What's going on when you get married?

1. What's going on at the wedding? Tell me exactly how many days it will take the bride to return.

Returning means that the daughter and her son-in-law go back to their daughter's house to pay their respects.

In ancient times, it was the third, sixth or seventh, eighth and ninth day of marriage, and there was also a full moon to visit relatives. In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a custom of Huimen, which has been inherited by future generations.

because the "double-door" is a double-door for newlyweds, it is called "double-door", which means being in pairs. When returning to the door, the old custom stipulates that the bride should go ahead, and when returning to the man's house, the groom should go ahead, because this return to the door is the first time for her daughter to return to her family after her new marriage, and some of them are also called "going to the head."

After a "double trip", you are generally not allowed to spend the night in the Yue family, and you must return to the man's family on the same day, because in the old days, there was a custom of staying indoors for one month after your wedding. On the third day after marriage, the bride will go back to her mother's house with the groom and gifts, commonly known as "returning home".

Because this is the first time that my daughter has come home after marriage, and it is also the first time that my new son-in-law has officially visited her parents-in-law's house, the reception at the woman's house is rather grand. At the banquet, the groom sits at the head, accompanied by the close relatives and friends of the woman's family.

there is no limit on the number of days of residence when returning to the door. The woman's family often entertains guests and friends during her daughter's son-in-law's "returning home from the province".

After being married for one month, the bride has to go back to her parents' home once, and there is no limit to the number of days she stays.

2. What's the matter with returning home in three days?

Returning home means that the newlyweds return to their parents' home on the third day after their wedding, and for the bride, they return to their parents' home after they are newly married.

It is also the first time for the newlyweds to return to their mother's home to visit their relatives. It is naturally an indispensable etiquette for the couple to be in pairs and pay homage to their parents. At this time, when the groom meets his parents-in-law, he should change his name to father and mother, which means that the bride's parents can see that their marriage is happy. The Yue family will also hold a banquet to entertain the new son-in-law, and some relatives of the woman will also make trouble with the son-in-law. Of course, At this time, the new son-in-law still wants to give his parents-in-law a "return gift" and "return money", and according to different places, he brings different gifts. Some bring a rooster, which means "good luck". Some bring some meat, eggs, noodles and other things. When they arrive at the woman's house, they will stay for a few days before returning. More commonly, they give oranges, apples, bananas, wine and so on, and the styles are not fixed. Singular numbers are unlucky. After the first Spring Festival, the groom will bring gifts with his wife to "celebrate the New Year" for his parents-in-law, and the elders usually hold a banquet and give money to the couple when they return home.

3. What does it mean to return home in two days after marriage?

According to China's wedding custom and etiquette, the bride will bring many gifts home with the groom after three days of marriage, which is also called "returning home in three days".

This is a kind of etiquette among China people. The bride's parents attach great importance to the etiquette of returning home for three days, which is an important event for the bride's whole family. Therefore, when the bride returns home for three days, she should be prepared for the gifts and strive to leave a good impression on her parents-in-law.

Home-return gifts should be prepared in advance. The gifts must be something that the bride's parents like. Home-return gifts should be fashionable. Return to the bride's family must be between 1 o'clock. The bride and groom should first greet the elderly, and the groom should change his name to parents, and show kindness and enthusiasm to relatives, friends and neighbors.

When the whole family has a meal, the bride and groom should sit on one side and make a toast to thank everyone for their wishes for their wedding. Don't rush home after dinner, talk with your parents for a while or engage in some entertainment activities with your family. Go home before sunset at about 4 pm, and invite the elderly and brothers and sisters to your home.