Don't make fun of children. Tell me about the video.

Adults who always make fun of their children are really annoying.

On Sunday, the husband and wife took their children back to the park to bask in the sun, stopped at the refreshment of a fellow villager at home and drank two cups of tea by the way.

Just sitting for a while, a regular customer in the shop came in. This may be the first time he has seen our penises.

After watching it for a while, I said to my husband: the second child is just like you.

Mr. Wang replied with a smile, yes, everyone said so. My brother is like my mother.

The man turned to Dabao again and said, Oh, you don't look like your father. Your father will love his brother instead of you in the future.

Dabao, who was listening to the story, looked at him in a daze, then at me and his father. He looked puzzled as if to ask, really?

I quickly said to Dabao, alas, this uncle is so stupid that he can only make fun of children. He can't find a topic to talk to you, so he has to use this way.

Mr. Wang also turned to Dabao and said, Ha, Dad will always love you.

Dabao just smiled and continued to listen to his story.

I remember many years ago, when my nephew was about five or six years old, once, several uncles at home chatted in the yard after dinner. A cousin came over and my nephew called out politely, uncle.

I didn't expect this uncle to hold my nephew's face and say, what did you call me? It's my grandfather.

My nephew cried doubtfully, grandpa.

Then a group of people laughed wildly, but my nephew still looked at everyone with a puzzled face. He must be thinking, am I so funny?

My nephew, who is often teased like this, has become less fond of calling people. Perhaps, he is afraid of being said wrong, and he is afraid of being laughed at by everyone.

If I had known something about children's psychology, maybe my nephew was still a polite child.

Adults think this is an interesting joke, but for children, they take it seriously. Those adults who always play tricks on their children, maybe their childhood is also spoiled. And it really makes people feel hateful.

But it's not uncommon around us. For example, those who say to children with younger brothers and sisters: Oh, your mother will not accompany you after giving birth to her younger brother (or sister) and will not love you.

The world of children is very simple. They don't beat around the bush like we adults.

A child says that love is love, and that he doesn't love because he has emotions. They are not as good at camouflage as we adults.

I remember that every time I have a conflict with my child, my son always says, whoops, I don't want my mother.

At that moment, because he was hurt and not understood, he would express it like that.

Unlike some of us adults, he obviously doesn't accept a person, but for various reasons, he remains friendly. You don't like it that much, but you must be close.

In the children's world, there should be virginity and nothing to hide.

I think I should ask Dabao, next time if someone says to you: Your parents love your brother more than you. What can you do?

Many times we can't stop others from doing things, nor can we change others. We just need to teach our children how to deal with them.

Because there will always be some people around us who are just making up for their childhood. The children in them may have been injured like this.

Just like Xiaomi in "A River in Spring", after suffering from school bullying, she changed her environment and began to be the protagonist of bullying others. Maybe no one will know her sadness. While bullying others, she is also looking for a little self-esteem for herself, and at the same time she is venting her humiliation.

Caring for children's hearts is what parents should do most.