and his wife immediately ran away from him, regardless of the fact that she was in a strange foreign land at the time. Such willfulness is of course unavoidable. of. However, if you look at it from another perspective, showing off your happiness in the circle of friends seems to have become the norm, which is also an indisputable fact.

As the author also mentioned above, men are generally rarely willing to show off their happiness in various circles of friends. This requires women to understand the psychology of men and communicate more. As long as the couple really feels happy together, then what difference does it make if they show off or not?